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Is it unreasonable for airlines not to provide wider seats for obese passengers?

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Kag13 · 04/05/2026 21:05

I have today spent a four and a half hour Jet2 flight seated next to a young man who was at least 20 stone, probably larger. I could not use the left hand armrest as his body (fat) buldged over it and into my personal space (which on a budget airline is not that large) and his leg was resting over part of my seat.
Luckily I am only 5’2” and not that big but what would happen if someone of the same size was seated next to him?
it made for a very uncomfortable flight for me. Am I being unreasonable to think this is not right?

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notimagain · 05/05/2026 08:15

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:10

Balance of the plane maybe?

Actually that might be why they don't offer extra wide seats.

Edited

A couple of very big pax won't be an issue on an average airliner when it comes to weight/balance.

There might however be ? about other safety issues.

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:10

1980isitjustme · 05/05/2026 08:05

I did get a flight once where the captain had debated whether to allow two passengers to fly as they were so large. They let them and me and my friend ended up next to one of them for a 10 hour flight. It was horrendous. The passenger couldn’t lower her table at all, and was taking up over half of the next seat. The air stewards ended up letting us sit on jump seats during the flight but that was far from ideal.

There were some rows with just two seats together - I never understood why they didn’t just make them sit together in a pair of seats rather than across the aisle from each other encroaching on others, although it’s probably because it just wouldn’t have been physically possible.

Balance of the plane maybe?

Actually that might be why they don't offer extra wide seats.

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:09

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 08:00

Extra wide economy is premium economy, isn’t it? We flew on a BA Boeing 777 in January in PE and it was in a 2-4–2 configuration. The 2 section took up less room than a full 3 section on a Ryanair flight but the seats were still bigger.

Edited

Is Premium Economy not standard seats but with more leg room, rather than width?

user1494050295 · 05/05/2026 08:09

They do. You just booked business or first

Weeellokthen · 05/05/2026 08:08

Oh shit, i fear my 6"4 , 19st ds would be priced out of flying 😮

1980isitjustme · 05/05/2026 08:05

AffIt · 04/05/2026 21:18

Why isn't there a 'seat checker' in the same way there's a bag checker for most economy airlines?

If you don't fit the seat checker, then you're allocated an additional seat and charged accordingly. Seems fair?

I did get a flight once where the captain had debated whether to allow two passengers to fly as they were so large. They let them and me and my friend ended up next to one of them for a 10 hour flight. It was horrendous. The passenger couldn’t lower her table at all, and was taking up over half of the next seat. The air stewards ended up letting us sit on jump seats during the flight but that was far from ideal.

There were some rows with just two seats together - I never understood why they didn’t just make them sit together in a pair of seats rather than across the aisle from each other encroaching on others, although it’s probably because it just wouldn’t have been physically possible.

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 08:00

Needspaceforlego · 04/05/2026 21:22

Op YANBU.
I've been thinking that they should have seat and half options, so instead of three seats in a row you'd have two.
Extra wide economy just as you have premium economy.

I think more obese people would be willing to pay seat extra wide economy than are willing to pay for two seats

Extra wide economy is premium economy, isn’t it? We flew on a BA Boeing 777 in January in PE and it was in a 2-4–2 configuration. The 2 section took up less room than a full 3 section on a Ryanair flight but the seats were still bigger.

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 08:00

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 07:51

What if a slim person booked a larger seat just because they fancied a larger seat and couldn’t afford business class? I know I’d consider it if they had no way of checking 😂

It would be the same as Premium Economy lots of short people book, just to be beside their tall friends.
No way to police it, other than adding more seats so the airline still makes profit

Wish44 · 05/05/2026 07:59

you book and pay for a seat. You expect to be able to use that seat. If for whatever reason you can’t the airline should compensate you

I have been in this situation. Sitting on half a seat when I had paid for a whole seat. Not on at all!

Needspaceforlego · 05/05/2026 07:55

Clearinguptheclutter · 05/05/2026 07:39

If airlines made all seats a couple of inches wider there would be less seats overall in the plane and we would all pay more

Thats 12 inches across a row of 6 seats.
Where is that coming from?
Making the jet wider?
Making the asile narrower - not really so possible.
Removing a seat? The seats are about 20inch wide. Is the cost of that getting divided by the 5 remaining seats?

