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AIBU - Keir Starmer's ok - getting rid of him wouldn't help Labour

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Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 08:44

As a result of the disastrous results for Labour in the recent elections, many people - even within his own party - are now calling for Keir Starmer to stand down.

Would that really help Labour though? It seems to me that a lot of the reasons people are fed up - like the cost of living & housing crisis for example, are not his fault personally but more a result of years of underinvestment, mainly by previous Conservative governments.

Yes he does lack charisma and personally I think the Conservatives have a better leader in Kemi Badenoch. But I wouldn't vote for a political party purely based on how charismatic their leader is.

When you look at the alternatives - I like Wes Streeting but would he be able to turn around the fortunes of the Labour party before the next General Election - I doubt it. And the same goes for Andy Burnham, even if they did find a way to make him eligible for party leadership in time.

The Tories caused turmoil with their constant leadership challenges and it didn't help their brand. Starmer hasn't done anything too awful that I'm aware of - wouldn't it be better just to keep him in post?

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Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 10:06

I like Andy Burnham too but the idea he did well was because of his own talent isn’t the full story - Manchester had a ton of money thrown at it by the EU - and has. It benefited from comfortably off professionals moving to cheaper areas and plenty of developers following suit . Some of the success was luck in timing -

MrsShawnHatosy · 09/05/2026 10:04

OnceUponATimed · 09/05/2026 08:47

I am so split about this
He is very uncharismatic and a good leader should have charisma. He is also lacking a a strong vision, hence everything seems directionless.
They are bringing around some quite significant improvements to the country, but obviously the press, predominantly right wing in this country, are ignoring all of that.

I do feel it's a bit now, or never to allow time for a new leader to bed in.

Edited

I think charisma is overrated where politicians are concerned. Tony Blair had charisma and we ended up in an unnecessary war. Also Hitler had massive charisma!

nothereyesterday · 09/05/2026 10:00

SkipAd · 09/05/2026 09:02

I see an intelligent, educated, conviction led (not career led) politician who truly wants the best for the country.
I have also been very pleased with his attitude to Trump.
I like his quiet air of getting on with the job, which is night and day from Johnson’s performance based leadership.

But he’s not conviction led. Thats his big problem. He flails changing his position depending on what he thinks is most popular. He says women have penises ( which no one will have thought he truly believes), until he thinks that’s not popular now when he trumpets in parliament that labour protects single sex spaces, before going quiet again when there is more backlash than he expected. He’s managed to piss off both sides of opinion on the ME by his contrary positioning. he cuts welfare, then doesn’t. He is weak and without conviction. Who knows what he actually believes on anything.

People actually respect clear ,strong leaders who take positions they genuinely believe are in the best interests of the country, even when those positions will cause them to be unpopular with some major groups. KS is not that conviction politician.

Changingplace · 09/05/2026 09:58

Skinnysaluki · 09/05/2026 09:54

One of the problems with trying to get Burnham into parliament is that there is no longer any such thing as a Labour safe seat.

For example, Clive Lewis offered Burnham Norwich but Norwich now has a Green council. Up North, the safe seats are going to Reform and down south, they are going Green.

Why are there no Labour safe seats? Because they mean nothing to anyone.

‘Up north’ where exactly? Labour lost a lot of seats in Manchester but they’ve held the majority in most councils.

Changingplace · 09/05/2026 09:57

Scotiasdarling · 09/05/2026 09:50

Farage was gifted the £5million before he became an mp. Gifts to a private citizen are no-one else's business.

It’s not as simple as that, if someone takes office within 12 months of receiving a monetary gift they’re supposed to declare it under parliamentary rules, the electoral commission is still deciding whether to investigate further.

Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:56

nothereyesterday · 09/05/2026 09:50

Labour’s has much bigger problems than its leader!

It’s a party that got caught between the conflicting lives, experiences. priorities and values of its working class base and the university educated progressives. Labour chose to listen to the progressives. However, their beliefs are deeply out of step with most of the country, especially the working classes. The working classes now have a long memory of being ignored and insulted by the left who are more obsessed with correcting pronoun usage and micro aggressions than working people’s concerns. Furthermore, it’s hard for a mainstream party to be progressive enough for progressives, so defection to a frankly increasingly insane party like the Greens was always on the cards

So yes the cost of living etc won’t have helped, but Labour has a deep rooted issue of not really knowing who it is or who it’s for, and it’s the fact it never resolved that which has birthed its current problems.

Agree they have an identity crisis.

Labour probably would have done better to have stuck with focusing on their traditional core voter base especially working class people rather than getting bogged down with all these other minority issues which the Green party seem to be making their core issues, along with Gaza.

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Skinnysaluki · 09/05/2026 09:54

One of the problems with trying to get Burnham into parliament is that there is no longer any such thing as a Labour safe seat.

