My beautiful cat was put to sleep yesterday. My partner is sick of me being upset and has ended things and said it’s because I wasn’t sympathetic because his ex has not let him see the children in two years. I have been sympathetic!
His ex accused him of rape when she found out he had met me. This is as two years ago. She has never met me. She has a very posh accent and a job where she is regarded as a trustworthy person, think doctor type of job. She has stopped him from seeing his children for two years whilst the police investigation has been ongoing. I have done everything I can to support him. The police have not investigated the accusation at all. There is no evidence that he has done anything wrong but the police are taking her word as gospel. He has lots of evidence in the form of text messages that she is a liar and has threatened to go to the police on multiple occasions. He has it in a text message ‘Leave her or I will report you to the police’. The police are aware of this but still she is believed. His children don’t want to know him now. They are 16 years old and 14 years old.
I am sick of his mood swings and blaming me for the reason his ex has done this to him.
AIBU for ending things? I fear that if she knew who I was then she would make up something so I’d lose my job.