Women’s hour - birdwatching. WTF is wrong with some women?

Give off manosphere vibes not 👆

I hate all these labels and stereotypes- DH and his friends, my brother are all well educated in subjects like philosophy, politics, English Literature. My DH visits Art galleries quite frequently, enjoys design as he is an Architect but they are all big football fans! Equally, they idea that do called, 'Nerdy' men are all soft and lovely is just as ridiculous, they can be equally of manosphere vibes.

Are the Ladies Society ground down by the patriarchy and feel they have to do these teas? If a group of women want to set themselves up in this way then good on them! Maybe they enjoy that time spent with just women doing something pretty simple.

Oh, the one I saw said 4th May, but then when I read the small print it was only for residents of USA and Canada!
Sorry for the misinformation.

@Hallamule have you been out in the real world recently? My son’s school has a special focus on cricket and they have a ‘Ladies Society’ who organise the cricket teas. I absolutely do not engage with this at all. But it still exists. Sexism still exists. I know we smash the patriarchy on a Wednesday but weekend hobbies are totally still affected by it. There are still a whole cohort of men out there who do not want women in the workplace but legislation exists to force their hand. The one place they can still 100% close ranks and exclude women is in the leisure sector. They don’t want women there. And you’re absolutely bonkers if you think turning up with a set jaw and a firm handshake is going to make them see otherwise.

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Normal does not a BBC programme make! I think the researchers trawl for those that really don't make great role models.

Don't be daft. It's not cricket c1920 where he devoted wives and mothers show up to provide the food.

I love birdwatching but I'm not a twitcher. I don't want to be part of the twitcher community. Bird watching and twitching are worlds apart. In fact the appeal of bird watching is that I don't have to be part of a community. It's something I can do on my own to get away from people. I like watching birds and am just as happy in the garden watching robins and magpies as I am going up a mountain in Wales to watch red kites. There's a particular tidal phenomenon that I go to and it draws a lot of twitchers. I ignore them. It's quite easy.

But the male volunteers won't be serving tea in the cafe.
Say what?
There's loads of volunteering places I've been to as a cafe customer and males are working in the cafe. I'd never thought to question it, they serve tea and cake and clean the table afterwards.
No doubt there maybe some places but im thinking of places where we ( at work) take the young people we work with in the summer such as miniature railways in parks where there's a cafe or national trust places.

Oh you are so funny @Zov . 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆
Or a twat.

HTH.

You have seriously never seen male volunteers serving in a cafe or shop???

REALLY?! 😆

You really think that in these hobby groups, the men all group together and order the women to make the tea and coffee, and do the domestic tasks?

OMFG! 😂 This thread is the gift that keeps on giving!!!

But the male volunteers won't be serving tea in the cafe.

Going in at the deep end? 😂 It's BIRDwatching mate, looking for and seeking out rare and uncommon birds (and more common ones too!) it's not swimming with sharks or climbing Mount Everest!

Birds don't bite! And neither do any of the MEN who do birdwatching!

Some of the comments on this thread are batshit! 😆

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Binocular give away if you're on the Merlin App!

"It is really intimidating as a young woman trying to pick up a pair of binoculars, it is really scary" This is what she said.

She goes on to say how scary it was when she was in her early 20s.
I don't know how old she is now and whether it really was such an intimidating thing to get into then.

We can still applaud the work she has done and be disappointed in how she came across in this particular part of her interview.

Twitching is not the same as bird watching though. No one starts as a twitchesr so why would you make a programme encouraging people who are not confident in nature to go in at the deep end?

It was clumsily phrased. I can't imagine for one single minute she literally meant she was scared of actually picking up binoculars and putting them to her eyes. Because quite frankly nobody is. It's just a turn of phrase, like someone saying they were nervous when they first picked up a fishing rod (as in when they first went fishing). And for any woman who hasn't been part of the twitcher community, I can tell you that it is fucking intimidating. It's populated by older white pompous shits of men, who are more interested in the competitive side than the thing they're supposed to be watching. It's like an old boys club with a bad reputation for being a closed shop, especially towards women. So yes, it can be scary especially when you're in the middle of bloody nowhere with these men. Why don't those posters criticising Lucy give it a go themselves instead of ripping her apart. She's done some good work so how about applauding that.

This. ^ I prefer the company of men who some may class as nerds. I couldn't be with a man who is into sport, especially football, or bloody golf. Many men like this mix with misogynistic men. (The world of sport tends to be very 'manosphere.')

My DH (thankfully) is not into sport, he likes the same things as me - literature, theatre, sci-fi, nature, films, music, cats, the countryside, the beach, and travelling.

DH and I (and our 2 DC) are obsessed with the Merlin Bird App, and love to see (and log) all the birds that are in our area. I went 'birdwatching' on my own a few weeks ago, at a local Nature Reserve. There were around 12 men and 8 women, so it's nonsense that it's just men.

I haven't listened to it but I personally can't imagine being scared of men that engage in Birdwatching as a hobbie. That said, if I was very young, perhaps I would feel like that, also if it's about a male domain then yes, I can understand the hesitation. However, I would attribute that feeling to more of a traditional male domain like a snooker hall. Despite this being one of the only sports men and women can compete against each other, I would imagine the cultural history is why you don't really see an equal number of women competing in the WST. I think at the snooker hall near us, some teenagers will go in groups but not girls on their own and it is to play Pool not snooker.

This can absolutely be the case but it's also true that newbies are supposed to to "serve their time" by performing some of the less exciting and glamorous tasks. It is really annoying when someone new joins because they want to drive the train but who has no intention of giving a hand with in all the dull stuff that makes the whole thing function.

Edited to add: the latter is by no means a woman-specific problem

Just as in every area of life, there's a certain type of male twitcher who feels it's his little male club and who's threatened by the presence of a woman who might know more than him, or have better more expensive equipment.

Best laughed at then ignored. They're pathetic not "scary". That woman certainly didn't do the cause any good.