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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · 03/05/2026 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

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MightyGoldBear · 03/05/2026 09:34

Family of 5 all done on a Sunday about two loads sometimes 1.5. All washed hung on the line and put away. Children pitch in. No one does ironing though none of us wear shirts or anything that needs ironing.

pestowithwalnuts · 03/05/2026 09:32

I'm old enough to remember my mum doing all the washing on a Monday. And probably ironing it all too as she watched Coronation Street.lol.
All the laundry for 6 people in a non automatic washer.

monkeysox · 03/05/2026 09:30

Very considerate of you.

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 09:30

monkeysox · 03/05/2026 09:26

Would the noise disturb your neighbours?!

Possibly, the spin would definitely wake me up. It's not super loud but when everything else is quiet I don't know how far the noise travels.

sunflowersandsunsets · 03/05/2026 09:29

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 09:28

15 minutes wash on my machine is only useful on items I probably don't consider to be dirty enough to need washing at all.

We all have different washing machines 🤷‍♀️

I work outdoors and so does DH - all our stuff comes out perfectly clean on a 15 minute cycle. Putting it on for longer just seems like a total waste of time to me. It never comes out any cleaner.

asdbaybeeee · 03/05/2026 09:29

We are a family of five I do probably 5 or 6 loads a week including towels and bedding. I put a wash on first thing then put it out to dry before work if time if not I stick dryer on when I get in and I try to put it away that evening so it doesn’t build up. But everyone puts they own laundry away so it’s a case of only putting mine, towels and bedding away the rest is left in each persons room to sort themselves. I don’t iron anything.

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 09:28

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 09:24

That’s not washed! 15mins! No way!

15 minutes wash on my machine is only useful on items I probably don't consider to be dirty enough to need washing at all.

ViciousCurrentBun · 03/05/2026 09:28

Who remembers the poster many moons ago that used to have clean sheets every day?

monkeysox · 03/05/2026 09:26

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 09:15

To leave the house at 7, you'd have to be putting on your washing at 5 am surely?

We're in a semi so I would never put the machine on that early.

Would the noise disturb your neighbours?!

SylvanMoon · 03/05/2026 09:26

I do all ours (although more than 2.5 loads) on a Sunday as most months EDF give free electricity then (dependent on how much we've saved during the week). I try to do the ironing then too, but don't always get it done, as I'm also using doing a batch of bread baking (to maximise free oven electricity).

NoelEdmondsHairGel · 03/05/2026 09:26

BlackCat14 · 03/05/2026 09:14

I don’t see what’s so amazing about doing 2.5 loads in one day, once a week. We easily do two loads a day, every day.

It’s not a competition to get to the largest number of loads! Poor planet. Finding a way to avoid laundry taking over your whole week is admirable.

ViciousCurrentBun · 03/05/2026 09:25

People have forgotten how to spot clean, I am still a big advocate of that. DH dropped chocolate on his jeans that had been worn for about 3 days, spot cleaned. There is dirt and then there is dirt dirt as I call it, that was just dirt. We had to do washing by hand till I was about 10 when my Mother got a twin tub.

I have never washed my sheets or towels weekly. We shower before bed and a towel is used when you are clean. Every other week is fine by me.

sunflowersandsunsets · 03/05/2026 09:25

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 09:24

That’s not washed! 15mins! No way!

Of course it is - 15 minutes on a quick cycle at 40 degrees.

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 09:24

sunflowersandsunsets · 03/05/2026 09:23

I can do a load of laundry in 15 minutes on a quick cycle. Get up, put laundry on, do what needs doing and hang it out before I go. I can get two loads done before 8am if I’m really on the ball 🤣

That’s not washed! 15mins! No way!

sunflowersandsunsets · 03/05/2026 09:23

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 09:10

No. I have other things to do in the morning. I just couldn’t fit that in before leaving at 7:30/8
Getting dressed, sorting lunches etc.
I also live in Ireland where I don’t trust the weather 😅
When is the washing machine being put on? When you are asleep? That would freak me out tbh.

I can do a load of laundry in 15 minutes on a quick cycle. Get up, put laundry on, do what needs doing and hang it out before I go. I can get two loads done before 8am if I’m really on the ball 🤣

Roads · 03/05/2026 09:23

PixelDreamer · 03/05/2026 09:15

To leave the house at 7, you'd have to be putting on your washing at 5 am surely?

We're in a semi so I would never put the machine on that early.

A general wash in my machine takes about 45mins-1hour. We live in a semi and have a quiet machine. It's never been a problem to get a load done and on the line before 7am.

PrincessofWells · 03/05/2026 09:23

Iwanttobeafraser · 03/05/2026 09:07

My mind is blown at the amount of washing. I have a friend who claims similar amounts and I don't get it. We definitely have more washing than average because dh, dd and ds all do a lot of sport and dh has an actice job, plus we are a family who all use those ridiculous bath sheets as towels and i live by thr mantra my mother taught me which is "always buy bedding a soze bigger than the bed itselff"🤣🤣 but 2.5 loads a week? I cant even begin to get my head around that.

We do at least 10! Plus dh does a couple of separate smaller loads for his work clothes.

The planet really is doomed.

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 09:23

Itsnearlyxmas · 03/05/2026 09:16

I'm glad it's not just me! Is that really what some people do, wash a towel after using it only once, to dry a clean freshly washed body??

Between that and changing multiple times a day I can see how people are aghast at the possibility of 2 loads a week.
when I come home I change into tracksuit pants and a top (if I was wearing a shirt to work) and I could wear that every evening for 3 evenings. I’m not going anywhere so it’s not a big deal. On the days my dc have clubs I stay in my work clothes. My ds doesn’t normally change out of his uniform unless he has a club. He wears approx 3 sets of uniform a week. He’s not messy. My dh gets a week out of his jeans, he showers daily, sometimes twice.
yes my dc do clubs but they are on a weds, Thurs and Saturday mornings so the kits can wait (they have more than 1 kit)

GB81 · 03/05/2026 09:22

Are you washing clothes by bashing them with rocks in the river or putting them in a machine and pressing go?

Simonjt · 03/05/2026 09:22

Ncisdouble · 03/05/2026 09:20

Waaait. I always thought that the excessive towel washing was an MN joke! 😱

This will horrify many, but especially the one towel use brigade. I recently lost my towel in the gym, so I dried myself with my t-shirt and then asked reception if someone had handed in a white towel “no, but someone has handed in a biege one” ah, that’ll be it! It has its own ecosystem at this point.

ChristAliveHelp · 03/05/2026 09:22

I sometimes do all mine in one day, but the weather needs to be on point. I get up around 6am and have it done by 6pm can be anything up to seven loads.

Waitingforthesunnydays · 03/05/2026 09:22

I really don’t think two loads of laundry is a big job! Minus the ironing - that might take a bit of time. I don’t iron, but I can easily shove a load each in the washing machine, turn it on, stick it in the tumble dryer then fold and put it away. It probably takes me a total of half an hour. It’s not like you actually have to do anything while the washing machine’s on. Imagine Victorian women reading this scrubbing away on their scrubbing boards, they’d be absolutely fuming!

Toddlerteaplease · 03/05/2026 09:21

I do, if I can get it dried outside in one day. It’s over two if it’s winter. As I don’t have a tumble dryer.

Ncisdouble · 03/05/2026 09:20

Waaait. I always thought that the excessive towel washing was an MN joke! 😱

Sess249 · 03/05/2026 09:19

My work do nearly 3 loads a day. 2 adults, 1 9yr old and twin toddlers. We line dry it all, no drier though