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Do people pretend not to know who people are in order to seem intelligent?

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coulditbeme2323 · 05/05/2026 09:35

Do people pretend not to know who people are in order to seem intelligent?

This question is prompted from reading comments online re The Met Gala?

Now let me prefix this by saying I have no interest in reality tv, Showbiz mags, etc - but surely there are some people who you know who they are because everybody does!

There were people saying "who" on a photo of Kim Kardashian. I have never seen an episode of the show, have no interest in her, but of course I know who she is - because how can you not?

Another British example is Jordan/Kate Price. No interest in her, but she has literally been headline news in The UK for 20 years. If you live in The UK - surely its impossible to not at least know who she is?

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LubyLooTwo · 09/05/2026 20:29

I think people who follow KK or KP are often people with low intelligence. Why does anyone watch that nonsense?

NeverDropYourMooncup · 09/05/2026 20:27

If I recognise some of these people or can say I've heard of the name or seen a picture that turns out to be them, it's in spite of a lack of interest, not because I'm trying to be viewed as highbrow or ditzy or oblivious (or whatever criticism is being directed at me).

I'm sure they wouldn't be interested in my ability to recognise characters in Star Trek, the animated characters of Ray Harryhausen, the difference between a Woodlouse and a Pill Millipede or the approximate date and origin of assorted Bronze Age armour.

AlexStocks · 09/05/2026 20:17

I literally have zero attention for famous people. I don't watch many movies and honestly? My brain taken up by other things in my irls life. I can barely keep Royal family members straight.

Suze90 · 09/05/2026 19:50

Just to add another perspective, I have some face-blindness so even celebs I’ve heard of I might not pull out of a line up! Especially if the “clue” to their appearance is missing (for example, I’ll remember people by a hairstyle or other prominent feature and if that changes it really throws me!). This is also a problem in real life!
for example, from the celebs you mentioned, I’d recognise Adele before she lost weight, but thin Adele I’d be totally unable to pick out of a line up 🤷🏻‍♀️

that, coupled with a general lack of engagement with celeb culture means my partner will often have to field “who’s that?” Comments from me over celebs 😂

however, I wouldn’t go to the effort of commenting that on a post about them!

ScreamingBeans · 09/05/2026 19:18

I wouldn't recognise a Kardashian. I'd recognise Katie Price.

Griff123 · 09/05/2026 19:10

Also read Stuart Hall. I can't remember who came up with the framework: Good/good, Good/bad, Bad/good, Bad, bad. Where the first adjective is the subjective aim for literary reception, and the second is the realisation of that.

mustardrarebit · 09/05/2026 18:52

Lomonald · 05/05/2026 09:40

If anybody is saying "who" to Kim K they are definitely acting ignorant and probably are being obtuse, i think it just makes look silly when they act superior like that.

I saw a clip of her taking a really tight dress off recently and if it hadn't been titled with her name I wouldn't have realised who she was. Possibly one of her sisters, but her face has changed. I pay very little attention to celebrity stuff, but I don't think it makes me superior, just very apathetic about celebrities. I don't have the shits to give, and unless something pops up that interests me I ignore it. In this case I thought the dress looked awesome.

Blue44Lady · 09/05/2026 18:31

I recognise the names but wouldn't be able to pick them out in a line-up. No interest in what passes for 'celebrity' nowadays (ie vacuous attention-seekers)

mamaduckbone · 09/05/2026 07:41

I don’t follow that kind of celebrity world at all. I’d know who Katie Price was because she’s been around since the 90s but although I’ve heard of the Kardashians / Jenners etc I probably wouldn’t know who they were in a photo. I don’t think I’m more intelligent / superior at all but that’s the truth - I wouldn’t be pretending!

PhaedraTwo · 09/05/2026 07:31

There's a thread appearing in the trending list about people called Tess Daley and Vernon Kay who have split. I've never heard of them.

FernandoSor · 08/05/2026 12:16

SemiRetiredLoveGoddeess · 06/05/2026 07:34

Older people often don't watch Celeb type progs or mundane, boring soaps.And have no idea who these people are and would probably have no.interst in them anyway.

But they do watch the news and maybe bits of Social.media post sites.

Bur l.think.you would have to live in a cave not to know who Jordan and KK are. Or Taylor Swift for that matter.

We are so bombarded with media junk these days. That it is virtually impossible to escape from it.

Nowhere to run and nowhere to hide?

Well, my parents get their entire media exposure from Radio 3, the BBC 6 o’clock news (only watch the headlines usually), and the Economist and Gramaphone magazines. The highlights of their year are Glyndebourne and Wimbledon.

They certainly would have no interest in social media. I can guarantee they would have no idea who Kim Kardashian, Katie Price, or Taylor Swift are. Their last contact with popular culture was probably going to a Shirley Collins concert in 1967.

Cojones · 08/05/2026 11:15

I know a few of the reality tv stars because sometimes you can’t avoid them.

I’m aware of MAFS, Geordie Shores, Love Island and any of the Housewives of shows. They don’t entertain me so I don’t watch them so I wouldn’t know who the people are.

Same with today’s crop of musicians, they’re undoubtedly talented but I don’t follow music like I did in my teens so couldn’t put names to faces.

It’s not snobbery or intelligence, just that my interests have changed

SpringIsSpringing2026 · 07/05/2026 22:09

slashlover · 05/05/2026 10:19

People do the same in threads when someone dies. You will always get someone who comments "Who?" instead of Googling or just scrolling on.

Yeah that's nasty.

