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AIBU to feel so weary of labour voters going on

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livingonstrawbs · 09/05/2026 15:01

I think if people in real life knew I was saying this, they would be shocked or maybe not.

Reform are not my politics but I'm honestly so fed up of labour voting friends lamenting the rise of reform and blaming it all the greens and declaring everyone voting reform to be racist, stupid, ignorant.

Reform absolutely have some racist nutters but I do not believe that councils that were labour for more than 50 years turned reform because everyone became a racist overnight or is ok about racism.

Even saying yesterday that the rise of reform was down to failure of lab/conservative to do do anything other than maintain the status quo for many working class communities, let alone others, and the media to properly question, inform and hold to account farage was met with a barrage of hostility and false accusations. one person genuinely thinks this is all down to zack polanski and that farage has been questioned as hard as he has. Really?!?!

I should say by the way that I am a person of colour, was on free school meals, ended up going to Oxbridge and doing professionally well even if it's not lucrative. that's fine - those are all my choices. I'm miles better off than many other people and I know that. But i'm still very connected to the community i grew up in and see how working class people of all races etc without the same chances are living in immense poverty and the grind that is going on for them. Meanwhile, my very affluent labour voting friends seem to repeat 'labour is the best of a bad bunch.' for who, i say?? maybe for you. but honestly, when life is continualy shit, people do vote for change and will vote for reform or greens.

i'm just sick of being patronised and told i'm stupid, ignorant etc etc.

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MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 10:06

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 10:04

And the leader of the Green party allowed racist candidates to represent the party, thus endorsing antisemitism. Do you want me to list all the awful things that have been said by various Green party candidates or by those already in post because I could?

How does the fact that some Green Party members have been revealed as racists affect the fact that Farage, the leader of Reform, is a massive racist?

MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 10:05

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 10:00

I think you're probably right that "there is a much larger percentage of racist reform voters than there is of antisemitic Green voters" (because many Green voters are idealists and not motivated by race issues) but I disagree that there is a "sliding scale of atrociousness" when it comes to racism.

It's as bad to be antisemitic as it is to be anti Muslim or anti Black people or any other form of racism. It's disgusting that Polanski is allowing the Green party to be represented by some people who have expressed openly antisemitic views.

And it's equally disgusting that Farage allows Reform to be represented by certain people such as the man mentioned above who is openly racist.

It's disgusting that Farage allows Reform to be represented by racists?

It's kind of baked in!

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 10:04

MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 09:55

The leader of Reform is a racist.

Reform voters are not necessarily racist, but they don't mind voting for a party whose leader is a racist.

And the leader of the Green party allowed racist candidates to represent the party, thus endorsing antisemitism. Do you want me to list all the awful things that have been said by various Green party candidates or by those already in post because I could?

RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 10:03

Hallowedturf · 10/05/2026 09:28

Do you think that message has reached Starmer, and the cabinet?

And, if so, talk aside, do you think they are willing and able to change course?

One would like to hope that they do. It would be very short sighted not to.

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 10:02

keepswimming38 · 10/05/2026 09:58

I know that @Twiglets1! She said I ended up at Oxbridge. So I asked which one? Maybe she’s so clever she went to both Oxford and Cambridge!

Maybe she doesn't want to say as a lot of people don't like to give away private information on MN.

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 10:00

Nellodee · 10/05/2026 08:18

Both are populist parties led by snake oil salesmen, but Farage is legions worse than Polanski and my feeling is that there is a much larger percentage of racist reform voters than there is of antisemitic Green voters. Not all parties are the same, there is most definitely a sliding scale of atrociousness and reform are, in my opinion, worse than greens. Lots of the reform voters I know are racist. None of the Green voters I know are antisemitic, They tend to be more of the type that are “so open minded their brains have fallen out”. I don’t live in an area with à l high Muslim population, so I imagine my viewpoint is skewed by my experience. Lots of the “non-racist” reform voters I know see the same spread of people that I do, so why are they less bothered by it?

In addition, Labour has been horrendously cowardly in not taking a far stronger stand on the war crimes in Palestine. I can understand people marching in protests against war crimes, and we should all protest, but it’s impossible to march without doing so alongside “internationalise the intifada” types, so I don’t know what the solution is there.

