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AIBU to think poor health in later life is a UK problem?

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BePunnyLilacCrow · 27/04/2026 14:15

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20q07w3gl9o

I just read an article about healthy life expectancy in the UK, and I find it quite sad that we are basically at the bottom of the list among the world’s richest countries. Even the US is better than the UK on average??

Life expectancy in the UK is:

Men: ~79-80 years
Women: ~83-84 years

BUT

Men spend about 19–20 years in poorer health
Women spend about 22–23 years in poorer health

I know that the UK has relatively good overall life expectancy, but that mainly means we are keeping people alive for longer. Unfortunately, those extra years are often not spent in good health. These facts are not true for wealthier parts of the UK, but even the more affluent areas still tend to have lower healthy life expectancy than many average European countries. I am curious what
people think about the contributing factors? I think:

• Weaker family/social connections (I seriously think this is a big one)
• Obviously diet + high consumption of UPFs
• Low every day
activity (again, loneliness contributes to this esp. for the elderly)

There are many reasons, but in my opinion these contribute a lot. Especially weak social life I see in the UK compared to most countries I’ve lived/been to. For example something as simple as cooking together with people, or for family gatherings etc can have a huge impact on how people eat, because you are encouraged more to home cook food in that way, rather than just get a greasy takeaway or eat out, or just get a rubbish supermarket ready meals most people have etc.

This post is not about judging anyone’s lifestyle choices. But I think we should all be concerned about this because there is no point in living longer if it’s spent in illness. And I’m saying this as someone under 30.

What do you think? How can we improve these measures and live a better life in the UK?

Stock photo shows a person sittting on the floor of a yoga studio while practising meditation with others in the background.

UK healthy life expectancy falls by two years in past decade

Poor housing, obesity and the effects of deprivation have been suggested as underlying cause.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c20q07w3gl9o

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godmum56 · 27/04/2026 17:37

I'd like to know if the same criteria for "poorer health" are used for all countries or does each country set its own criteria or is it self reported by the individuals?

SpaceRaccoon · 27/04/2026 17:32

I'd actually see it from a different angle, that plenty of people who would otherwise be dead are being kept alive with modern drugs and medical care.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:31

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:27

I am doing something productive! 😆 I am waiting for my dc to finish their extracurricular and walking around the park/doing lunges & squats & using MNs to stop me getting bored whilst I walk in circles.

But I can’t fit that in everyday & I would rather do fun exercise as opposed to walking laps

I walk a lot but I have a desk job so want to do more. And my commute is now a drive due to hours & needing to collect dc.

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I'm just really not convinced that everyone is soooo busy that they can't possibly dedicate 30 minutes a few times a week to doing a home workout on YouTube or going for a walk or using a walking pad at their desks etc.

People would rather do other things (and I can't blame them a lot of the time) but that doesn't mean they're pushed for time, they're just prioritising other things (like you prioritising your DC's activities over your ability to do something you'd enjoy more).

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:27

Overthemoun · 27/04/2026 17:23

So many factors:

terrible weather for being active
huge majority of jobs being sedentary
poor public transport resulting in driving everywhere
time poor which impacts food and exercise choices
how we socialise is alcohol based - it is a part of our culture
ever increasing junk food
nhs getting worse and worse

Again, people exercised and kids played out despite weather in the past.

It's not that awful anyway. If cold and wet weather stopped exercise, surely coldest countries would have least exercise - but is this the case?

I've had great sun (Londoner) the last few days. We do have spring and summer and as pp said, it's got warmer if anything.

I thunk a lot of people are much too negative on here about UK weather- why?

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:27

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:23

You say you're pushed for time yet how much time have you spent responding on this thread instead of doing something more productive?

I am doing something productive! 😆 I am waiting for my dc to finish their extracurricular and walking around the park/doing lunges & squats & using MNs to stop me getting bored whilst I walk in circles.

But I can’t fit that in everyday & I would rather do fun exercise as opposed to walking laps

I walk a lot but I have a desk job so want to do more. And my commute is now a drive due to hours & needing to collect dc.

Overthemoun · 27/04/2026 17:27

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:25

I agree with you. I also think the demise of the high street plays a part - how many of us have no choice but to drive to a big out of townTesco/Asda to do our food shop (or get it delivered) because there's nowhere else to buy food from?

Yes absolutely, the fittest I’ve been is when I worked in town and didn’t have a car. I walked because it was the easiest option. Food bought frequently as it had to fit in the pushchair and be pushed home! That sort of lifestyle was much more common before than it is now.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:25

WildGarden · 27/04/2026 17:23

It's got warmer if anything.

"Who is going to choose to walk to the shops or whatever when they can just hop in the car and stay warm and dry?"
In the past people have walked to the shops whatever the weather and that probably contributed to lower obesity rates and healthier old age.

I agree with you. I also think the demise of the high street plays a part - how many of us have no choice but to drive to a big out of townTesco/Asda to do our food shop (or get it delivered) because there's nowhere else to buy food from?

