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Vaping while pushing pram?

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Clover96 · 06/05/2026 16:38

My baby is 7 days old today, first baby so everything is still new and my emotions a bit up and down.

Am I being overly cautious / unreasonable about this though, because I really don't see how I am.

Would you find it acceptable to take baby out in the pram and have a vape at the same time? They have the opinion that it's fine because you wouldn't be directly blowing it in their face or in their direction, there's "things like car fumes too", and there's no way they'd want to go on hour walk with baby without the vape.

OP posts:
PencilsInSpace · 06/05/2026 23:27

This thread has inspired me to finish the bingo card I've been working on ...

Vaping while pushing pram?
plodding6 · 06/05/2026 23:10

LilacWineIsSweetAndHeady · 06/05/2026 20:42

This is one of the (many) areas of life that mn seems to be completely hysterical about.
Unless you are quite literally funneling vape particulates towards the babies face the amount they can possibly breathe in whilst on a walk outside is miniscule (assuming the vaper is sensible and blows the 'smoke' away from the pram).
I am going to be that person that brings up fumes from petrol and diesel engines being a massively more significant factor to our children's respiratory health. Any child in a pram outside in a large town or city is breathing in huge amounts of chemicals that no parent would want their children to ingest, does every single mumsnetter take their children out of the city to only walk in the (relatively) fresh air of the countryside? Do you all keep your windows closed at all times and have air purifiers running at home? How about school, hope they are set well away from main roads with windows closed and air purifiers running for the entire school day and they are absolutely not allowed out into the play ground?
I wanted to wait a while before properly commenting in order to play vapers bingo:
Adult dummies ✅
Chavvy ✅
Just icky ✅
Poster that coughs every time they get within 40 feet of a vape ✅
If most people on this thread are honest with themselves they view vaping as a working class/lower class pass time and that is what gives them the 'ick' about it rather than any actual credible threat to a baby in a pram outdoors.

Exactly this. It is literally MN bingo every time someone starts a vaping thread and it always boils down to what it looks like (adult dummies) and how chavvy/skanky/tacky it is. Pure judgement and superiority rather than genuine health concerns.

NHS states that ‘second hand vaping’ is a myth so this wouldn’t worry me too much if it were outdoors.

Clearly vaping is not a good habit to pick up but it’s very amusing to see how many people fall over themselves to be so condescending and rude about it.

LondonSymphony · 06/05/2026 21:54

God forbid they might be able to vape for an hour. How do the get on a flight? Or at work?

PencilsInSpace · 06/05/2026 21:53

MatchingLuggage · 06/05/2026 21:00

I work in children’s healthcare. We don’t have all the data (yet) on the risk of vapes but there is a nice summary here from the professional body for children’s doctors of concerns bills.parliament.uk/publications/58020/documents/5726

I don't have time to go through all the references in that submission but I note they've included EVALI quite prominently in their list of supporting evidence which makes it hard for me to take anything they say seriously.

Whoever wrote that should be thoroughly ashamed of themselves.

Franjipanl8r · 06/05/2026 21:42

I wouldn’t even let my DH take a 7 day old out for a walk by himself for more than half an hour. I’d want to be nearby in case they woke up and were inconsolable. I know it’s not what you’re asking but surely he can go half an hour without a vape!

QueenBambi · 06/05/2026 21:28

Anything unnatural that your baby breathes in is not good for them. Of course you cannot vape while pushing your new born in a pram! You should never vape near any child.

Slowdownyouredoingfine · 06/05/2026 21:26

I tried a vape for one day to quit smoking, it completely fucked my lungs up and left me with the most horrendous cough and chest pains for weeks. It cannot be harmless!!

durdledoris · 06/05/2026 21:19

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 20:58

No I don’t mind. My kids don’t have the slightest interest in my vape. They know that I’m an adult and I’m therefore allowed to do certain things that they are not. I want them to know I’m human. I don’t try to pretend to be perfect because that’s not realistic or sustainable. So your kids have never seen you have a glass of wine or heard a swear word slip out??…

Maybe they'll mind when you get ill and they become your carer in the future. But you do you.

SerenaCat93 · 06/05/2026 21:18

jinglejanglescarecat · 06/05/2026 21:10

It smells horrible and it’s horrible having it blown in your face.