For example, Clive Lewis offered Burnham Norwich but Norwich now has a Green council. Up North, the safe seats are going to Reform and down south, they are going Green.

Why are there no Labour safe seats? Because they mean nothing to anyone.

Scotiasdarling · 09/05/2026 09:53

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 09/05/2026 09:50

TBH I was aghast when ‘Prince of Darkness’, sleazy Mandelson was appointed US ambassador, and still think Starmer’s judgement - regardless of what he was or wasn’t told - was woeful.

And he comes across, I’m afraid to say, as weak and totally uninspiring.

He also blames (and sacks) everyone else for his own stupid misjudgements.

Changingplace · 09/05/2026 09:53

OvernightBloats · 09/05/2026 09:37

One of the reasons he was voted in as Prime Minister is that he came across as a man of integrity. However the Mandelson scandal has highlighted that his judgement is skewed. How can anyone have thought it was a good idea to bring Mandelson into the role as US Ambassador?!

Starmer's judgement on other matters has been questionable as well.

I think they should’ve allowed the enquiry into what actually happened there to go through, blocking it was a bad look.

Scotiasdarling · 09/05/2026 09:50

Changingplace · 09/05/2026 09:25

Agreed, and it’s been reported just this week that Farage was gifted £5m, so Starmers gifts seem insignificant compared to that figure.

Farage was gifted the £5million before he became an mp. Gifts to a private citizen are no-one else's business.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 09/05/2026 09:50

TBH I was aghast when ‘Prince of Darkness’, sleazy Mandelson was appointed US ambassador, and still think Starmer’s judgement - regardless of what he was or wasn’t told - was woeful.

And he comes across, I’m afraid to say, as weak and totally uninspiring.

Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:50

Letsbe · 09/05/2026 09:19

Is ok what we want in these difficult times?

It's not what we want but it's probably the best we will realistically get.

Personally I think all the current party leaders are just ok or worse.

Kemi is the only current one that I think she's impressive with the way she speaks (but I have deep reservations about her party based on how they performed last time they were in power).

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nothereyesterday · 09/05/2026 09:50

Labour’s has much bigger problems than its leader!

It’s a party that got caught between the conflicting lives, experiences. priorities and values of its working class base and the university educated progressives. Labour chose to listen to the progressives. However, their beliefs are deeply out of step with most of the country, especially the working classes. The working classes now have a long memory of being ignored and insulted by the left who are more obsessed with correcting pronoun usage and micro aggressions than working people’s concerns. Furthermore, it’s hard for a mainstream party to be progressive enough for progressives, so defection to a frankly increasingly insane party like the Greens was always on the cards

So yes the cost of living etc won’t have helped, but Labour has a deep rooted issue of not really knowing who it is or who it’s for, and it’s the fact it never resolved that which has birthed its current problems.

SkipAd · 09/05/2026 09:47

EasternStandard · 09/05/2026 09:43

That’s not his main problem. If it was just that he’d not have the results he did.

So what is?
So far, one person has said he’s a grifter, qualified by agreeing that so are Johnson and Farage.
We understand why some/a lot of people don’t agree with Labour policies but what is the problem with Starmer in particular?
I agree with OP, I would really like to understand.

RS1987 · 09/05/2026 09:46

SkipAd · 09/05/2026 09:02

I see an intelligent, educated, conviction led (not career led) politician who truly wants the best for the country.
I have also been very pleased with his attitude to Trump.
I like his quiet air of getting on with the job, which is night and day from Johnson’s performance based leadership.

Completely agree with this

FudgeFudy · 09/05/2026 09:45

Erin1975 · 09/05/2026 08:51

He is in a difficult position. He is governing a country which is in decline while pretending that is not the case. For various reasons, some of our doing, some not, the UK is less well off than it was and this is likely to continue. Replacing Starmer will not fix that.

Exactly this. Whoever was drafted in to replace him would face exactly the same deep-rooted problems, would have the same lack of wriggle room to sort them out, and would also be hung drawn and quartered by the media when they failed to sort everything out in a couple of years. The idea that Andy Burnham or whoever is going to dramatically revive Labour's fortunes just because he's got a twinkle in his eye is for the birds.

Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:44

EasternStandard · 09/05/2026 09:43

That’s not his main problem. If it was just that he’d not have the results he did.

What is his main problem then?

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Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:44

Sartre · 09/05/2026 09:34

Personally think they’ve always needed someone like Burnham and this is the time for him to move in. He’s done a fantastic job in Manchester and I think he’d replicate that well nationally.

Burnham can't move in now though can he, as he isn't even an MP.

I think he should carry on doing the great job he is doing as mayor of Manchester until he is closer to the end of his current term (2028?) and move back to being an MP at that point if becoming a future PM still appeals to him.

Might work out better politically for him to wait a couple of years as tbh it seems pretty clear that Labour can't win the next GE, no matter who is in charge.