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:25

Meadowfinch · 27/04/2026 15:44

Have your children been through school recently? Children are taught to make chocolate brownies if you are lucky. They might be taught to use a set of scales and a knife, but not taught how to prepare different veg.

Most schools don't have the facilities or the staff which means most teens can no more make soup or an omelette than they can fly.

Nor do they teach basic nutrition or dietary care.
I live in a m/c area where few are struggling financially but a lot of ds' friends are overweight because their parents feed them junk, through ignorance. It certainly isn't a lack of love.

Ignorance isn't an excuse.

I know life is really hard if you're poor in this society.

But people can educate themselves! The Internet is available. Libraries with books and Internet at least in some areas.

If you choose to have kids you can't just feed them crap and say you didn't know any better so it's not your fault.

Spaghettea · 27/04/2026 17:24

The loss of NHS dental care and austerity didn't help.

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:24

The UK likely has more socioeconomic inequality vs other countries which feeds into healthcare.

I don’t think the NHS model is working personally.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:23

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:18

@marsbarslice people are pushed for time though. I’m pushed for time!

You can think it’s just because people want instant gratification but as I said I don’t agree.

You say you're pushed for time yet how much time have you spent responding on this thread instead of doing something more productive?

WildGarden · 27/04/2026 17:23

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:19

Has the weather changed a lot since past decades when we were healthier, though?

It's got warmer if anything.

"Who is going to choose to walk to the shops or whatever when they can just hop in the car and stay warm and dry?"
In the past people have walked to the shops whatever the weather and that probably contributed to lower obesity rates and healthier old age.

Overthemoun · 27/04/2026 17:23

So many factors:

terrible weather for being active
huge majority of jobs being sedentary
poor public transport resulting in driving everywhere
time poor which impacts food and exercise choices
how we socialise is alcohol based - it is a part of our culture
ever increasing junk food
nhs getting worse and worse

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:23

Pigriver · 27/04/2026 15:42

I think the range across different socioeconomic groups is massive. My mum grew up in poverty, one of 12 children, worked 3 low paid jobs (factory/cleaning) jobs and raised 2 kids on not much. As life got easier and she was able to slow down her health really deteriorated. She is obese from years of poor diet, lung issues from years of smoking, has never exercised as never had time and was a social drinker. She now sits for hours a day watching TV or playing bingo. She potters out everyday to go to a social group. She is 72 and it feels like when she got to 70 her mindset changed. She acts old. Her mum died at 70.
Compare that to me. University educated, don't drink or smoke, understand about diet and exercise. We are going to have very different outcomes.
The current older generation are post war babies. Food was fuel. It was about filling bellies. High fat, fried food was ok because snacks didn't exist. Life was more active. Gadgets wash our clothes and dishes, we have Hoover's and steam mops. We have cars. Our lifestyle has undergone massive changes in the last 60 years and our bodies/mindset have struggled to adapt.

I understand this is difficult...and probably something you've tried anyway..

But have you tried gently suggesting better diet or exercise options? Does she just not want to consider any change?

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:19

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 15:37

Hypotheses about laziness are completely unhelpful as they just beg the question of why some countries would be lazier than others.

I don't think they are unhelpful, though.

For example - the weather in the UK doesn't help - who wants to go out after work and exercise when it's pissing down rain and freezing cold? Who is going to choose to walk to the shops or whatever when they can just hop in the car and stay warm and dry?

Whereas in (for example) Australia, warm, sunny weather and long, light evenings mean people are much more likely to want to go to the beach, or for a swim, or to play tennis, or take their kids to the park.

Location is another thing - if you live in a city with no green space, you're less likely to want to go out for a walk than if you have fields, mountains or beaches on your doorstep.

Has the weather changed a lot since past decades when we were healthier, though?

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:18

@marsbarslice people are pushed for time though. I’m pushed for time!

You can think it’s just because people want instant gratification but as I said I don’t agree.

WildGarden · 27/04/2026 17:18

I've just spent the day in Weston Super Mare.
People out getting sunburned, drinking outside pubs, the smell of weed everywhere, almost everyone overweight - many of them hugely so, vaping, smoking, energy drinks, fish and chips, donuts.

No level of NHS provision can undo a lifetime of bad choices.

Hammy19 · 27/04/2026 17:18

The UK's relationship with alcohol probably doesn't help. Binge drinking is very dangerous for health

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:17

RawBloomers · 27/04/2026 17:12

Inequality and poor nutrition are major drivers. Not just the high fat, high salt, high UPF aspect but also prenatal nutrition, low breastfeeding rates, poor infant nutrition and abysmal child nutrition. This is down, in part, to the UK's recovery from WWII which, even as class barriers and inequality dropped meant Britain struggled to a much greater extent as other OECD countries recovered. And it had a lasting impact on UK food culture across the board, increasing acceptance of cheap, low quality processed foods. But then the resurgence of inequality saw the gains in food quality that have been made since the 80s entirely miss the least well off.

