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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · 03/05/2026 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

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Ncisdouble · 03/05/2026 12:37

I belive one of the top 3 are dishwashers as well. Fridges are top 6? If I remember top 10 correctly

user2848502016 · 03/05/2026 12:37

I did 2 loads yesterday, washed and dried outside. I don’t really iron though and they do need putting away tonight- usually Sunday evening job so everyone gets their school uniform ready for the week
I have way more than 2.5 loads a week though so washing is done on weekdays too

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:36

TittyGajillions · 03/05/2026 11:48

Rocket surgery is a well known deliberate mixed metaphor. It's been used on the interwebs for years.

& still sounds as stupid as it did the first time.

Dressfinder · 03/05/2026 12:36

I've got a 10kg machine and do 2 loads a day as a minimum. Bedding would be 3 loads alone.
We're a house of 5 and aren't doing anything special to generate the amount of laundry we have, just normal uniforms, towels, pyjamas etc.
Is your friend a nudist?

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:34

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 11:46

Fridge freezers are as much of a risk as washing machines and nobody is turning those off when they leave the house.

Not according to the fire service statistics.

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:34

Picklelily99 · 03/05/2026 09:49

1x sox & pants
1x delicates (my shirts)
1x jeans & t shirts
1x towels
1x bedding
And there's only 2x of us!
AND I can wash more of MY stuff later in the week too!!
What am I doing wrong then?

Sorry, is this daily washing? I'm getting that from the 1 x sox and pants. It sounds like you're washing everything you use every day. Have I read that right? If so, you don't need to wash bedding, towels, and jeans after once use. More like once a week. And most people save up their smalls and tops and wash them when they have a full load. It's not a case of just washing everything you used yesterday, today.

Sorry if I read it wrong!

intrepidpanda · 03/05/2026 12:34

Clearinguptheclutter · 03/05/2026 08:59

Well she is totally mad IMO because she is presumably using her dryer a lot which is costing a small fortune

this time of year I hang out everything. Yes that means some days are unsuitable but most are. Other stuff gets hung up in the airing cupboard. I’ve got a dryer and used it twice this year so far.

she is spending all day doing a rather tedious chore. Far more normal to spend a bit of time sporting it out throughout the week than basically devote a whole day off to it when you could be doing something more interesting instead

eta 2.5 loads is not very much. I can wash and dry that when weather is good. Most of us deal with far more!

Edited

I dried 3 loads outside the other weekend. I dont have a dryer.
Washing doesn't actually take much time. Put in machine and press start then 10min to hang out and take in.
You all washing a load of stuff by hand or something?

Cherrytree86 · 03/05/2026 12:34

Obviously OP’s mate doesn’t do unnecessary washing like washing towels and pyjamas and tops after one wear. Good for her

HolidayPlanningAgain · 03/05/2026 12:33

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 12:28

I enjoy ironing, and clothes definitely look better for it imo.

Absolutely agree!

PurplishGemstones · 03/05/2026 12:32

Why did twin tubs need to be monitored?

Because they don't work automatically. You have to manually fill it with water and transfer the washing from the tub to the spinning tub, turn the spinner on and off and manually pipe in the rinse water. You virtually have to stand over it the whole time. Pausing only to fill your wine glass.

MillicentFaucet · 03/05/2026 12:30

Cyclingmummy1 · 03/05/2026 12:06

How do you get everything washed and dried in one day? Even with two clothes lines and a sunny day in the summer I couldn't get it all done.

I use my tumble dryer, unless it's sunny enough to dry laundry in 1-2 hours. I always tumble towels to keep them fluffy and my bedding because of pollen allergy

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 12:28

Threesloths · 03/05/2026 12:27

Bin off the ironing. Bin it off.

I enjoy ironing, and clothes definitely look better for it imo.

Threesloths · 03/05/2026 12:27

Bin off the ironing. Bin it off.

Justploddingonandon · 03/05/2026 12:26

When I worked full time in the off blitzed the laundry at the weekend, but don’t understand how anyone with a family only does 2.5 loads! My bedsheets take up a load on their own.
I have been trying to convince the children that they don’t need clean clothes ( apart from pants and socks) every day, but DD is still at the age that she often spills stuff down herself and DS is a sporty teenager.

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:26

PrincessofWells · 03/05/2026 09:23

The planet really is doomed.

It really is. I once started a thread on another website asking how long people's showers are, and many, many people answered 40-45 minutes. 😱 Mine are 7-10 mins if washing my hair, and about 3 mins if not. I don't spend any more time in there than it takes me to actually wash. But it seems people stand there for ages under the running water. I had a friend to stay, and I couldn't believe how long her showers were. Twenty minutes if she wasn't washing her hair and forty minutes if she was. There was no water left for anyone else!

