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Is a St George cross an underlying sign of passive racism?

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ThatCyanJoker · 28/04/2026 19:04

Walked past the house of a relatively new friend today and was surprised to see they’ve put up a huge flagpole, complete with St George cross flag flying high. I am generally patriotic , and put out the bunting for notable occasions without a second thought. I would probably be pleased had it been a Union Jack, but the St George has an undertone of racism to me, unless it’s flown for the football World Cup or something.
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CreativeGreen · 29/04/2026 13:28

This 'Reform hijacked the flag' doesn't really make sense. It's not as though the flag wasn't really quite regularly flown by racists before last August (and generating the exact same debates: I remember this around the World Cup in the early 2000s!). Reform and Fly the Colours and similar put the flag up because of what it symbolized already: they didn't make it a racist act, they did it because it is one.

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:23

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 13:20

There are multiple posts on this thread supporting the flying of the flag, acting horrified that anyone would call it a potentially racist act, without acknowledging the associations it has and why some people might feel threatened by it. And no, I really don’t think a lot of people do acknowledge this or actively push back against it.

Cannot quite understand if we’re reading the same thread!

Because you're filling in gaps on behalf of other people. Someone not acknowledging something is not the same as actively denying! I think people are 'horrified' that anyone would automatically call someone racist for flying a flag. Which is horrifying. And wrong. And rude. And obnoxious.

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 13:20

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:09

I don't - I said 'are people' - meaning 'people'. I gave myself as an example because I can only give myself as an example!!

I don't think anyone on this thread has once said that the flag hasn't been coopted by racists, not once, unless I have missed something, show me where someone has denied this is the case?

There are multiple posts on this thread supporting the flying of the flag, acting horrified that anyone would call it a potentially racist act, without acknowledging the associations it has and why some people might feel threatened by it. And no, I really don’t think a lot of people do acknowledge this or actively push back against it.

Cannot quite understand if we’re reading the same thread!

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:13

FrippEnos · 29/04/2026 13:12

Yes, everybody should have encouraged to put up the cross of St George taking any racist connations out of those putting the flag up for racist reasons.

Maybe I wasn't clear in the flag that they should all have been encouraged to put was the English flag.

But you have mis interpreted what I have posted.

It's literally how they took back the union flag - mass flying.

FrippEnos · 29/04/2026 13:12

Itsmetheflamingo · 28/04/2026 21:30

Erm from your post explaining your (“very simple”) solution was to cover the country in flags to compete with the racists’ flags?

“Its very simple, when peoplw started hanging flags from lamp posts instead of saying that everyone was racist, the government, councils, SM etc. could have got together and got everybody to put flags up.”

Yes, everybody should have encouraged to put up the cross of St George taking any racist connations out of those putting the flag up for racist reasons.

Maybe I wasn't clear in the flag that they should all have been encouraged to put was the English flag.

But you have mis interpreted what I have posted.

Araminta1003 · 29/04/2026 13:11

Put it this way - there were no flags on St George’s day last week in my area of London. They will go up for the football though. Would be interesting if someone had gone and done a survey of “flag areas’ and then compared to the upcoming local council elections. Reform have hijacked the flag somewhat in some areas. I bet there is actually a link if anyone had bothered to study it. Would have been an interesting dissertation for a politics student. I am now 95% confident Reform won’t get any councillors in our immediate area in.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 29/04/2026 13:10

DuchessOfStuffit · 28/04/2026 19:08

Not english but from another UK country. If we fly our flag noone thinks its racist. Bit unfair all english people cant be patriotic and fly their flag...

Yes, in no other country does an element of the population choose to be ashamed of their national flag.

TBH nobody is more anti-English than some English people! And they often put it down to the legacy of empire, etc. but plenty of other countries had empires (France and Belgium are just two, and Germany did try very hard to have one not so very long ago…) but I never hear about those nationals being ashamed of their flags.

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:09

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 13:05

I wasn’t speaking to you personally!
Not sure why you think I am.

Rather to the many people on this thread and elsewhere who defend the flying of the flag without recognising its potency as a nationalistic symbol (which is being abused and co-opted).

I don't - I said 'are people' - meaning 'people'. I gave myself as an example because I can only give myself as an example!!

I don't think anyone on this thread has once said that the flag hasn't been coopted by racists, not once, unless I have missed something, show me where someone has denied this is the case?

CreativeGreen · 29/04/2026 13:05

Not underlying, and possibly not passive either.

