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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · 03/05/2026 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

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Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 12:16

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:14

Yeah & it's almost like some of us like clean clothes & bedding.

Mine are clean…I clean them on a Saturday…

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 03/05/2026 12:16

4 loads a week here, 1 for each child, 1 for me and 1 for bedding/towels. I rotate whose bedding gets washed so only 1 set to go in, and there's only 3 towels a week plus a few tea towels.
First load goes on Friday eve, then out on the line Saturday morning and second load goes in, repeat for 2nd and 3rd loads. Use inside heated airer if needed for space, iron anything that needs ironing as it comes off the line. And put all away Saturday eve/Sunday morning

Butterme · 03/05/2026 12:15

I would prefer to do this but don’t have enough space to dry anything.

My clothes can take a couple of days to fully dry and so I’ll typically do it on a Sunday and Wednesday to ensure there is enough room to dry everything.

I don’t see how she’s managing to dry everything so quickly - surely she’s not drying it all in a tumble dryer!

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:15

MyMonthlyNameChange · 03/05/2026 09:39

I don't agree. Laundry is a massive fucking ball ache and takes ages.

We are a family of five and all of us do sports four nights out of seven, so the washing is endless. Gym kits, karate gi, football kits, netball kits, cycling gear, plus PE kits, plus all the usual laundry, means I have to do a load a day. I don't have a tumble dryer, so hanging it all out takes ages - in particular all the fiddly underwear and socks, cycling gloves, shin pad sleeves, running belts. Such a faff. Then once it's dry, folding it all up and putting it away so you can hang out the next lot.

Sticking it in the machine and hitting the 'on' button is only about 10% of the overall job.

But does ALL that stuff need to be washed after one use? Running belts and cycling gloves? And how dirty does a kid's karate kit get in one session? And do you need to wash a netball skirt/tracksuit bottoms after one use?

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:14

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:50

Oh my god it’s almost like we all live differently…funny thought isn’t it.

  1. I wouldn’t dream of putting my washing on while the house is asleep.
  2. As I said my washing machine takes 1.5hours min.
  3. I am getting ready for work and making breakfast/lunches In the morning (no school dinners here)
  4. I live in Ireland by the sea, the weather cannot be trusted most of the year.
so yep it’s not something that I want to make possible. It wouldn’t help me anyway. 2 loads on a Saturday isn’t back breaking for me.

Yeah & it's almost like some of us like clean clothes & bedding.

Sidebeforeself · 03/05/2026 12:12

I need to stop reading this thread for my blood pressure. So before I depart I’ll just say it one more time..OPs friend had 2.5 loads to do that day .Not every week.

horlickstablets · 03/05/2026 12:11

DoAWheelie · 03/05/2026 09:07

I do similar once a month as it's just me alone these days.

I have three loads a month to do (clothes, towels, bedding) and have colour coded baskets for each. They all tend to fill on the same day so I get them all washed and dried in one go and then put it away so I don't need to think about it for another month. You just need to start first thing and set timers to remind you something's done, and motivate yourself to do it immediately otherwise you run out of time.

I don't buy anything that would need ironing though. I can see how a family could easily do the same with once a week.

Even by myself I do at least 2 a week and I don’t wash stuff that isn’t dirty

weekly - at least 7 knickers and socks, flannels, 2 towels, kitchen towels, bedding, maybe a throw or blanket, couple of pairs of pjs, bath mats
then I’ve got work clothing, weekend clothing and gym clothing
I wash the mattress and pillow protectors monthly too

PurplishGemstones · 03/05/2026 12:09

No. MOst people who are doing mindboggling amounts of laundry are making work for themselves by washing things which aren't actually dirty

My mil always tells me I wash too much, but it appears I don't wash things half as much as reported on here!

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:09

hopspot · 03/05/2026 09:36

We are a family of 4 and I do two loads a day at least. Sometimes one member of the family wears per day: pyjamas, school uniform, swimming kit, football kit and Beavers uniform.

I bet they don’t do grassroots sports as players or coaches. In the winter my dc can wear 20 items of clothing for one training session.

Don't tell me the pyjamas are single-use. 🙈 Also, do you wash trousers and skirts after one use??

And you don't need to launder swimsuits/trunks after every use. Just rinse them in cold water to get the chlorine out, in order to make them last longer.

happysunr1se · 03/05/2026 12:08

Also I run the washing machine on its timer over night on economy 7 so can hang it up before work

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 12:07

Cyclingmummy1 · 03/05/2026 12:06

How do you get everything washed and dried in one day? Even with two clothes lines and a sunny day in the summer I couldn't get it all done.

Last Saturday was a lovely sunny windy day here so I got my two loads washed and dried outside. They were all inside by 5 o’clock then I did my ironing and put it away.🙌

Cyclingmummy1 · 03/05/2026 12:06

How do you get everything washed and dried in one day? Even with two clothes lines and a sunny day in the summer I couldn't get it all done.

happysunr1se · 03/05/2026 12:06

What you need to do is lower your standards!

For eg I only do 2/3 loads a week, I don't buy white clothes so everything goes in together.

When I exercise I don't have special clothing I just continue to wear the same outfit and then wash them after ( I have a rower and bike at home).

