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For pulling over briefly to watch a Hare?

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AintNobodyHereButUsChickens · 28/04/2026 11:34

I was heading home on a long drive earlier today and I was on a very long, very straight road and I spotted a Hare loping across the road about 100yds in front of me, when I got to where I’d seen it go, I saw it sat in the field so I pulled up and watched it, and I even took a little video! As I mentioned, the road was very long and straight so I could see a mile in both directions and there was nothing coming whatsoever so I wasn’t inconveniencing any other drivers. All in all I was on the side of the road for no more than a minute before it bounded off and disappeared.

DH rang me a little while later and I excitedly told him about the Hare and that I’d sat and watched it and he made me feel a bit silly for being excited about seeing one. He said they’re ‘not exactly rare’ and that he sees them all the time. The thing is, he used to be a roadworker and now he’s a builder so he’s spent years and countless hours driving endless country roads, so no doubt he has seen loads of Hares over the years. But I’m a SAHM and rarely go out of town. I obviously don’t see Hares on the school run, or in the gym or in town at the shops so it is a rare sighting for me!

Would anyone else have been excited to see a Hare like I was? Here’s a screenshot of the video, sorry it’s so grainy, by the time I’d grabbed my phone it had gotten much further away from me so I had to zoom in!

For pulling over briefly to watch a Hare?
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SerafinasGoose · 28/04/2026 11:38

Yes! We have some locally to here and I often walk out to try to spot them at dusk. I'd absolutely pull over if safe to do so.

Plump82 · 28/04/2026 11:37

I get excited to see a squirrel never mind a hare so you shouldn't feel bad for what you did!

geminicancerean · 28/04/2026 11:36

I don’t really know how to reply to this. Of course it’s fine to pull over on a quiet road to watch wildlife. Your DH is right in that hares are common but clearly they aren’t to you so it’s perfectly reasonable that you were interested in it.

TeaDrinkings · 28/04/2026 11:36

Every time! Hares are wonderful.

TerracottaBowl · 28/04/2026 11:35

As long as you do it safely, you can pull over to stare into space!

Yes, hares are lovely to watch. I never got tired of seeing them when I used to live rurally.