Genevieva · 29/04/2026 13:05

It was St George’s day last week - patron saint of England, Malta and Georgia. That’s probably why. It’s also popular among football fans during international matches and used to fly from pretty much every Anglican parish church in the country at one point. It’s decidedly odd to think that supporting your country is racist.

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 13:05

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:02

Are people not doing that? I am. That said I am fighting Reform on my own doorstep - and the delightful Heritage Party, have you heard of them?! - to make sure that my home nation doesn't elect a bunch of rag tag racist failed English nationalists next Thursday. So I don't have all the energy to do everything.

I wasn’t speaking to you personally!
Not sure why you think I am.

Rather to the many people on this thread and elsewhere who defend the flying of the flag without recognising its potency as a nationalistic symbol (which is being abused and co-opted).

Boomer55 · 29/04/2026 13:03

ThatCyanJoker · 28/04/2026 19:04

Walked past the house of a relatively new friend today and was surprised to see they’ve put up a huge flagpole, complete with St George cross flag flying high. I am generally patriotic , and put out the bunting for notable occasions without a second thought. I would probably be pleased had it been a Union Jack, but the St George has an undertone of racism to me, unless it’s flown for the football World Cup or something.
AIBU to reconsider friendship?

It’s our national flag just after St George’s Day. Not everyone has any agenda.

Be warned - if England do ok in the World Cup, they will go up again. 🙄

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 13:02

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 12:59

I’d say part of that reclaiming should be calling out explicitly the right wing led flag-flying campaign we see everywhere at the moment.
Otherwise it’s ambiguous at best.

Are people not doing that? I am. That said I am fighting Reform on my own doorstep - and the delightful Heritage Party, have you heard of them?! - to make sure that my home nation doesn't elect a bunch of rag tag racist failed English nationalists next Thursday. So I don't have all the energy to do everything.

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 12:59

CoffeeCantata · 29/04/2026 12:30

This is a great explanation, thank you.

Just because a few of nasty people WANT to co-opt the St George's flag to represent their beliefs, we shouldn't let them. It's within all our powers to keep it as a unifying symbol of national pride and identity but we all need to show determination not to go along with their agenda.

People who insist it's an indicator of definite racism are actually going along with that very agenda.

Things haven't gone too far yet. I'm willing to admit that you couldn't use a swastika, an ancient Hindu sun symbol, any more without connotations. I've got an early edition of the Just So Stories by Kipling with little swastikas on the spine - all very innocent in those days. We need to take back the flag(s) now.

I’d say part of that reclaiming should be calling out explicitly the right wing led flag-flying campaign we see everywhere at the moment.
Otherwise it’s ambiguous at best.

sunflowersintheday · 29/04/2026 12:59

Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 12:58

No one is unaware. No one is pretending there is not a serious problem. Some people choose not to subscribe to the narrative that those who use it in nefarious ways are trying to make wholesale. Accepting it is a 'racist symbol' is contributing to the problem, not counteracting it. And assuming everyone who chooses to fly it is a bigot is ridiculous irony.

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Arlanymor · 29/04/2026 12:58

InterestedDad37 · 29/04/2026 12:54

Anyone who is unaware of the message it (currently) gives is either being wilfully ignorant, or is simply an idiot.

No one is unaware. No one is pretending there is not a serious problem. Some people choose not to subscribe to the narrative that those who use it in nefarious ways are trying to make wholesale. Accepting it is a 'racist symbol' is contributing to the problem, not counteracting it. And assuming everyone who chooses to fly it is a bigot is ridiculous irony.

CoffeeCantata · 29/04/2026 12:56

InterestedDad37 · 29/04/2026 12:54

Anyone who is unaware of the message it (currently) gives is either being wilfully ignorant, or is simply an idiot.

No they're not.

They perhaps don't leap to instant judgement as much as you, are less narrow-minded and have more life experience.

For the SG flag to become an acknowledged symbol of racist beliefs, we'd all have to sign up to that, an I'm not going to.

Fight your corner - don't let them have it.

InterestedDad37 · 29/04/2026 12:54

Anyone who is unaware of the message it (currently) gives is either being wilfully ignorant, or is simply an idiot.

sunflowersintheday · 29/04/2026 12:51

GremlinDolphin4 · 29/04/2026 12:50

Someone summed it up on the first page - flags are useful in that they show where the rascist Reform voters are.

No.
See @KoiTetra 's post at 11:15.

