Due to all 3 kids now at school I have gone from a bit of a lurker to a poster, and can't help notice that there is a race to the bottom mentality on MN when somebody asks for financial help.
Now let me prefix this by saying I think there is great budgeting posts and advice on here that help people - that is not what I am talking about.
It's the "get rid of Netflix" or " eat meat once a week"
I mean perish the thought that somebody with not much money who doesn't have holidays, days out, etc - gets to watch the odd boxset or have a bacon sandwich!