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AIBU to order a steak while short of money?

90 replies

Dogingarden · 07/05/2026 13:47

First of all this isn't a begging post and I don't want money from anyone.

I'm currently housebound while recovering from a major illness. Just starting to get my appetite back and I have a major craving for a steak. I genuinely can't stop thinking about it. I very rarely eat red meat in general and currently I'm not well enough to cook one by myself so I was planning on ordering one in for my dinner. Only issue is I have a very limited budget and it would leave me a bit short until I get paid next Friday.

Wibu?

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ERthree · 07/05/2026 20:27

CombatBarbie · 07/05/2026 13:57

Aldi steaks are nice if you know someone who could get you one

if i had to buy meat i would never buy from Aldi, all of their meat is Halal and i cannot agree with that practice.

Julimia · 07/05/2026 20:13

The decision is yours entirely nothing tondoo with anyone else. A little of what you fancy does you good anyway j

youalright · 07/05/2026 20:10

I hope you got your steak and really enjoyed it

Safarisagoody · 07/05/2026 20:03

If the pub is five mins away it won’t be ruined, in fact it will be better ss it will be rested properly.

how short is short op, can you afford to eat?

Doone22 · 07/05/2026 20:01

N4meChng · 07/05/2026 14:13

Do you think you might be anaemic? I craved steak when pregnant and anaemic? If so, some iron tablets might be a cheaper and better option for now?

I think you'll find Liver, kidney, hearts and other offal will be far cheaper than iron supplements and tastier.

Justthethingsthatyoudointhisgarden · 07/05/2026 20:01

Get some iron and B12 tablets while you're at it. When you are well enough, ask your gp to get your bloods checked.

Doctor1988 · 07/05/2026 19:54

If it leaves you short I would say no, don’t.

ElleJayC · 07/05/2026 19:46

I definitely would if:
-being a bit short doesn’t mean leaving bills unpaid or children not fed etc
-I could guarantee the steak was good as it’s not something that’s often done well by even the nicest pubs and it would be so disappointing

I think I’d probably go for a really nice thick proper burger instead if the pub did one as they’re always cheaper and often nicer so might hit the spot. Ooh I think I’ve given myself a craving now.

DoomCup · 07/05/2026 19:43

Have the steak OP.

If it's only a few minutes away as opposed to sitting in an insulated Just-Eat bag on the bag of a bike for 45 minutes, I'm sure it'll keep just fine.

How short will you leave yourself? Will you have enough to eat simple meals and any transport costs until you get paid?

Drknittingfrog · 07/05/2026 19:40

LulaLulaByeBye · 07/05/2026 14:13

I wonder if you are low on iron? I went through a stage of craving steak and spinach when I was low on iron.

I was thinking the exact same... Often cravings have a completely legitimate cause. So have the steak and enjoy it... And get your iron checked . Get well soon🫂

Sprinkleofspice · 07/05/2026 19:32

If the pleasure and pick-me-up that you get from the steak will be greater than the stress you will feel from being short of money then do it. If not then I would wait because it’s not worth it for a piece of meat

Xmasallergies · 07/05/2026 19:18

I get like this when I need iron supplements! Maybe you need a blood test? 🙂

Butterme · 07/05/2026 19:12

If it’s going to leave you short then of course YABU.

Could you save money anywhere else?

If so then I’d definitely do it (but I’d personally wait and try and go to the pub and eat it freshly made).

AnneLovesGilbert · 07/05/2026 18:42

I’ve never eaten steak, roughly how much does one cost? What will you have to go without?

fedupandtired1 · 07/05/2026 18:35

when I was very low in iron I craved steaks like I’d never done before . It’s a shame you have no one to cook as I think it would be limp and chewy delivered

YellowDogg · 07/05/2026 18:33

Enjoy the steak, hope you feel better soon.

If it’s not already prescription strength iron then look into upping that if you can!

Legolaslady · 07/05/2026 18:29

Can you order something else that would hint you a similar 'hit'? Chinese stir-fry beef etc?

NothinLeftToTax · 07/05/2026 18:29

If the pub is only 5 minutes away are you well enough to go and have your steak there?
I personally would treat myself but never have such a fine specimen as a beautifully cooked steak delivered in a grotty polystyrene tray.
I would go without until I was well enough to eat it freshly prepared at the pub table.

SweepLovesSoo · 07/05/2026 18:18

BloodandGlitter · 07/05/2026 17:14

Just go for it and enjoy it. Being poor doesn't mean you should give up all luxuries and it sounds like you could do with the nutrition if you haven't been eating.

Surely that is what it means.
The OP can’t afford a steak.

In the same way that a person might need a car to get to work, there are other ways of getting there than in a Bentley if you can’t afford a Bentley.

If she’s unwell, being so broke she can’t afford to eat because she uber eats in a steak isn’t going to help.

nomas · 07/05/2026 18:12

Dogingarden · 07/05/2026 17:01

I'm already taking iron because I am very anemic due to my surgery and treatment.

I think leave the steak for when you have more money. Especially as you can’t cook at the moment so presumably you’re eating ready made food which can work out more expensive. What kinds of food are you eating?

In the mean time, how much iron are you taking? I take 210g morning and night.

honeylulu · 07/05/2026 18:08

Newmeagain · 07/05/2026 13:58

Are you sure you can’t cook it? Unless you are bed bound all you need to do is pop in a frying pan with a small amount of olive oil and sit in a chair next to it so you can keep an eye on it. Have it with a baguette and some salad leaves.

This is what I would suggest too. Steak only takes a few minutes to cook and isn't difficult as long as you don't get distracted! Idea of sitting in a chair to cook is a good one. I used to do this when I was pregnant and tired/dizzy.

BiteSizeByzantine · 07/05/2026 17:48

Get it, your body wants the iron and protein. You can eat beans on toast another day!

crumpetswithcheeze · 07/05/2026 17:45

I would. You said yourself you’re recovering from a major illness. You should be kind to, and look after yourself. Do you think you could have anaemia? Craving meat can be a symptom of low iron. Black pudding is also high in iron, if that’s something you eat. Hope you are feeling better soon.

namechangingeasy · 07/05/2026 17:41

Im sorry im going to sound boring.

A week is quite a long time. What will you be short of? Do you otherwise have enough food for the week? Would you miss rent, mortgage, utilities or a credit card payment? (If so do you need a good credit history for things like a mortgage application) Will it only affect you?

Id have the same concern about whether the steak keeping, but if those basics are covered go for it. And thoroughly enjoy it without guilt.

Do get another iron check - if you are still very low and been on iron long enough that it should have improved you might need an infusion.

OfficerChurlish · 07/05/2026 17:33

If you've had the steak from that pub before and know it's similar to what you want, I'd be tempted to go for it - often with an unshakable craving, you can end up spending MORE time, energy, and money trying to substitute something more accessible and sensible because the craving isn't satisfied and doesn't go away so you keep trying something else. OTOH, it depends on how being a bit a bit short will impact you; if you're incapacitated or your movements severely limited you may want to have a little extra money on hand just in case of anything unexpected.

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