Quite often I'm thinking 'who?' But google them to see if I recognise them/find out who they are.

dreaminglife · 06/05/2026 20:20

I don't know what Kim Kardashian looks like - I knew what Katie Price looked like when she was in the Jungle but probably not now. Not interested.

Poppyfie1ds · 06/05/2026 19:42

Everyone tends to have a Kardashian look nowadays. I couldn’t identify her in a line-up. I always get Katie Price and Katie Piper mixed up to. Not sure intelligence has anything to do with it?

mycheeseplantiscalledcharles · 06/05/2026 18:35

Snakebite61 · 06/05/2026 18:21

I don't know 90% of so called celebrities these days. The term is pointless now. Only appeals to vacuous minds.

When celebrity edition TV programmes are on, I literally haven't heard of one of them.

Snakebite61 · 06/05/2026 18:21

coulditbeme2323 · 05/05/2026 09:35

Do people pretend not to know who people are in order to seem intelligent?

This question is prompted from reading comments online re The Met Gala?

Now let me prefix this by saying I have no interest in reality tv, Showbiz mags, etc - but surely there are some people who you know who they are because everybody does!

There were people saying "who" on a photo of Kim Kardashian. I have never seen an episode of the show, have no interest in her, but of course I know who she is - because how can you not?

Another British example is Jordan/Kate Price. No interest in her, but she has literally been headline news in The UK for 20 years. If you live in The UK - surely its impossible to not at least know who she is?

I don't know 90% of so called celebrities these days. The term is pointless now. Only appeals to vacuous minds.

SerafinasGoose · 06/05/2026 17:31

OnlyHasEyesForLoki · 06/05/2026 12:22

I think those people do know who people like Kim Kardashian and Katie Price and it’s not so much they want to appear intelligent by saying “Who?” they are dismissing them as being not worthy of notice or attention.

Oh, do stop it. Your response is far too sensible for this thread and is spoiling all the self-righteous indignation!

FlatErica · 06/05/2026 16:17

CurlewKate · 06/05/2026 14:49

Easier to google than to ask on here!

Indeed! Do people ask on here then?

Camomilecrumpet · 06/05/2026 14:50

coulditbeme2323 · 05/05/2026 09:39

I think it's almost a "Oh I couldn't possibly know who Kim Kardashian or Katie Price are"

There absolutely are people who do not know who the likes of Kim Kardashian are. My parents, for example, are not old but would never recognise her from a photograph because they are not in any way part of that world. I have a couple of friends who wouldn’t know who she was, either.

However, none of those people would ever be commenting online about the Met Gala as none of them use social media. They also wouldn’t attribute any value judgment to knowing or not knowing who those people are so would never feel the need to comment about it even if they were somehow in the comments section of a post about the Met Gala.

CurlewKate · 06/05/2026 14:49

FlatErica · 06/05/2026 13:52

You’re vastly overestimating my interest in people I’ve never heard of. Especially if you’re not giving me any context with it. I really could not be asked to Google every random celebrity whose name is brought up in my general vicinity.

Easier to google than to ask on here!

notacooldad · 06/05/2026 14:40

#FlatErica
You’re vastly overestimating my interest in people I’ve never heard of. Especially if you’re not giving me any context with it. I really could not be asked to Google every random celebrity whose name is brought up in my general vicinity.

Eh?
I never read your comment or if I did, I didn't take it in.
Maybe you are vastly over estimating the thought people give to your post! 😆
If I was referring to you I would have tagged you.

FlatErica · 06/05/2026 13:52

notacooldad · 06/05/2026 11:51

I haven't read the whole thread so sorry if I am repeating.
I know KK and KP, however other names are popping up that I dont know and that's OK.
But what I find daft is when someone comments 'who' or " never heard of her" I always want to say havent you heard of Google either?
Why bother with a stupid comment, especially if it is someone that has died.

You’re vastly overestimating my interest in people I’ve never heard of. Especially if you’re not giving me any context with it. I really could not be asked to Google every random celebrity whose name is brought up in my general vicinity.

Aethelred · 06/05/2026 12:48

I wouldn't recognise Kim Kardashian - it's not related to intelligence I'm just not interested in the things where she is likely to crop up.

Littlecrake · 06/05/2026 12:34

There is so much media these days that it is perfectly possible to be glued to the tv or internet for several hours a day and still not know who certain celebs are. I’m a essentially a British woman in my 50s - I would recognise KP - I remember her as a young women, her having her first baby and I am aware she’s had some more babies since and can’t drive terribly well. I “think” she was a page 3 girl and is now famous for being famous - not sure what she actually does. I watch absolutely loads of tv but is she on tv? I can’t think I’ve ever seen her on tv. I listen to radio 4 a bit in the car but she’s not ringing any bells there and I haven’t bought a print newspaper for years - reading online is much more self selecting than back in the day when you basically read it cover to cover.

I’ve heard of KK. I know her dad was OJs lawyer, I know she has a sister called Kylie, I’m not sure what she does, I know she has long black hair - I’m not sure if I would recognise her. Like KP, I can’t recall ever seeing her in tv and my tv is on so much you can’t touch it without an oven glove.

I agree some people are really really internationally famous - Michael Jackson, Maradona, Elvis, Dolly, - but I think the ones that stick in the mind are ones who are famous for doing something (and being physically very distinctive helps enormously) and idk what KK or KP do as such so it’s easy to not take much notice. There is a generational element to. I’d bet diamonds my kids don’t know who KP is. I’ve heard of the Met Gala but idk what it actually is. My mental picture is like the evening entertainment at a holiday camp but with better turns but I accept I may be quite wrong. I saw a photo of Sam Smith at it dressed like an elderly lush from the 1920s (May have been AI tbf)

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