I think you're probably right that "there is a much larger percentage of racist reform voters than there is of antisemitic Green voters" (because many Green voters are idealists and not motivated by race issues) but I disagree that there is a "sliding scale of atrociousness" when it comes to racism.

It's as bad to be antisemitic as it is to be anti Muslim or anti Black people or any other form of racism. It's disgusting that Polanski is allowing the Green party to be represented by some people who have expressed openly antisemitic views.

And it's equally disgusting that Farage allows Reform to be represented by certain people such as the man mentioned above who is openly racist.

keepswimming38 · 10/05/2026 09:58

I know that @Twiglets1! She said I ended up at Oxbridge. So I asked which one? Maybe she’s so clever she went to both Oxford and Cambridge!

MasterBeth · 10/05/2026 09:55

The leader of Reform is a racist.

Reform voters are not necessarily racist, but they don't mind voting for a party whose leader is a racist.

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 09:54

keepswimming38 · 10/05/2026 09:03

Where’s Oxbridge? Do you mean you ended up at Oxford? That’s all I’ve taken from this sorry!

Oxbridge means Oxford or Cambridge, not just Oxford.

EasternStandard · 10/05/2026 09:49

RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 09:26

However from Labour voters I’ve heard a lot of introspection, talking about how the party needs to change, re-position, new leadership etc. I think Labour realise they’ve fucked up

That's basically what our Labour councillors are saying, even the ones who were successful.

Labour doing the rounds today don’t seem to be saying this.

Pippin2017 · 10/05/2026 09:42

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 08:49

Newly elected Reform councillor believes the holocaust was a hoax.

www.jewishnews.co.uk/reform-uk-face-questions-after-holocaust-is-a-hoax-candidate-elected/

DH and I are wondering whether to have a small wager on how many newly elected Reform councillors are gone within 6 months for shit like this.

Pippin2017 · 10/05/2026 09:40

Sartre · 10/05/2026 08:33

The North East has been overlooked by successive governments for decades. Entrenched inequalities, higher rates of poverty and unemployment and lower educational outcomes in many communities compared with the UK average. That’s not a reflection of a lack of potential though, the North East is a brilliant part of the country with huge strengths. They’ve been left behind.

'overlooked'? We've had more money pumped into this region than any other. There's been millions spent attracting business. The people voting Reform will be the ones most adversely affected if they ever form a government. We're awash with flags in an area that's 98% white. Most people I know tempted by Reform are getting their news from social media, never fact check anything. Some of the comments I've heard are off the scale ludicrous. People are being told their lives are terrible - it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. The Most I know who are continually bemoaning hardship are actually living nice lives. The ones who are truly struggling are too busy surviving to worry about being told how hard their lives are.

Hallowedturf · 10/05/2026 09:28

RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 09:26

However from Labour voters I’ve heard a lot of introspection, talking about how the party needs to change, re-position, new leadership etc. I think Labour realise they’ve fucked up

That's basically what our Labour councillors are saying, even the ones who were successful.

Do you think that message has reached Starmer, and the cabinet?

And, if so, talk aside, do you think they are willing and able to change course?

RampantIvy · 10/05/2026 09:26

However from Labour voters I’ve heard a lot of introspection, talking about how the party needs to change, re-position, new leadership etc. I think Labour realise they’ve fucked up

That's basically what our Labour councillors are saying, even the ones who were successful.

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emuloc · 10/05/2026 09:19

Safarisagoody · 09/05/2026 16:23

It’s on here and the blame the tories mantra that makes me groan. Two child cap removed and the benefits bill through the roof, working people struggling to pay for it. It’s the tories fault, don’tcha know.

Whose fault is it then?

kirinm · 10/05/2026 09:17

Safarisagoody · 09/05/2026 16:23

It’s on here and the blame the tories mantra that makes me groan. Two child cap removed and the benefits bill through the roof, working people struggling to pay for it. It’s the tories fault, don’tcha know.

Whose fault do you think our financial situation is because if you think it’s 2 years of labour over 14 years of austerity and Brexit, you’re deluded.

keepswimming38 · 10/05/2026 09:03

Where’s Oxbridge? Do you mean you ended up at Oxford? That’s all I’ve taken from this sorry!

