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AIBU to post solidarity with the Jewish community here?

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RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 19:16

I deleted my previous account (due to poor mental health) but I’m back.

Solidarity with the Jewish community.

Much love to you all.

I will always support you.

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Sometimeswinning · 03/05/2026 21:33

FailedToLaunch · 03/05/2026 21:29

I'm not talking about that. I'm referring to the OP saying she closed her account last time, due to mental health reasons. Jeez.

Maybe nomas struggles? This was my first thought.

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:32

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:27

Look, you’re at it again. Are you trying to make this a TAAT and continue your beef across threads? Certainly looks that way.

No, I simply don't like the OP accusing anyone who disagrees with her of being antisemetic.

I think that's fair enough, although I can see you don't.

FailedToLaunch · 03/05/2026 21:29

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:27

Well I've reported her personal attack on nomas who isn't even here to defend herself.

So as always, MNHQ will decide.

I'm not talking about that. I'm referring to the OP saying she closed her account last time, due to mental health reasons. Jeez.

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:28

Leave OP alone @ShamrockShenanigans

Thechateau · 03/05/2026 21:28

I don't know about this history of this poster but absolutely want to express my solidarity with the Jewish community. I also have a Jewish grandparent and am feeling the horror of this very deeply. The silence from most of the UK establishment is shocking to me. As for Zak Polanski, he is a disgraceful anti Semitic grifter. Trevor Phillips handed him his arse on a plate this morning, that needs to be done more regularly

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:27

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:24

The OP knows this, as she's been repeatedly asked to stop it in the past.

Look, you’re at it again. Are you trying to make this a TAAT and continue your beef across threads? Certainly looks that way.

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:27

FailedToLaunch · 03/05/2026 21:25

Not that I think the OP has to explain herself in anyway for taking a break, but she actually did tell us why in her initial post. I think that takes bravery and should be met with support, not hostility.

Well I've reported her personal attack on nomas who isn't even here to defend herself.

So as always, MNHQ will decide.

FailedToLaunch · 03/05/2026 21:25

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:08

Well that and

"I am sorry sorry I went away"

"Here for you all x"

I'm sure the OP's heart is in the right place, but her previous threads/comments did seem to get a lot of Jewish people's backs up.

Not that I think the OP has to explain herself in anyway for taking a break, but she actually did tell us why in her initial post. I think that takes bravery and should be met with support, not hostility.

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:24

Batties · 03/05/2026 21:23

OP, throwing around the term antisemitism at every perceived slight, waters down its meaning and weakens our language, making it harder to call out genuine racism when it actually occurs.

The OP knows this, as she's been repeatedly asked to stop it in the past.

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:23

My apologies @Batties, you’re right it’s wasn’t you, my apologies.

It was @ShamrockShenanigans wanging on about what other posters supposedly said in other threads and derailing my expression of solidarity with Jewish communities throughout the UK that annoyed me.

Batties · 03/05/2026 21:23

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OP, throwing around the term antisemitism at every perceived slight, waters down its meaning and weakens our language, making it harder to call out genuine racism when it actually occurs.

Sometimeswinning · 03/05/2026 21:23

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I think this may be the reason people didn’t like to converse with you and it becomes heated.

By all means show support but learn how to speak with others.

Davros · 03/05/2026 21:22

Arregaithel · 03/05/2026 19:48

if you're serious, just go back and click on yanbu @Davros it'll change your vote.

Not on the app 🤷‍♀️

Batties · 03/05/2026 21:19

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:12

Could you kindly bog off please. This is a thread to offer solidarity and love to the UK’s Jewish communities. Please take your irrelevant arguments about other threads elsewhere.

@BlakeCarrington was this comment aimed at me? I haven’t mentioned any previous threads.

RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 21:16

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:12

Could you kindly bog off please. This is a thread to offer solidarity and love to the UK’s Jewish communities. Please take your irrelevant arguments about other threads elsewhere.

Thank you!

This thread (like all my previous ones) was started in good faith

Tjis country is riddled with antisemitism, no matter what the government says

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ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:15

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:12

Could you kindly bog off please. This is a thread to offer solidarity and love to the UK’s Jewish communities. Please take your irrelevant arguments about other threads elsewhere.

Excuse me but it certainly was not irrelevant to me.

I was the one accused of being an antisemite by the OP, purely because I think she's out of order for accusing nomas of 'chasing her away', when she's not even here to defend herself.

And this is the way many of the OP's previous threads went.

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:14

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:11

Ok, and you see this is why so many people backs were up last time.

Anyone whose posts you considered to be disagreeing with you (such as you being out of order for publicly accusing a poster who isn't even here), generally resulted in you calling them an antisemite.

Can you not understand how this might come across to Jewish people who actually understand what antisemitism is, because they have to live with it every single day?

So go and take your arguments about “last time” back to the relevant thread and stop derailing this one. Thanks awfully.

RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 21:13

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:08

Well that and

"I am sorry sorry I went away"

"Here for you all x"

I'm sure the OP's heart is in the right place, but her previous threads/comments did seem to get a lot of Jewish people's backs up.

A lot of Jewish people’s backs up?

Where?

I never meant to offend

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Batties · 03/05/2026 21:13

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:12

Could you kindly bog off please. This is a thread to offer solidarity and love to the UK’s Jewish communities. Please take your irrelevant arguments about other threads elsewhere.

What other threads? I’m responding to OP’s post on this thread.

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 21:12

Batties · 03/05/2026 21:08

You really need to stop calling anyone who disagrees with you an antisemite

Could you kindly bog off please. This is a thread to offer solidarity and love to the UK’s Jewish communities. Please take your irrelevant arguments about other threads elsewhere.

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:11

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Ok, and you see this is why so many people backs were up last time.

Anyone whose posts you considered to be disagreeing with you (such as you being out of order for publicly accusing a poster who isn't even here), generally resulted in you calling them an antisemite.

Can you not understand how this might come across to Jewish people who actually understand what antisemitism is, because they have to live with it every single day?

Batties · 03/05/2026 21:08

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You really need to stop calling anyone who disagrees with you an antisemite

ShamrockShenanigans · 03/05/2026 21:08

HobGobblynne · 03/05/2026 21:05

I think the difference is whether the action is mainly symbolic or whether it involves an actual personal choice with consequences attached.

Deciding to continue openly supporting or working with someone despite possible backlash is a real life action that could materially affect you, so I wouldn’t call that purely performative.

Posting “I stand with X group” on an anonymous forum isn’t a bad thing but it is mostly symbolic. It doesn’t cost the OP anything or require them to act differently in real life, which is why it’s being described it as performative.

Well that and

"I am sorry sorry I went away"

"Here for you all x"

I'm sure the OP's heart is in the right place, but her previous threads/comments did seem to get a lot of Jewish people's backs up.

RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 21:06

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