HolidayPlanningAgain · 03/05/2026 12:26

I can get all the clothes done by Saturday lunch and the bedding towels etc over the rest of the weekend and it doesn’t stop me doing anything else I want to over the weekend!
I then do the ironing Sunday afternoon watching trash tv when nobody is allowed to disturb me! It’s not a job I mind doing and I can’t stand unironed clothes

ZebraPyjamas · 03/05/2026 12:24

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:20

What I'm getting from this thread is that many people use things as single-use when they shouldn't be. The only things that are single-use for me are knickers, socks, and tops. Also, WFH in the winter means not much sweating so I might re-wear some tops once. I wear a bra for about three days, pyjamas for a week, jeans and trousers for at least a week, and skirts are lucky if they see a washing machine once a month! Towels and bedding are also a week. Swimsuits not very often, although I rinse the chlorine out with fresh water. Gym kit tops are single-use, and gym bottoms maybe 2-3 uses.

PEOPLE ARE DOING TOO MUCH WASHING!!!

100% agree with this! We’re a family of 6, multiple outdoor sports activities and I don’t need to do a clothes wash every day even with only an average sized washing machine.

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:23

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:58

Yeah but I don’t have a billion washes a week so I don’t have the need. I wake at 6:30, I get myself ready, I wake my dc at 7 and then we have brekkie and make lunches etc. we leave at 7:30 and 8 depending on what’s going on. My washing machine takes an hour and a half…I’m not adding another factor to my morning for no reason.

Whatever works for you.

i don't even remember if it was you or someone else saud it wasn't possible to do
laundry in the week because 'she works'. that's just not true she/you may choose not to, but many of us do (well 'did' until I became disabled & currently not working)

ForCosyLion · 03/05/2026 12:20

What I'm getting from this thread is that many people use things as single-use when they shouldn't be. The only things that are single-use for me are knickers, socks, and tops. Also, WFH in the winter means not much sweating so I might re-wear some tops once. I wear a bra for about three days, pyjamas for a week, jeans and trousers for at least a week, and skirts are lucky if they see a washing machine once a month! Towels and bedding are also a week. Swimsuits not very often, although I rinse the chlorine out with fresh water. Gym kit tops are single-use, and gym bottoms maybe 2-3 uses.

PEOPLE ARE DOING TOO MUCH WASHING!!!

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 12:20

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 03/05/2026 12:19

No don't separate anything

So a white t shirt would go in with a red dress?

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 03/05/2026 12:19

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 12:16

Do you separate colours?

No don't separate anything

MillicentFaucet · 03/05/2026 12:18

Sidebeforeself · 03/05/2026 12:12

I need to stop reading this thread for my blood pressure. So before I depart I’ll just say it one more time..OPs friend had 2.5 loads to do that day .Not every week.

she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY!

That reads to me that the OP's friend does do all of her laundry once a week on a Saturday, wether it's 1 load or 7, how could it mean anything else? I think people are commenting on both the frequency and amount of laundry they personally do so lots of crossed wires on the thread now.

redskyAtNigh · 03/05/2026 12:17

Franjipanl8r · 03/05/2026 11:46

I just do laundry as and when I can be arsed. The thought of spending a whole day focusing on laundry sounds very boring.

You don't "focus on laundry" though. You put a load in the washing machine overnight so you hang it up to dry when you get up and are doing morning jobs and then you put a 2nd load on. 15 minutes. you then get on with your morning. By lunchtime (or if you notice earlier) the 2nd load will be finished, so you bring in the first load, fold it up, hang out the 2nd load and put a 3rd load on. 25 minutes. By dinner time (or if you notice earlier) the 3rd load is finished, so you bring in the 2nd load, hand out the 3rd load and put the 4th load on. That then gets hung out (or inside dryer) before you go to bed.
So you've spent an hour(ish) in total doing the washing spread out across the day, in conjunction with other jobs you would be doing anyway.
And then the laundry is done for the week, so you don't have to constantly think about it across the rest of the week.

(I'm assuming a good drying day here, or it wouldn't be so many loads).

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 12:16

BoredZelda · 03/05/2026 10:54

Looked in to it how? Because in my looking in to it, a well maintained, relatively new appliance isn’t any more of a risk than any other electrical appliance.

Fire service mainly.

Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 12:16

Youcancallmeirrelevant · 03/05/2026 12:16

4 loads a week here, 1 for each child, 1 for me and 1 for bedding/towels. I rotate whose bedding gets washed so only 1 set to go in, and there's only 3 towels a week plus a few tea towels.
First load goes on Friday eve, then out on the line Saturday morning and second load goes in, repeat for 2nd and 3rd loads. Use inside heated airer if needed for space, iron anything that needs ironing as it comes off the line. And put all away Saturday eve/Sunday morning

Do you separate colours?