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 08:49

Newly elected Reform councillor believes the holocaust was a hoax.

www.jewishnews.co.uk/reform-uk-face-questions-after-holocaust-is-a-hoax-candidate-elected/

Hallowedturf · 10/05/2026 08:48

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 08:46

Voters are malleable. If they weren't which party would ever bother campaigning, issuing leaflets or making party political broadcasts.

Why would billionaires with a motive seek to own the media and social media?

The relentless drip of media - from the first day after the last election was intense. The Telegraph and Daily Mail were intense and hysterical in their reaction to the extent that my lifelong Telegraph reading elderly friend stopped buying it for the first time in their life. They said it had become a comic/tabloid.

We are all malleable and gullible to an extent but we have our limits.

We have our limits, agreed.

And, for many, those limits have evidently been exceeded.

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 08:46

Hallowedturf · 10/05/2026 08:30

Following that logic - voters are malleable and gullible.

I think that’s way too simplistic, and dangerous.

Voters are malleable. If they weren't which party would ever bother campaigning, issuing leaflets or making party political broadcasts.

Why would billionaires with a motive seek to own the media and social media?

The relentless drip of media - from the first day after the last election was intense. The Telegraph and Daily Mail were intense and hysterical in their reaction to the extent that my lifelong Telegraph reading elderly friend stopped buying it for the first time in their life. They said it had become a comic/tabloid.

We are all malleable and gullible to an extent but we have our limits.

Nellodee · 10/05/2026 08:40

Polanski has said he can hypnotise women into growing bigger boobs. Farage, as a teenager, sang “gas them all, gas them all, the long and the short and the tall” in the face of Jewish students and made other equally racist comments to black students. I wouldn’t vote for either of them, but I think Farage is the worse of the two. I can’t see how voters could get past that.

WildGarden · 10/05/2026 08:40

livingonstrawbs · 09/05/2026 20:20

I am sorry you're being called a racist on this thread. I would never vote for reform - I've seen too much of nigel farage and don't trust him at all and the lies he's peddled and I genuinely think for working people, their rights will be massively eroded and so much worse if he gets in.

but i completely understand why at this point people have voted for him if they believe he will deliver for them.

for the sake of transparency, I voted green yesterday. I cannot bring myself to vote for labour. I don't want more of the same that keeps a status quo. i want people to genuinely see a future for themselves and want higher taxes for corporations and billionaires that don't pay their fair share and more accesible housing. I'm not an anti semite either which is the other slur labelled by labour friends. the truth is i've always been a labour voter but ive just realised the party represents my labour friends with far different life experiences and futures ahead of them than me - so it makes sense that I would no longer align with this party.

This week we were voting for bin collections, street lighting, library opening times not corporation tax and the taxing of billionaires though.

You've said before you live in London and are surrounded by wealthy Labour voters. To be fair the country as a whole is very idfferent from London. You say your Labour voting friends don't want a redistribution of wealth - in which case Labour is the wrong party to be voting for isn't it? Surely the Tories would be a better bet? Or Reform whose MPs are all ex Tories.

Hallowedturf · 10/05/2026 08:34

Nellodee · 10/05/2026 08:32

Sorry, thinking more about it, my view of greens is probably shaped not by the fact that I don’t live in an area with lots of Muslims, but by the fact I don’t live in an area with lots of students. The “up for a fight” crowd on the Green side are probably concentrated in the “young, male and living away from home” demographic. The up for a fight on the right side seem to be more made up of middle aged wife beaters (40% of those arrested in the summer riots had previously been reported for domestic abuse).

They all have the vote, of course.

Whatever their background and motivations.

Sartre · 10/05/2026 08:33

Twiglets1 · 10/05/2026 07:32

Yes I’ve heard of him recently and it’s crazy to me that Farage didn’t sack him from the party at the time those comments first came to light.

I feel the public should make it clear we won’t tolerate racism in any form from political candidates. I hope Farage gets forced to belatedly sack him now.

The North East has been overlooked by successive governments for decades. Entrenched inequalities, higher rates of poverty and unemployment and lower educational outcomes in many communities compared with the UK average. That’s not a reflection of a lack of potential though, the North East is a brilliant part of the country with huge strengths. They’ve been left behind.

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