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Am I the only middle aged woman NOT using supplements?

294 replies

PoliteSquid · 27/04/2026 09:40

Away on a weekend with friends and the conversation was constantly turning to supplements… probiotic powders, protein, creatin, bone broth and so many more!!!!
I’m no paragon of health but WTF? Where has all this come from? I can’t afford the prices mentioned, but I am starting to wonder if I’m the odd one out for not using any supplements at all!!

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AmIReallyTheGrownup · 27/04/2026 15:38

I’m early 40s and take iron (known deficiency) and Vitamin D. I take magnesium glycinate before bed due to TMJ issues.

From time to time I take creatine as well.

Collagen, electrolytes etc daily seems like a massive waste of money.

Itsanewlife · 27/04/2026 15:34

I take one tablet of Calcium with Zinc and Magnesium, and another for Vitamin D. I have very low Vit D, so need to take it. I was taking B12 as it was low, but it's above normal now, so have stopped. I have some aches and pains, and word salad (use one word, mean another!) issues so have just started collagen for former and Gingko Bilboa for the latter. Not sure if those help yet. I tend to take things I am deficient or low in. I do Vitamin profiles with private blood tests. I am not on HRT yet.

Sensiblesal · 27/04/2026 15:32

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/04/2026 14:01

I rattle when I walk because of all the pills I take. But I have the advantage of being married to a scientist who checks the research before I fritter away my cash.

Vitamin C - shown to improve CRPS symptoms
Magnesium citrate - helps improve muscle pain
Prebiotics (not probiotics) - they trigger a sleep hormone so help insomnia
Vitamin D3 - on prescription due to severe osteoporosis
Calcium - also on prescription
Vitamin K2 - improves absorption of the calcium

I was looking at collagen but DH says it gets completely destroyed by the stomach acids and tictacs would be cheaper and just as effective.

I know the feeling re pills!

do you take the prebiotics as a pill too or is it in food stuff too?

noted re tic tacs being more useful than collagen

DuchessofStaffordshire · 27/04/2026 15:29

Muffsies · 27/04/2026 14:46

I'm 48 and very much in peri. I take a soluable multivitamin, cod liver oil with added vit D, creatine and collagen pepitide powder everyday. If i feel tired or have a bad period i'll take spatone for iron and vit B complex. I want to avoid muscle and bone density loss, and any deficiencies which can lead to tiredness or low immunity.

If you do take protien and creatine you HAVE to be doing regular exercize for it to have any effect.

It depends what effect you want them to have.

VanGoSunflowers · 27/04/2026 15:27

I do but I target specifically where I am deficient or don’t have ‘optimal’ levels. I get private bloods done by Thriva every so often and tweak accordingly.

It has made an enormous difference to my health. As soon as I got my iron, Vit D, B12 and folate levels up to where they should be (NOT the NHS cut offs as they are too low) I have more energy now than I did ten years ago.

Angrybird76 · 27/04/2026 15:25

I take nutirian geeks lionsmane and found that has made a huge difference to brain fog. I also take a marine collegen powder supplement and again, think it makes a difference to my skin. That's it though.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 15:20

Eating healthily and getting plenty of fresh air and sunshine mitigates the need for supplements IMO.

A basic google would tell you that this is incorrect.

Agrumpyknitter · 27/04/2026 15:08

I only take Vitamin D. If you take collagen your body will only use it where it needs it the most, and that’s not necessarily on your skin. I eat plenty of protein but do add bone broth to some meals for flavour primarily.

Franjipanl8r · 27/04/2026 15:05

I care more about what I breathe in and what I absorb through my skin. Eating healthily and getting plenty of fresh air and sunshine mitigates the need for supplements IMO.

If you take a look at the recent Royal College of Physicians report on air quality (including healthy indoor air) and the impact that stale or polluted air has on health, then people might care less about supplements and more about living in healthy buildings and healthy cities.

What we eat is a tiny part of the equation on what keeps us healthy later in life.