We have massive cultural issues from the last 40 years (ingrained over the preceding centuries) as gains that could have improved the long term quality of life were spunked up the wall on short term hedonism. This stemmed in large part from Thatcher's policies in the 80s, which were then cemented into place by Blair's glossy pretenses at equality (which mainly just papered over massive structural inequality by borrowing from the future).

We've failed to invest in the NHS adequately and so have lots of people whose health could be better and require less investment at the tail end of life now needing significant care. And we seem to baulk at analysis that would bring more fairness or economic utility to how its money is spent.

I agree with a lot of this. But lots of other European countries were invaded and suffered terribly in war. Poland,,where my grandad came from, suffered terribly under USSR after the way. Yet now their economy is doing well. I agree the war had a big impact but there must be other key factors.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:15

2dogsandabudgie · 27/04/2026 17:12

I think a lot of it is lifestyle. If I look back to my childhood in the 60s/70s fewer people had cars so children walked everywhere. My mum cooked meals from scratch as well as working full time, there wasn't the processed convenient food that you get now or takeaways.

We played out all the time, no computers, mobile phones, ipads etc.

I think lifestyles today are more sedentary and it's so easy to order a takeaway to be delivered.

Lifestyles are sedentary through choice, though.

Yes, it's easier to order a takeaway and watch Love Island than it is to cook dinner and do a workout video but people need to take responsibility for that choice and not act like they're helpless.

Carla786 · 27/04/2026 17:15

CallItLoneliness · 27/04/2026 16:14

OK, but you have had 1) the education to not poison yourself with the chicken, 2) the money to house yourself somewhere with both a fridge and a cooker that allows you to store the food safely and cook it appropriately 3) the opportunity to develop a palate that finds that sort of food acceptable 4) the time to cook it 5) the energy to plan it 6) the financial wherewithal to buy e.g. any spices which are cheap per serving, but expensive in the initial outlay when finances are very tight. I too have all of those things, with the possible exception of the energy for planning, which is thin on the ground with two FT parents, me with a "big job" two school aged kids with complexities, and a lot of work related travel. I'm not having a go at you. But we are both privileged, and a failure to recognise that leaves us with the same lack of society level solutions we already have, and the top 0.1% cashing in on the ways they are structuring society to wreck our health and wellbeing, while the rest of us point fingers at each other.

Do many poor people not even have a fridge or cooker? This is disgusting.

I think most people do like chicken: it's after all a popular food in UPFs...vegetables probably more problematic.

People can Google advice in cooking safely and healthy eating. Or go to a charity or food bank for advice. It's a bad situation but there are options. Also go to library if you can : we need more of those for people.

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:14

@Carla786 we have been in the tough spot since the 08 crash, growth has never recovered. An ageing population makes future growth very difficult.

Fertility rates are the lowest on record I believe, it’s unlikely there will be a big shift.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 17:13

circusrunaways · 27/04/2026 17:05

A 40 hour working week still leaves us with 128 hours to exercise, eat well, sleep, socialise and do whatever else we need to do. It's hardly like we're pushed for time

I think this is too simplistic, I’m trying to fit in more exercise but finding it so tough. I already get up 5:45, don’t work p/t, juggle pick ups and drop offs with DH. I had planned to reduce my hours but finances are tight now.

How is it too simplistic?

I personally think a lot of people are just shit at prioritising and go for whatever is instantly gratifying instead of looking at the bigger picture.

Owninterpreter · 27/04/2026 17:12

I read the article. I cant quite grasp if it means people born now can only expect to be healthy until 61 or thats currently when people hit being unhealthy and whether we expect more of this trend or it will change.
So people around 45 to 60 - why are they more obese, poor and isolated than thier parents i guess is what we mean and how to make sure young people dont end up like this cohort?

2dogsandabudgie · 27/04/2026 17:12

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 15:37

Hypotheses about laziness are completely unhelpful as they just beg the question of why some countries would be lazier than others.

I don't think they are unhelpful, though.

For example - the weather in the UK doesn't help - who wants to go out after work and exercise when it's pissing down rain and freezing cold? Who is going to choose to walk to the shops or whatever when they can just hop in the car and stay warm and dry?

Whereas in (for example) Australia, warm, sunny weather and long, light evenings mean people are much more likely to want to go to the beach, or for a swim, or to play tennis, or take their kids to the park.

Location is another thing - if you live in a city with no green space, you're less likely to want to go out for a walk than if you have fields, mountains or beaches on your doorstep.

I think a lot of it is lifestyle. If I look back to my childhood in the 60s/70s fewer people had cars so children walked everywhere. My mum cooked meals from scratch as well as working full time, there wasn't the processed convenient food that you get now or takeaways.

We played out all the time, no computers, mobile phones, ipads etc.

I think lifestyles today are more sedentary and it's so easy to order a takeaway to be delivered.