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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · 03/05/2026 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

OP posts:
Heisrevising · 03/05/2026 10:39

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 10:14

DD very sporty but her gear didn't bulk out the washing machine!

So one sporty child with light kit @SonnyandChair

now try rugby and swimming son plus hockey, lacrosse and cross country runner DD.

74username74 · 03/05/2026 10:37

Roads · 03/05/2026 09:07

Of course it's an option if you work. Confused I work and am out the house 7-4ish most days as I said if it's going to be a nice day you peg a load out and then bring it in when you get home. Isn't that what most people do?

It is.

WhatWouldTheDoctorDo · 03/05/2026 10:37

Easy to do 2.5 loads in a day if weather nice or uses a tumble dryer if you get up and get it on first thing. Maybe not a lot of it needs ironing/she has a large capacity machine. I’m amazed at the 2.5 loads though, at a minimum in a week I have darks, whites, colours, socks/boxers (house full of boys), towels, bedding. I suppose, if weather has been nice I could get away with a mixed load of colours/lights, mixed bedding/towels, small load of darks inc.dark socks and boxers.

I had four loads ready to go today, it’s damp outside and not all of it can be tumble dried so it definitely won’t be washed, dried, ironed and put away by tonight!

NellieJean · 03/05/2026 10:37

So do I half price electricity on Sunday

parkezvous · 03/05/2026 10:36

1-2 loads most days here 😭

Crikeyomalley · 03/05/2026 10:36

I do all mine in one day - only 2 of us most of the time - 3 loads - lights/darks/ bedclothes or towels. I put the first lot on late at night on a timer as there's a super cheap rate overnight then a 45 minute tumble for each - fold and into a bssket and upstairs. I don't iron much but save that up and do a big iron once a month.

MayDaySunshinePlease · 03/05/2026 10:36

Roads · 03/05/2026 09:02

Why would you do it all in one day? It's been beautiful weather here this week ideal for doing a load pegging it out before work and the fetching it in again. No drier or heated airer necessary.

Also who the fuck only has 2 and 1/2 loads of laundry for the whole week?

Edited

People who have large capacity machines, don't change their bedding & towels often enough, put everything in mixed loads I guess.

WimbyAce · 03/05/2026 10:35

I don't think it's that crazy. I only do bedding/towels every fortnight. I do the kids stuff on a Friday. Do a small load on a Saturday after swimming with Friday's uniform. Do mine and partner's stuff in another load at some point in the week. Do kids bedding as and when. I don't use tumble drier and I def don't iron 😅

topcat2014 · 03/05/2026 10:34

TheCurious0range · 03/05/2026 09:00

I do 7-10 loads a week, if I only had 2.5 I could do it in a day!

Do you run a hotel 😀

SusanChurchouse · 03/05/2026 10:34

I have limited space to hang washing both inside and outside so have to do it regularly or else I’d be struggling to get it dried.

My husband would save up all the washing and do 5 loads in a day. I get the logic of this as it allows it all to be separated. But then I come home to all the clothes crammed onto a rack/hangers over doors/on radiators.

PenelopePinkerton · 03/05/2026 10:33

Depends on the size of your family and how soiled your clothes get. We have between 8-10 people here and I love a bit of gardening so I’m usually going through a couple of outfits a day. Then there’s all the bedding so we have two machines that are on at least once a day each if not more.

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:33

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:30

So how often is the jumper getting washed then? Trust me, they smell if the clothes are washed rarely and other kids notice.

She wears one jumper for 2 days is that ok? That’s two jumpers a week, the other day is a sports jumper. Which she takes off for sport. She showers daily…no she doesn’t stink

MyDeftDuck · 03/05/2026 10:33

She sounds pretty well organised tbh. If she works during the week then her weekends will be time for pulling in jobs at home. FWIW I like to iron clothes as they come in off the washing line, but only if they need ironing of course. Everything else is sorted folded up after thorough airing and put away 💪

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 03/05/2026 10:32

I do a load a day. Every day. I also iron it all and put it all away and iron everything except socks. My absolute favourite is a dry windy day as I can wash, put it on the line to dry, bring it in and iron it and put it all away in the same day.

Nogoodusername · 03/05/2026 10:32

family of four, two teens that are taller than me. I do one clothes wash a day then probably another 4 loads per week of towels and bedding. I do have a drier but there are a lot of clothes that can’t go in the drier. Can’t dry in the garden as my pollen allergy is too bad.