I think the dummy reference is because some people need to have it in the mouths a lot. Like they rely on it. Like in the OP - the person can’t go an hour without it. So it’s an addiction.

Chain smokers have always existed. My grandad was a policeman and him and all his coppers lit the new one off the stub of the old one before it went cold. I've never heard anyone describe a cigarette as an adult dummy or a stinky dummy though.

jinglejanglescarecat · 06/05/2026 21:11

Charlize43 · 06/05/2026 21:09

Tattoos on babies are a no no as well.

Careful. You’ll get labelled a snob 😂😂😂

jinglejanglescarecat · 06/05/2026 21:10

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 21:07

This. Exactly. I get not liking smoking, there’s many evidence-backed studies about how harmful second-hand smoke is, plus it stinks. But vaping? It’s literally not offensive or harmful to anyone else. So it just shows that those condemning it on here being incredibly snobby and small-minded. And what’s the adult dummy thing all about? How is it anything like a dummy?!

It smells horrible and it’s horrible having it blown in your face.

I think the dummy reference is because some people need to have it in the mouths a lot. Like they rely on it. Like in the OP - the person can’t go an hour without it. So it’s an addiction.

Charlize43 · 06/05/2026 21:09

Tattoos on babies are a no no as well.

jinglejanglescarecat · 06/05/2026 21:08

LilacWineIsSweetAndHeady · 06/05/2026 20:42

This is one of the (many) areas of life that mn seems to be completely hysterical about.
Unless you are quite literally funneling vape particulates towards the babies face the amount they can possibly breathe in whilst on a walk outside is miniscule (assuming the vaper is sensible and blows the 'smoke' away from the pram).
I am going to be that person that brings up fumes from petrol and diesel engines being a massively more significant factor to our children's respiratory health. Any child in a pram outside in a large town or city is breathing in huge amounts of chemicals that no parent would want their children to ingest, does every single mumsnetter take their children out of the city to only walk in the (relatively) fresh air of the countryside? Do you all keep your windows closed at all times and have air purifiers running at home? How about school, hope they are set well away from main roads with windows closed and air purifiers running for the entire school day and they are absolutely not allowed out into the play ground?
I wanted to wait a while before properly commenting in order to play vapers bingo:
Adult dummies ✅
Chavvy ✅
Just icky ✅
Poster that coughs every time they get within 40 feet of a vape ✅
If most people on this thread are honest with themselves they view vaping as a working class/lower class pass time and that is what gives them the 'ick' about it rather than any actual credible threat to a baby in a pram outdoors.

But if people are breathing all that in anyway - why add one more??

just don’t do it. It’s not good for anyone. You’re adding to all the crap you’ve listed.

Don’t need to get hysterical - just sharing views and commenting on a thread asking for views!

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 21:07

LilacWineIsSweetAndHeady · 06/05/2026 20:42

This is one of the (many) areas of life that mn seems to be completely hysterical about.
Unless you are quite literally funneling vape particulates towards the babies face the amount they can possibly breathe in whilst on a walk outside is miniscule (assuming the vaper is sensible and blows the 'smoke' away from the pram).
I am going to be that person that brings up fumes from petrol and diesel engines being a massively more significant factor to our children's respiratory health. Any child in a pram outside in a large town or city is breathing in huge amounts of chemicals that no parent would want their children to ingest, does every single mumsnetter take their children out of the city to only walk in the (relatively) fresh air of the countryside? Do you all keep your windows closed at all times and have air purifiers running at home? How about school, hope they are set well away from main roads with windows closed and air purifiers running for the entire school day and they are absolutely not allowed out into the play ground?
I wanted to wait a while before properly commenting in order to play vapers bingo:
Adult dummies ✅
Chavvy ✅
Just icky ✅
Poster that coughs every time they get within 40 feet of a vape ✅
If most people on this thread are honest with themselves they view vaping as a working class/lower class pass time and that is what gives them the 'ick' about it rather than any actual credible threat to a baby in a pram outdoors.

This. Exactly. I get not liking smoking, there’s many evidence-backed studies about how harmful second-hand smoke is, plus it stinks. But vaping? It’s literally not offensive or harmful to anyone else. So it just shows that those condemning it on here being incredibly snobby and small-minded. And what’s the adult dummy thing all about? How is it anything like a dummy?!

