How many people have you slept with?

Fucking loads and still doing it.
Dont even no half the names just hook up and French exit in the morning.
Life's to short to worry over a body count im having fun while I still can.

Why would low numbers protect your health more than sexual health checks?

Seriously, no clue under 500

Some insecure sexist blokes might have an issue with it and if they do its a nice early warning red flag to get out of there. My only concern would be if the person used protection and if they were in a relationship while having sex with others.

He was. He was also about 4 years younger than me so maybe he was just scared of my confident 25 year old self 😂

2, one being my husband.

Sometimes i regret not having more "fun" but ive realised i had to really trust someone before i slept with them.

The other person was when me and my hudband ( then bf) was on a break and it was to make him jealous ( dont judge i was only 18) and i regret it because it was beyond shite and honestly weird.

Im 60 now and single. Wouldn't lie if asked . Had 3.5 😆...the .5 was a failed attempt at a one night stand after a break up...I had drunk too much and was braver at the beginning than when it came to do the deed. Thank god the guy was really lovely about it ! He even paid for my taxi home !! 😂

TBH I don't know. I used to keep a list but stopped counting after about 15 / 20 ish but I reckon about 40. I have no regrets. I had a great time when I was younger. I don't think any ex boyfriends have ever asked how many people I've slept with but I wouldn't lie. If they had an issue with my past then they can do one.

No men 😂 sorry was quoting a Ludacris song from my hey day. Probably not very PC, just jesting.

3, ex husband, guy i was in a relationship with for 18 months and the third is my husband. Living on a military base i could have had ONS on tap but that's not for me.

2

I have a very very type A friend who when we were at uni had a spreadsheet. Didn’t believe her at first and then she pulled the thing up. I did ask her if she filled it in straight after sex but thankfully she waited till they left.

There are no non-misogynist men who call men “cucks” for not caring about their wife’s sexual history.

And why would anybody care about a misogynist’s view on anything?

11 including my ExH and no new ones since we married in my late 20s. I am 53. We have been split 8 years and I haven't had sex since. I connect with a few of mine on Facebook and occasionally in person and would happily have a pint and a catch up with around half of them. The other half not so much!

I am not sure I would be willing to have that conversation if I do meet someone now. What does it matter. Often how many just comes down to how quickly you met people who you then went on to have a long term relationship with. Had I not met my husband who knows how many frogs I might have kissed before finding (who I though was my) Mr Right!

When you say hoes, do you mean women?

Christians aren't neccesarily that committed

I had hoes in different area codes so the list helped me remember them.

With a point system I hope

Quite a few, I haven’t kept count, only one for the last 15 years.

Wish it was more though. Wish I’d had more confidence in my youth and hadn’t worried what people would think! So much fun to be had. So little time!

I think I even put it into sections, I’m organised like that.

3, all long-term relationships. I am a serial monogamist!I did lie by omission to the second about sleeping with the first - what can I say, I was young and silly! Given the second was a man I was with for 25 years and it was deeply unsatisfying at many levels, including sexually, I do regret not having played the field more in my 20s and 30s! I am now happily in a relationship.

this thread admittedly inspired me to write one 😅

I used to write a list every now and again when I was in my peak shagging phase. It was amusing and reminiscent.

Ive never lied but I’ve never discussed it with anyone! I’m late 50s. Just counted and it’s 18.

To be fair, it would be pretty weird to keep a list.

"What's your body count?"
*Pulls out list from pocket