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EasternStandard · 09/05/2026 09:43

5foot5 · 09/05/2026 09:26

I agree with this.

I don't care if he is uncharismatic or boring. Boring is good compared to the freak show of so-called charismatic leaders around.

That’s not his main problem. If it was just that he’d not have the results he did.

Crikeyalmighty · 09/05/2026 09:41

@Twiglets1 couldn’t agree more - all that will happen is it gives the right wing press fresh meat to be out their raking up any dirt on someone and they won’t stop- he is dealing with huge world events and a buffoon on the White House changing rules like the wind and creating world instability . The local issues are issues throughout most of UK and are long standing - and trying to improve on shirt buttons after Tory lack of long term planning isa tough call -Farage isn’t the answer but maybe it has to happen for people to realise that - Labour get tough on people taking the piss and the further left are out there with the all should have cake nonsense and get tough the other way on tax and all those who’ve been avoiding it for years with trusts and passing off assets or overseas money and the express/tekegraph / mail up in arms -whilst still expecting decent services. I have mentioned endlessly German state health insurance is 380 euros a month each and yes pensioners pay in full

ThereIsThunderInOurHearts · 09/05/2026 09:39

To those of you saying but Johnson took x amount and Farage took x amount (in response to my post) - absolutely true and I hope you are sharing this data because you too hate lying, deceiving grifters who are on the make from being in public office. The figures I quoted point to the fact that no other Labour MP has taken so much free stuff and left so much of it undeclared.

Starmer is not the respectable quiet man in a suit you think he is. Not only is he a grifter and a liar, he throws people under buses when his personal decisions are challenged (the appointment of his pal Mandelson as an example).

He is cut from the same cloth as Farage and Johnson. Truly appalling to have such people in office.

Let's hope there are some decent public serving MPs waiting to oust him. That definitely excludes Wes 'sell off the NHS to his American lobby friends' Streeting.
I'd back Dr Rosena Allin-Khan, personally. The NHS would be safe in her leadership.

OvernightBloats · 09/05/2026 09:37

One of the reasons he was voted in as Prime Minister is that he came across as a man of integrity. However the Mandelson scandal has highlighted that his judgement is skewed. How can anyone have thought it was a good idea to bring Mandelson into the role as US Ambassador?!

Starmer's judgement on other matters has been questionable as well.

Ablondiebutagoody · 09/05/2026 09:36

Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:22

The centre ground is where I sit and probably no surprise that I liked Tony Blair (certainly a breath of fresh air after Thatcher!) until he became tarnished with bad decisions over foreign wars.

I feel like Starmer is fairly centrist which is probably why many people DON'T like him. But the country is feeling increasingly fragmented in my opinion with extreme Left or extreme Right politics gaining popularity.

Historically, the UK favours more moderate politics. But KS is facing the problem of trying (& failing because it's impossible) of keeping everyone happy. Which you illustrated the challenge of in your post. Because you criticise him for failing to reform the ever increasing welfare bill. Whereas others criticise him severely for attempting to reform it. So in that sense he can't win and that would be the case with whichever other leader he got replaced him with too.

Both sides criticise him, so he does nothing or u-turns. That's the problem right there. He needs to grow a pair and get on with it. Criticism goes with the territory.

Twiglets1 · 09/05/2026 09:35

Eskarina1 · 09/05/2026 09:21

I am with you on desperately not wanting a leadership change. Stability is needed more than anything else.

I saw a Labour spokesperson yesterday explain they need to create a coalition at the centre to win votes from the left and right but it doesn't feel like that's what they're doing. I imagine I'm the kind of voter they want- my instincts lean left but I generally vote centre-left. I've previously been a Labour party member. However, I see them dismissing appealing to Green voters because that would be too extreme, while chasing hard after reform loudest voters. I'm never going to vote for a party that pretends climate change isn't an issue, sound-bites that SEN is overdiagnosed or talks about stopping the boats and describes asylum seekers as illegal immigrants rather than having a proper grown up conversation about the negative impacts of immigration and how we tackle these.

Reform voters are never going to be won over by attempts to implement Reform policies because the reality of delivering these things is very different to radical soundbites.

They need a rational Labour plan and narrative. I don't want to see election campaigns fought by smear campaigns, I want them to deserve to win.

I think it would be even more disastrous for Labour if they formed a coalition with the Green party as they are too associated with antisemitism at the moment in my opinion, and Labour has worked hard to stop that association within their own party.

Maybe a pact between Labour and the Lib Dems - do people think that would be popular?

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bedfrog · 09/05/2026 09:35

5foot5 · 09/05/2026 09:26

I agree with this.

I don't care if he is uncharismatic or boring. Boring is good compared to the freak show of so-called charismatic leaders around.

Agreed (with you both) 100x. That's why I voted Labour at the GE

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