I honestly think the best answer is the extra wide seats so convert 3 seats into 2. In 2 or 3 rows depending on percentage of fat people.
Leaving the majority of the plane alone.

Lots of short haul don't have option for Business or 1st class. And services which do have them the cost for them is usually way more than double the cost of 2 economy or the proposed 1.5 seats.

LadyVioletBridgerton · 05/05/2026 07:51

What if a slim person booked a larger seat just because they fancied a larger seat and couldn’t afford business class? I know I’d consider it if they had no way of checking 😂

Soontobe60 · 05/05/2026 07:50

Imdunfer · 05/05/2026 07:21

You are very offensive suggesting that the OP has made this up. It is a real issue.

I've been on this situation on a BA flight to Glasgow from Manchester. It was frightening. I knew that the man beside me was never going to be able to get himself out of his seat quickly in an emergency. I was trapped between him and the wall. As many very fat people do, he also sweated excessively.

I complained to BA at Glasgow and they thanked me and said they held a register of very fat people and the next time he booked a flight he would be required to book two seats. To their credit when I got home that night there was a beautiful basket of flowers on my door step.

I don't understand what you think airlines can do? Demand people's weight when they sell an online ticket?

Edited

‘Register of fat people’? No there isn’t 😂😂😂

Soontobe60 · 05/05/2026 07:48

dottiehens · 05/05/2026 06:30

Because she opened a threat potentially inviting people to be mean with the comments. There is so much wrong with this threat but it is on the people making the nasty suggestions. There is so much ignorance as well about obesity reasons. Pretty sure if this is real issue. The airlines can find polite ways to deal with the situation rather than public shaming to add more trauma to an already very vulnerable people.

Eh? Who are these ‘very vulnerable’ people?

RedToothBrush · 05/05/2026 07:46

Yanbu that you shouldn't have to share your seat space.

I don't believe that airlines should have to provide obese seats though. Passengers who are too big should have to purchase an extra seat or be off loaded as they are making others uncomfortable and are more expensive to move. Given the airline model of making money by packing in as many seats as possible and as little luggage as possible it seems reasonable.

Soontobe60 · 05/05/2026 07:45

ObliviousCoalmine · 04/05/2026 21:11

You’re being unreasonable in your tone and wording, for a start.

Airlines have made seats smaller and smaller to get more people in, people are getting bigger, for a multitude of reasons (very few people are bigger because they chose that option).

You’re not going to get airlines making seats bigger, and you’re not going to get people booking two seats while money is tricker, so it’s a stalemate.

We all have to weigh up different social scenarios and whether we partake in them based on our various tolerance levels for things, if this is something that you can’t tolerate, then you can make that choice; just as others choose not to travel on the tube/go to big concerts etc based on how other humans occupy those spaces.

If you just came for a “fat people are gross” whinge, then crack on, but at least be upfront about it.

Have you not considered that obese people may be extremely uncomfortable squeezing into too-small seats though? Airlines have made adaptations for wheelchair users, so why not for obese people? Nobody, including obese people, should have to tolerate uncomfortable and somewhat dangerous seating. What should happen is that all airlines should have seating suitable for all flyers.
I'm not massively overweight and can fit into a Ryanair seat just fine, but have very bad knees which mean I can’t sit in a tight space for too long without being in considerable pain. If I’m sat next to someone who will really struggle to get in and out of their seat due to their size, it would be very awkward having to constantly ask them to let me get past. So I pay more and reserve an aisle seat with extra leg room. On my last flight the passenger next to me couldn’t barely get in his seat he was so big. He was extremely embarrassed because the flight attendant had to move passengers around as this man couldn’t sit in the row as it was an emergency exit. This is the reality for some people. Pretending we should all ignore it, shut up and be kind isn’t in the least bit helpful.

Clearinguptheclutter · 05/05/2026 07:44

There is also a similar issue with very tall people. Eg was sat next to someone on Ryanair once who was 6ft 6 and his legs couldn’t bend in a straight way and so they were unfortunately encroaching on neighbours legroom (but not seat)

Most people can take personal responsibility for their weight, but they can’t help being tall. Still I think a lot of these people will buy extra legroom seats when available. There should be extra wide seats in economy available for a similar reason (in Europe I mean, premium economy is a long haul thing only)

angelos02 · 05/05/2026 07:43

hattie43 · 05/05/2026 07:41

I think there’s an argument for getting rid of the seat belt extensions, if you need an extender you need an extra seat .

