How many people have you slept with?

Exactly, we have an incel on our hands I think, or if it is a married woman as they claim then I feel sorry for them.

I don't actually know my number and I feel like trying to remember and count them all would depress me, not because of what a massive slag I am, I think it would just make me feel old, and further emphasise that my memory is not what it once was! I'm 46 and it's somewhere around 25-30 at a guess.

Been with my husband for 10 years, we've never had the numbers conversation and I wouldn't entertain being asked about it. That said, he'd probably be able to guess the general ballpark just from context clues, if he cared about it in the slightest which he seemingly doesn't as he's never asked. I can also, based on what I know about him, assume his number is rather lower but it's not actually important to either of us or relevant to our relationship.

Bit of fumbling with one or two, but actual intercourse, just one, my DH of 27 years. We were each other's first and only. We're both in our mid fifties.

Absolutely. Ive been married the best part of 30 years so far and he's never once asked me about it. Nor I him.
Clearly it doesn't matter to either of us.

over 110, used to brag about it. Mostly ons. Didn't care and was always clear about what it was. No stringing people along. Ocassionally pity sex from people who really liked me and vice versa.
Was fun and sometimes I really miss it. Never lied, why lie?

I had to look up "cuck" because I didn't know what it meant.

Here's the definition for those who also don't know -

"Cuck" is a derogatory slang term derived from "cuckold," originally referring to a man whose wife cheats on him. In modern online slang, particularly within the alt-right or manosphere, it is used as an insult to describe a man considered weak, feeble, or spineless. It implies a lack of masculinity, submissiveness, or a failure to defend one’s interests or nation.

I guess this tells us everything we need to know about @coulditbeme2323 😂

Oh @coulditbeme2323 got lost on the way to the manosphere.

Ahhhh, that's very telling.

Maybe they are a weird man 🤷‍♂️

About 30 ish, 3 one night stands, I’m now 57 got married at age 29

Probably roughly the same amount as you. Had a wild time in my 20s 🙈

I'm 49. I've been with partner 20 years. From recollection when I counted it was 50ish.
However what are we counting...full vaginal penetration? Oral? Digital? That would skew the figures

I feel sorry for you if this is genuinely your mindset

Sure.

No one else cares what your husband thinks and your husband doesn't represent all men!

Over 30 but not sure on the exact number, less than 50.

4 long term boyfriends, my husband, slept with friends and acquaintances a bunch of times, a couple long term no strings attached shags and the rest ONS.

I am 34 and have been married for nearly 7 years.

My husband knows I slept with him at 19 when we were just mates😂

I had a very promiscuous stage in my late teens and slept with loads of people. If I had to try and count them now I wouldn't be able to remember clearly enough to put an accurate figure to it, there was a lot of booze involved and it was decades ago.

DH doesn't give a fuck really - we've never discussed it in any great depth, he just knows I had a wild phase.
I wouldn't have married a sexist, judgemental bastard though.

Cuck 🤣 time to put down the red pill reddit pages

How could my OH care about how many people I have slept with when he has never asked? Do you think he's been lying awake at night fretting about it for 12 years? Or maybe he understands it's got nothing to do with him and couldn't care less.

You need to hang out with different men if you think 'all men' care about this shit.

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Something like 24. I mean its irrelevant for partners to even ask about it and they don’t have an actual right to know.

I don't know. Enough. And no, I don't tell anyone because it's none of their business.
Want to know isn't the same as need to know.

Yes, on your part.

I suppose you think brides who wear white are virgins?

If they're fucking idiots maybe. Personally I don't marry idiots, maybe you do.

Both you are your husband care about this and are on the same page. You chose a partner who cares about it. Others haven't. So you can't project your experience onto others.