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To think there will be many more disabled adults in 20 years?

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Walkyrie · 03/05/2026 22:04

I’m disabled myself, just to put that out there.

It just seems like the number of people with a disability, usually a psychiatric one, is going through the roof.

40% of disability benefit claimants are claiming for mental health related reasons. The number of anxious children and teens on here, and that I know in my own life and family, is really really high. So many schools refusers and kids in need of extra support, special school placements and so on. It seems there are a lot of unemployed young adults living at home who simply don’t have the mental acuity to get a job, live independently, have a life of their own.

3 children in my family are currently school refusing, one we only found out about today but it was not a surprise as she’s always been very anxious and has selective mutism.

My AIBU is, should we be doing something to prepare for what may be a very high number of adults not working in years to come? How will we sustain them all?

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Walkyrie · 03/05/2026 22:09

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Early doors but people seem to be agreeing with me. Lots of things have become big issues because addressing them at a time they could still make a difference was considered taboo. Look at immigration.

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youalright · 03/05/2026 22:09

I think if the nhs keeps getting worse and people keep having children at an older age then yes.

Walkyrie · 03/05/2026 22:08

I don’t mean the job market which I agree is woeful and I also think the education system is woeful and needs a huge shake up.

I mean the number of young people and kids who look very unlikely to ever live a fully independent tax paying life, surely we are going to have to find a way to support them.

The numbers just seem massive.

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LittlePetitePsychopath · 03/05/2026 22:07

Youth unemployment is currently worse in the UK than in Spain, which has long had the worst in Europe.

Theres going to be a lack of jobs for a while, plus a lack of decent education options, because degrees are getting more expensive and we don’t need as many graduates as we’re creating.

Hopefully it’ll sort itself out again but I feel massively for the next few generations who have to decide whether to go to uni, or who graduate into this economy and market.

XenoBitch · 03/05/2026 22:06

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