AIBU to feel annoyed after a friend called me constantly negative?

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TheOpalFox · 04/05/2026 12:31

Would you be annoyed if a friend turned round and just said im
constantly negative? And full of drama? In a horrible way? Yet she’s always got something going on her in life too??? Feeling a bit annoyed :(
or is she right!????

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BlackBean2023 · 04/05/2026 12:36

is she right? I have a friend who constantly moans about everything - her job, her DH, the service at a restaurant, other people around us…if I have a problem, she has one bigger. it’s exhausting to be honest.

CoyGoldenKoi · 04/05/2026 12:36

We know neither you nor your friend, so it's pretty impossible to judge.

But since your response to this is to post what comes across as an angry rant with way too much emotional punctuation, I suspect she has a point.

Maybe try some self reflection: in what ways could she be right, and how might you change if she were? And then try out being that person for a while, because you might find it makes you happier to be less negative/dramatic/easily offended.

PoppinjayPolly · 04/05/2026 12:36

SliceofTosst · 04/05/2026 12:35

Your post sounds pretty negative especially with so many passive aggressive ????

Yep! Is “everyone a’ginst you”?..🤨

SliceofTosst · 04/05/2026 12:35

Your post sounds pretty negative especially with so many passive aggressive ????

araiwa · 04/05/2026 12:34

My irony meter overloaded

Swiftie1878 · 04/05/2026 12:33

Looks like she nailed it. 🤷‍♀️

JustChillin70 · 04/05/2026 12:33

How the heck do we know if she’s right?

Goodadvice1980 · 04/05/2026 12:32

Well, is she right 🤷‍♀️

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