OutandAboutMum1821 · 27/04/2026 14:49

YANBU. I’m 40 and I don’t take any supplements. I do walk, swim, garden, spend time outside, eat relatively healthily and ensure I get plenty of sleep though.

hahabahbag · 27/04/2026 14:49

I take none, I’m not getting any symptoms and I’m probably post menopause though hard to say because I have a mirina. Could be speaking too soon but my mum had no issues so perhaps I got lucky genes

Muffsies · 27/04/2026 14:46

I'm 48 and very much in peri. I take a soluable multivitamin, cod liver oil with added vit D, creatine and collagen pepitide powder everyday. If i feel tired or have a bad period i'll take spatone for iron and vit B complex. I want to avoid muscle and bone density loss, and any deficiencies which can lead to tiredness or low immunity.

If you do take protien and creatine you HAVE to be doing regular exercize for it to have any effect.

Delatron · 27/04/2026 14:46

Low vitamin D is linked to a whole host of diseases. I guess the mechanism isn’t known but the studies are there. It’s a hormone that helps immune function so I guess that’s the link. Also low vitamin D would contribute to brittle bones, muscle weakness, fatigue. Low levels also linked to dementia. It’s helpful for mood.

It’s really important to have good levels.

marsbarslice · 27/04/2026 14:39

Delatron · 27/04/2026 14:24

Yes. It’s important for so many functions of the body. It also helped me with SAD.

Yep, vitamin D massively helps my mood in winter and it also helps my anxiety.

BunnyLake · 27/04/2026 14:38

cheesepasties · 27/04/2026 14:37

I am 49 and don’t take anything at all and never have. Have gone through the menopause fine, and am strong and fit and don’t feel like I need anything. I exercise daily, don’t ache, am thin and I eat really well and get outside for at least an hour a day, usually longer.
What happens if you’re lacking in vitamin D?!

Can contribute to dementia.

cheesepasties · 27/04/2026 14:37

I am 49 and don’t take anything at all and never have. Have gone through the menopause fine, and am strong and fit and don’t feel like I need anything. I exercise daily, don’t ache, am thin and I eat really well and get outside for at least an hour a day, usually longer.
What happens if you’re lacking in vitamin D?!

BunnyLake · 27/04/2026 14:36

I take Vit D when I remember. Making sure I get some daily sun now the weather’s good. I didn't realise how important Vit D is for your brain health until I came up as slightly deficient in a blood test.

Ponoka7 · 27/04/2026 14:33

I use Glowwa hair food (meno). I now get no breakage and hardly any loss. I started using it after getting my colour done again in a salon. I can see the difference in thickness. I occasionally take gummies with iron and folic acid in, because I can run a bit low. I wasn't given HRT when I should have been, so my hair suffered. My skin and nails have improved. My DD has noticed a difference after putting turmeric in her morning smoothie. She hasn't been sick over winter.

Delatron · 27/04/2026 14:25

Look people can not take all other supplements and feel heathy. But do not ignore the government advice to supplement with Vitamin D in the winter.

CoffeeAndACroissant · 27/04/2026 14:25

mindutopia · 27/04/2026 09:58

It’s just pissing money down the drain. I take vitamin D, that’s it.

Quite literally. Because you pee most of it out.

KeyleftinCar · 27/04/2026 14:25

I take iron, vit B12 and D because I'm chroniclly low in them.

Delatron · 27/04/2026 14:24

Ncisdouble · 27/04/2026 13:50

It's also linked with some MH issues and suicidal thoughts. I found out aftera bad bout....
D is incredibly important

Yes. It’s important for so many functions of the body. It also helped me with SAD.

Funnywonder · 27/04/2026 14:22

I’m 59 and haven’t taken supplements since the evening primrose oil fad of the 1990s. I would like to say it was a deliberate decision based on research and long deliberated personal preference, but it’s because I NEVER remember to take anything unless failure to do so would result in my imminent death. And even then … 😆 I have finally managed to get into the habit of taking my glaucoma medication (eyedrops) because I don’t want to go blind. Obviously. But no amount of timers or reminders will ever help me to take supplements. I feel alright though. Apart from tiredness. But that’s because I’ve been a terrible sleeper my whole life.

Moveyourbleedingarse · 27/04/2026 14:18

MrTiddlesTheCat · 27/04/2026 14:15

Wow, mine hasn't mentioned it at all, just the vitamin D and calcium. How are we supposed to know what's best in a world full of conflicting information? I'm not old enough for this level of responsibility.

😂

VictoriaEra · 27/04/2026 14:18

I’m 60. No supplements. I don’t know where I’d even start. Thankfully, I’m quite healthy and in full time work.