I don't wash towels after every shower
I don't change bedclothes every day
We don't change PJ's everyday

My DD and DH don't have any sports clubs so there's no extra washing from that.

As a family we have a neater style habit and eat at table for all meals/snacks so there's minimal clothing stains and no spillages on cushion covers etc. no tea or breakfast in bedrooms.
We don't use a tablecloth or napkins.

There's probably habits you can change to reduce the amount of laundry you create.

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:05

pestowithwalnuts · 03/05/2026 09:32

I'm old enough to remember my mum doing all the washing on a Monday. And probably ironing it all too as she watched Coronation Street.lol.
All the laundry for 6 people in a non automatic washer.

I wonder how Monday came to be washing day!

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 12:03

my husband does all the washing in my house

Same! Women like to think their partners are useless but really it's just women enabling men.

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 12:03

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 10:14

DD very sporty but her gear didn't bulk out the washing machine!

So can you still “not get my head around” people doing lots of washing when we have more than 1 child who doesn’t break a sweat in PE and her sports gear is very light?

hopspot · 03/05/2026 12:02

PrincessofWells · 03/05/2026 11:43

Changing pyjamas every day ffs . . .

I don’t actually wash pyjamas every day, I was explaining how washing builds up when you wear multiple outfits every day, but if that’s all you’ve taken from my post and still made a rude comment then… lovely!

MightyGoldBear · 03/05/2026 12:00

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 11:58

This is one thread that I can’t imagine getting any kind of traction amongst men!

I'd love to see the responses 🤣 my husband does all the washing in my house but I know he is in the minority amongst friednds and at work🙄

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 12:00

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 11:58

This is one thread that I can’t imagine getting any kind of traction amongst men!

True! But I don't come here to talk about football, gaming or real ale 😊

Bellasmellsofwee · 03/05/2026 11:59

MyMonthlyNameChange · 03/05/2026 11:53

Sounds like you live in a big house though. We’re in a 3 bed London semi and I don’t have space for any more than the two laundry hampers we already have (one for kids, one for me and DH).

Also, we don’t have a utility room or a spare bedroom. There’s a washing machine under the counter in our kitchen and the heated airer and dehumidifier are permanently in mine and DH’s bedroom. I could obviously get everything done a lot quicker if I was just transferring from washer to dryer and hitting a button. But I have to hang each individual sodding item out by hand, or peg it out on the line. And then the same in reverse, then fold and put away. It just takes time.

I actually have to be very organised in my approach because of the lack of space otherwise we end up with clothes drying all over the place and massive piles of clean laundry everywhere.

Im so jealous of my friend who has a big utility room. She just has separate baskets on the counter for each family member and everyone’s dry clothes go in their respect baskets and just stay there until someone needs something. I bet she would be posting on here saying laundry is a piece of piss.

We just have one laundry hamper for all of us in the bathroom. Nothing is separated for washing though, so it’s just easy to grab it each morning and chuck it all in the washing machine.

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 11:59

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 10:29

Schools are despicably dirty places and trousers/skirts cannot be reworn

What nonsense!

At DD's school, PE was usually so tame, they never worked up a sweat.

That’s a bit shit @SonnyandChair

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 11:58

Aliflowers · 03/05/2026 10:19

In the same. At a minimum a load a day and I’ve a 10kg machine. Find it’s less l in the summer as lighter clothes etc but in winter time it’s definitely 10 maybe more depending. Because as well as day to day to day clothes, towels and bedding, also have the uniforms, PE kits, sports clothes etc.

Also I couldn’t abide the thought of leaving damp towels mouldering for up to a week waiting to be washed

My towels get washed at least once a week
(they get done on a 'good drying day' not on set days)

bur WHY would towels ever be left 'festering' mine now go in the heated towel rail after a shower (which is cold in summer as it comes on with the heating) or sometimes I put them
in the line for a blow.

As a child they either went on hooks in the airing cupboard or over the bannister. (Different houses)

various other arrangement when there were too many of us for the heated towel rail, but always somewhere fir them to dry out properly.

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 11:58

This is one thread that I can’t imagine getting any kind of traction amongst men!

Swissmeringue · 03/05/2026 11:57

I do most of ours on a Sunday, it's usually about 5/6 loads, I don't iron though and sometimes the folding and putting away gets left until Monday.

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 11:55

MyMonthlyNameChange · 03/05/2026 11:53

Sounds like you live in a big house though. We’re in a 3 bed London semi and I don’t have space for any more than the two laundry hampers we already have (one for kids, one for me and DH).

Also, we don’t have a utility room or a spare bedroom. There’s a washing machine under the counter in our kitchen and the heated airer and dehumidifier are permanently in mine and DH’s bedroom. I could obviously get everything done a lot quicker if I was just transferring from washer to dryer and hitting a button. But I have to hang each individual sodding item out by hand, or peg it out on the line. And then the same in reverse, then fold and put away. It just takes time.

I actually have to be very organised in my approach because of the lack of space otherwise we end up with clothes drying all over the place and massive piles of clean laundry everywhere.

Im so jealous of my friend who has a big utility room. She just has separate baskets on the counter for each family member and everyone’s dry clothes go in their respect baskets and just stay there until someone needs something. I bet she would be posting on here saying laundry is a piece of piss.

Laundry hampers go in the bedrooms here.

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