NC for obvious reasons!
Work night out the weekend before last. There was a drunken/joking conversation between several of us about onlyfans. Consensus that no one would go the full way on there but selling clothing would be an acceptable way to make money. All lighthearted discussion of course.
One of the (male) colleagues involved in the discussion was on holiday last week.
At the weekend, I received a late night DM on social media from him along the lines of ‘if you were being serious about selling your underwear, I don’t mind paying. Our secret’
I ignored it. The next morning, he messaged to apologise and said his friend stole his phone and sent it as a dare.
I don’t believe him for a second.
Would you report to HR? He is younger, early 20’s.