This. Such an obvious yet great idea.

hattie43 · 05/05/2026 07:41

I think there’s an argument for getting rid of the seat belt extensions, if you need an extender you need an extra seat .

Clearinguptheclutter · 05/05/2026 07:39

Gwenna · 04/05/2026 21:49

I think some stark realities come into play here:

  1. We are all different shapes and sizes. It’s not always as simple as “lose weight”.
  2. Not every fat person who needs (or dare I say wishes…) to fly can afford two seats. Should they remain at home forever until they can “lose weight” (See 1 above)
  3. Is it really so unreasonable to ask airlines to consider making standard seats slightly wider by even a couple of inches. After all, they are businesses offering their wares to modern society, and in modern society (not 50 years ago) we are all in reality different shapes and sizes (See 1 and 2).

Just my thoughts.

Edited

If airlines made all seats a couple of inches wider there would be less seats overall in the plane and we would all pay more

notimagain · 05/05/2026 07:39

DeathNote11 · 05/05/2026 07:31

Is it still possible for 2nd seats to be bumped to the next flight? I saw this happen to a woman back when I was a frequent work flyer. It was a little embraer plane with a 2 1 configuration. Woman had bought 2 so she could have a 2 but they bumped one to the next flight. Nothing she could do. I'm not surprised big people refuse to book 2 seats if there's no guarantee they'll get them. Hopefully things like that don't happen anymore.

Depends on the airline.

If you've booked an extra seat as part of a formal "extra seat adjacent for whatever reason" process (rather than just booking two seats) you'd hope the extra seat would be protected.

Some people book the extra "comfort" seat to transport stuff like musical instruments (cellos were a favourite where I worked) so the extra seat isn't really free to use anyway.

DeathNote11 · 05/05/2026 07:31

Is it still possible for 2nd seats to be bumped to the next flight? I saw this happen to a woman back when I was a frequent work flyer. It was a little embraer plane with a 2 1 configuration. Woman had bought 2 so she could have a 2 but they bumped one to the next flight. Nothing she could do. I'm not surprised big people refuse to book 2 seats if there's no guarantee they'll get them. Hopefully things like that don't happen anymore.

notimagain · 05/05/2026 07:25

I complained to BA at Glasgow and they thanked me and said they held a register of very fat people and the next time he booked a flight he would be required to book two seats.

Ummm.....the register is either a new thing or you have been fobbed off......

They certainly do (or certainly did) have a system which allows booking of the adjacent seat as a "comfort" seat at the time of initial ticket purchase.

Clearinguptheclutter · 05/05/2026 07:24

the onus shouldn’t be on the airline it should be on the individual to book two seats. I know someone that does this.

airline should use marketing messages to subtly remind people.

i’m sure I’ve heard that one of the US airlines southwest perhaps, is now cracking down and if you can’t put the armrests down and you haven’t booked two seats, you can’t fly.

it literally makes zero sense that you have to pay for extra luggage but you don’t for extra body weight

Imdunfer · 05/05/2026 07:21

dottiehens · 05/05/2026 06:30

Because she opened a threat potentially inviting people to be mean with the comments. There is so much wrong with this threat but it is on the people making the nasty suggestions. There is so much ignorance as well about obesity reasons. Pretty sure if this is real issue. The airlines can find polite ways to deal with the situation rather than public shaming to add more trauma to an already very vulnerable people.

You are very offensive suggesting that the OP has made this up. It is a real issue.

I've been on this situation on a BA flight to Glasgow from Manchester. It was frightening. I knew that the man beside me was never going to be able to get himself out of his seat quickly in an emergency. I was trapped between him and the wall. As many very fat people do, he also sweated excessively.

I complained to BA at Glasgow and they thanked me and said they held a register of very fat people and the next time he booked a flight he would be required to book two seats. To their credit when I got home that night there was a beautiful basket of flowers on my door step.

I don't understand what you think airlines can do? Demand people's weight when they sell an online ticket?

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 05/05/2026 07:19

@Offherrockingchair She used 9 inches of it? I doubt that.

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