GremlinDolphin4 · 29/04/2026 12:50

Someone summed it up on the first page - flags are useful in that they show where the rascist Reform voters are.

CoffeeCantata · 29/04/2026 12:30

KoiTetra · 29/04/2026 11:15

I think you have slightly misinterpreted the views of those who are arguing against all use of the flag being racist.

I don't think there is a person on here would would disagree with you that the far right is racist and that they have attempted to twist the national flag to their own symbol and that their use of it is a racist symbol.

The argument is that the flag existed for hundreds of years before the BNP/EDL (insert other far right groups) existed. It is the flag of England and 99% of the worlds countries are able to use their flag to show pride in their country. English people should be able to do the same without instantly being assumed to be racist just because a group of hateful individuals have tried to steal a national symbol.

In short your final paragraph is the truth and the fact you agree that not everyone who flies the flag is racist sets you apart from a number of posters who have said the opposite.

This is a great explanation, thank you.

Just because a few of nasty people WANT to co-opt the St George's flag to represent their beliefs, we shouldn't let them. It's within all our powers to keep it as a unifying symbol of national pride and identity but we all need to show determination not to go along with their agenda.

People who insist it's an indicator of definite racism are actually going along with that very agenda.

Things haven't gone too far yet. I'm willing to admit that you couldn't use a swastika, an ancient Hindu sun symbol, any more without connotations. I've got an early edition of the Just So Stories by Kipling with little swastikas on the spine - all very innocent in those days. We need to take back the flag(s) now.

FrizzyFrizbee · 29/04/2026 11:29

ThatCyanJoker · 28/04/2026 19:04

Walked past the house of a relatively new friend today and was surprised to see they’ve put up a huge flagpole, complete with St George cross flag flying high. I am generally patriotic , and put out the bunting for notable occasions without a second thought. I would probably be pleased had it been a Union Jack, but the St George has an undertone of racism to me, unless it’s flown for the football World Cup or something.
AIBU to reconsider friendship?

I suggest you seek out the definition of the word “BIGOT” then re-read your post and see if you reach an intelligent conclusion about yourself - but I won’t hold much hope that you are capable of much self awareness. Even your “friend” is not allowed to fly her country flag for her own reason, without a nasty, judgmental label from you. What a piece of work you are.

ToffeePennie · 29/04/2026 11:28

I would have one for St George’s day and to celebrate Shakespeare - his birth and expected death day is St George’s day. So I would have a flag for at least a week if I had a flagpole.
plus for world cups in football/rugby and any other patriotic events that happened.

FrizzyFrizbee · 29/04/2026 11:21

MaybeIamJustABitch · 28/04/2026 19:20

Hang on, if I put a St George flag up I’m automatically racist, but if I put up a St Andrew or St Patrick or a Union Jack flag I’m not, as that certainly appears what you are inferring.

FFS.

Yes exactly. I pity the OP’s “friend” for having a “friend” who evidently holds such narrow- minded, intolerant, judgmental views as the OP, and hope this friend sees sense soon and ditches the OP.

KoiTetra · 29/04/2026 11:15

AnythingButThis · 29/04/2026 10:06

I agree to a degree.
I think the flag has been co-opted by the far right and manifestly racist - players like Lennon(Robinson), Currien(Saxon), Gurnarit Singh. Many/most have documented racist views and have served prison time for their part on race motivated murders.
I think arguments that they are making and ‘Operation Raise the Colours’ tactics of flags on lamposts etc is racist at its heart. To refute this is to align with them or maybe choose to ignore who they actually are and what they stand for (which is well documented).

Of course not everyone who flies the flag does follow them I wouldn’t make that argument at all. But many do sadly, particularly at the minute, and like the fascists of old there is a lot of manipulation at the heart of it which I think we should call out.

Edited

I think you have slightly misinterpreted the views of those who are arguing against all use of the flag being racist.

I don't think there is a person on here would would disagree with you that the far right is racist and that they have attempted to twist the national flag to their own symbol and that their use of it is a racist symbol.

The argument is that the flag existed for hundreds of years before the BNP/EDL (insert other far right groups) existed. It is the flag of England and 99% of the worlds countries are able to use their flag to show pride in their country. English people should be able to do the same without instantly being assumed to be racist just because a group of hateful individuals have tried to steal a national symbol.

In short your final paragraph is the truth and the fact you agree that not everyone who flies the flag is racist sets you apart from a number of posters who have said the opposite.