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To ask if you've ever played blind man's buff?

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scalt · 09/05/2026 12:59

The classic party game in which one player is blindfolded, and tries to find one of the others, who are moving about, and sometimes has to guess who they have found by feel, or hearing them speak in a disguised voice. The game is often referenced in old fiction, as something children would do for a bit of impromptu fun. "Let's play blind man's buff while we wait for supper!"

I think it's become a forgotten game, in this age of safety, or people think of it as belonging to the era of Charles Dickens. When I was recently discussing party games with some people in their thirties, none of them had heard of it. It's probably been banned from playgrounds, like conkers, and British Bulldog.

Did you ever play it? I don't think I did as a child, but I remember playing it as a teenager once, abroad on a school trip, while we had a dull moment outside in the cold, and this was to the bemusement of passing tourists.
YANBU - I played it
YABU - I never played it

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Bbq1 · 09/05/2026 13:25

We played it as a child. Also, wink murder.

VegQueen · 09/05/2026 13:22

Yes I played it as a child and I’m in my 30s now

Anewuser · 09/05/2026 13:21

We played it as children, and squeak piggy, squeak. Remarkably similar, where one person was blindfolded and sat on a child, said squeak piggy squeak and the child made a noise and had to be guessed who is was.

TallagallaPenguin · 09/05/2026 13:20

We never played it growing up in 80s/90s. We knew all about it - they were always playing it in books, stories etc - but I think we tried it once or twice and didn’t find it much fun really! Preferred Sardines, ticky scarecrow, hide and seek, musical chairs, colour corners etc.

FeliciaFancybottom · 09/05/2026 13:18

Buff means to bump or jostle; buff in slang means physically fit or naked.

MyOtherProfile · 09/05/2026 13:16

I'm in my 50s. We played Blind Man's Buff at every party for years.

TFImBackIn · 09/05/2026 13:15

No, buff isn't the British spelling! That means something else altogether!

We used to play it when we were kids. I'm in my 60s. My children have never played it, though.

RumJerrySailorRum · 09/05/2026 13:15

Always been Bluff where i'm from......thought it was a rude version you were referring to at first!!!

We also did the hats, scarves and gloves on to cut up a Mars bar!!

7catsisnotenough · 09/05/2026 13:15

I always thought it was "bluff" because you were trying to bluff the blindfolded person into thinking you were someone else who was playing to avoid being "out"? It was a party staple when I was small (50s)

RumJerrySailorRum · 09/05/2026 13:14

Always been Bluff where i'm from......thought it was a rude version you were referring to at first!!!

We also did the hats, scarves and gloves on to cut up a Mars bar!!

ChocolateApples · 09/05/2026 13:14

I'm in my 40s and I only ever read about it in books.

Plummagic · 09/05/2026 13:12

We always called it blind man's bluff. Never heard it call 'buff'

scalt · 09/05/2026 13:09

It seems to be "bluff" in the USA; "buff" is the original British spelling.

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AuntieDolly · 09/05/2026 13:07

Aka blind man’s bluff. Also musical chairs or bumps and pass the parcel. I liked postman’s knock the best though 😘

Itsseweasy · 09/05/2026 13:06

It’s Blind Man’s Bluff not buff!

Forty85 · 09/05/2026 13:01

Yes we used to play it all the time. My kids also played it with their cousins, friends who were over or the three of them. They are 21 and teens. Also used to play red rover and what's the time Mr wolf.

Edit to say I'm 40.

Cryingatthegym · 09/05/2026 13:00

Yes, I threw a little tea party for my niece's birthday last weekend and that was one of the games we played. I'm late 30s for reference.