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AIBU to think many pubs are overrated and not very welcoming?

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Bertiebiscuit · 05/05/2026 10:14

More banging on in the news about pubs closing, who cares? Most of them are annoying blokey places, not much use to those like me who hate beer and sport and are sneered at for wanting decent sherry or good wine, which most pubs are very bad at. London pubs are especially awful, not enough seating, horrible music, very poor toilets and t v s broadcasting sport. Nightmare. Only Wetherspoons seems to get it right, affordable food, good range of wine and cocktails, lots of seating inside and out - I can ignore the sport. If I'm buying alcohol at ordinary London prices i expect somewhere comfortable to sit and decent facilities, most pubs aimed at men i suspect. So good riddance. I wish we were more like Europe, cafes serving alcohol as well as coffee and food.

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Lmnop22 · 05/05/2026 10:47

Most people going to pubs are going for beer and sports. It would be ludicrous for pubs to stop offering those in order to attract the once in a while visitor who wants to sip a sherry in silence…!

You’d simply have more fun if you went to a wine bar or similar, pubs aren’t for you but that doesn’t make them the problem.

WilfredsPies · 05/05/2026 10:43

More banging on in the news about pubs closing, who cares? The people who live and work in them? The communities they serve?

There are pubs that cater to every taste, whether that’s sports, dining, music, the ambience, or all about the quality of the alcohol. If you can’t find one you prefer to Wetherspoons, in London of all places, then I don’t know what to say to you. Maybe pubs just aren’t your thing.

sunflowersandsunsets · 05/05/2026 10:41

Ifailed · 05/05/2026 10:20

If Wetherspoons is your idea of a good pub, then yes other pubs are not for you.

Took the words right out of my mouth.

ACIGC · 05/05/2026 10:30

You haven’t found the right pub for you. One of my absolute favourites is a little micropub type place, big on its craft ales and lagers but absolutely takes no issue with me wanting my Prosecco.

Dweetfidilove · 05/05/2026 10:27

You can visit the pretend pubs that are more like restaurants. They tend not to show sports, have good drinks and ample seating.

inmyhair · 05/05/2026 10:24

There are lots of pubs around so usually people can find one that suits them whether thats child friendly, sport oriented, has a pool table, good food, etc.

Not everyone suits pubs though. Sounds like it's just not for you.

Edited to add - just out of interest - how much money have you spent in pubs so far this year, roughly.

Ifailed · 05/05/2026 10:20

If Wetherspoons is your idea of a good pub, then yes other pubs are not for you.

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