We’re working out a custody schedule for DD5. I have a shift job, and I am able to make more at the weekend. I’m remarried and have DDS13.
I’ve proposed that I have DD5 Monday-Thursday and exDP have her Thursday night - Monday morning.
exDP has said he doesn’t agree with this and is “concerned” I don’t have any full days with her. My argument is that my work is more inflexible, and I’ll have holidays etc where I am able to spend time with DD.
ExDp has proposed we alternate weeks, eg first week like I said and then the second week he does Monday-Thursday and then we switch back.
so
week 1: Monday - Thursday (me) Thursday - Sunday (him)
week 2: Monday - Thursday (him), Thursday - Sunday (me)
this will make work difficult for me, I’ve also suggested I can take adhoc weekend days if it will help but he’s refused,
he wants to go to meditation now
aibu to suggest this? For context he’s a 9-5 and he gets every weekend off work