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 21:07

LilacWineIsSweetAndHeady · 06/05/2026 20:42

This is one of the (many) areas of life that mn seems to be completely hysterical about.
Unless you are quite literally funneling vape particulates towards the babies face the amount they can possibly breathe in whilst on a walk outside is miniscule (assuming the vaper is sensible and blows the 'smoke' away from the pram).
I am going to be that person that brings up fumes from petrol and diesel engines being a massively more significant factor to our children's respiratory health. Any child in a pram outside in a large town or city is breathing in huge amounts of chemicals that no parent would want their children to ingest, does every single mumsnetter take their children out of the city to only walk in the (relatively) fresh air of the countryside? Do you all keep your windows closed at all times and have air purifiers running at home? How about school, hope they are set well away from main roads with windows closed and air purifiers running for the entire school day and they are absolutely not allowed out into the play ground?
I wanted to wait a while before properly commenting in order to play vapers bingo:
Adult dummies ✅
Chavvy ✅
Just icky ✅
Poster that coughs every time they get within 40 feet of a vape ✅
If most people on this thread are honest with themselves they view vaping as a working class/lower class pass time and that is what gives them the 'ick' about it rather than any actual credible threat to a baby in a pram outdoors.

This. Exactly. I get not liking smoking, there’s many evidence-backed studies about how harmful second-hand smoke is, plus it stinks. But vaping? It’s literally not offensive or harmful to anyone else. So it just shows that those condemning it on here being incredibly snobby and small-minded. And what’s the adult dummy thing all about? How is it anything like a dummy?!

SerenaCat93 · 06/05/2026 21:07

Okiedokie123 · 06/05/2026 21:01

@SerenaCat93 you are the only one on this thread that seems angry, triggered or juvenile in your responses. You might want to work on that.

Sure. Several posters have called the stinky dummy thing juvenile though, did you miss it? Maybe the vape cloud obscured your vision 👍

PacificState · 06/05/2026 21:03

As a posh person who vapes like a mofo I would like to applaud @SerenaCat93 and her work on this bonkers thread

(OP, it’s your kid — if you don’t want people vaping around them, that’s 100% your call)

jinglejanglescarecat · 06/05/2026 21:02

No I wouldn’t like it. They’re horrible and smell bad.

Okiedokie123 · 06/05/2026 21:01

@SerenaCat93 you are the only one on this thread that seems angry, triggered or juvenile in your responses. You might want to work on that.

MatchingLuggage · 06/05/2026 21:00

I work in children’s healthcare. We don’t have all the data (yet) on the risk of vapes but there is a nice summary here from the professional body for children’s doctors of concerns bills.parliament.uk/publications/58020/documents/5726

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 21:00

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 20:58

No I don’t mind. My kids don’t have the slightest interest in my vape. They know that I’m an adult and I’m therefore allowed to do certain things that they are not. I want them to know I’m human. I don’t try to pretend to be perfect because that’s not realistic or sustainable. So your kids have never seen you have a glass of wine or heard a swear word slip out??…

Plus I’m probably making it very uncool in their minds..so hopefully that’ll make them less likely to take it up themselves when they’re older. No kid wants to take up the habits of their parents!!

Seymorbutts · 06/05/2026 20:58

durdledoris · 06/05/2026 19:52

So you don't mind your kids seeing you do it? Hardly setting a good example is it?

No I don’t mind. My kids don’t have the slightest interest in my vape. They know that I’m an adult and I’m therefore allowed to do certain things that they are not. I want them to know I’m human. I don’t try to pretend to be perfect because that’s not realistic or sustainable. So your kids have never seen you have a glass of wine or heard a swear word slip out??…

Lala87 · 06/05/2026 20:57

So I take it busting out the crack pipe is also a no go?

Asking for a friend

Zanatdy · 06/05/2026 20:50

I don’t think it’s a good look is it. Not as bad as someone smoking and pushing a pram but not great either.

SerenaCat93 · 06/05/2026 20:49

Okiedokie123 · 06/05/2026 20:32

@SerenaCat93 the only one on this thread who seems angry is you……

Amongst the people I know it’s a commonly held opinion that yup vaping = stinky dummies. No reason to be angry. It just looks stupid and is an unpleasant habit (albeit less socially annoying than smoking which does smell a lot worse). So many vaping shops in town is also annoying but again not a reason for anger.

Stinky dummies 😂

Jesus. It's just so juvenile.