Plasticdreams · 03/05/2026 10:31

I’m a single parent family and only need to do 3 loads a week. Doesn’t require much effort and I don’t have a tumble dryer. Laundry basket is pretty much empty. But I don’t change our bedding weekly.
when there was a man in the house it was very different. He stank and I used to wash the bedding every few days and clothes daily,

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:30

MillicentFaucet · 03/05/2026 10:25

I love MN 😁

I actually get everyone up at 2am so I can change their bedding, only a neglectful minger would let their children spend more than 4 hours in unwashed sheets.

Bedding once a week. My house is relatively clean, unlike school.

awayhay · 03/05/2026 10:30

No idea how she manages this. I have 3 kids (one is a 5 month old). Some days I do 5 loads of washing, others 1–2, but I still have massive piles of washing. I just can’t get through it.
Your friend must put it all in the dryer, which I don’t do because it shrinks everything.

I mean, good for her but I can’t relate

Sidebeforeself · 03/05/2026 10:30

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:25

Because her friend is doing 2 loads per WEEK so uniform, PE kit etc can’t possibly be clean alongside all other clothes. Are you telling me that the OP’s friend doesn’t have DC? Please correct me if I missed that detail.
So many children - way more than you would think - have dirty clothes at school. The stench from blazers when it rains is eye watering.

Not 2 loads per week…2,5 loads THAT week.

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:30

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:28

Maybe her dc don’t have blazers…mine don’t. Think outside the box maybe?

So how often is the jumper getting washed then? Trust me, they smell if the clothes are washed rarely and other kids notice.

SonnyandChair · 03/05/2026 10:29

Schools are despicably dirty places and trousers/skirts cannot be reworn

What nonsense!

At DD's school, PE was usually so tame, they never worked up a sweat.

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:29

Iwanttobeafraser · 03/05/2026 10:27

Soery, skirts ans trousers every day? Ridiculous and totally unnecessary. Shirts, yes, especially as dc reach puberty and are smelly. Yes to socks and underwear, vests etc. Pe kit in high school- yes. But day to day school trousers and shorts? He'll no. Ditto jeans should.be worn a few times, trackies if not used for exercise etc. Which is am struggling to teach dd - if she tries in a pair of jeans, decides not to wear them, and takes them off... she will try put them in the wash!! 🤣

Absolutely the same about jeans, but school trousers and skirts need a wash after a full day of school. Playing football at lunchtime in the mud, sitting on filthy canteen chairs - you get the picture.

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:28

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:25

Because her friend is doing 2 loads per WEEK so uniform, PE kit etc can’t possibly be clean alongside all other clothes. Are you telling me that the OP’s friend doesn’t have DC? Please correct me if I missed that detail.
So many children - way more than you would think - have dirty clothes at school. The stench from blazers when it rains is eye watering.

Maybe her dc don’t have blazers…mine don’t. Think outside the box maybe?

Iwanttobeafraser · 03/05/2026 10:27

likeafishneedsabike · 03/05/2026 10:20

Your friend is an absolute minger. Her kids are probably the sort who are a bit ‘ripe’ in their school uniform. Schools are despicably dirty places and trousers/skirts cannot be reworn. Clean shirt every day. Blazer washed once a week minimum. PE kit washed after each wear. She’s not doing the basics for her kids. In this house we have teenage skin issues so clean pillowcase every day to avoid re-infection. It’s load after load, but at least everyone is clean.

Soery, skirts ans trousers every day? Ridiculous and totally unnecessary. Shirts, yes, especially as dc reach puberty and are smelly. Yes to socks and underwear, vests etc. Pe kit in high school- yes. But day to day school trousers and shorts? He'll no. Ditto jeans should.be worn a few times, trackies if not used for exercise etc. Which is am struggling to teach dd - if she tries in a pair of jeans, decides not to wear them, and takes them off... she will try put them in the wash!! 🤣

Kitchenbattle · 03/05/2026 10:26

rubyslippers · 03/05/2026 10:25

Her kids may well have multiple shirts etc that get washed at the end of the week along with blazer etc
bit of a reach to come to the conclusion the OP’s mate is a minger

Yeah my dd wears a fresh shirt most days, so that’s 4 shirts a week, but they are shirts and they don’t take up a lot of space.

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