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Standing at gigs - finally some sense!

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StacksOfSnacks · 26/04/2026 14:49

I love live music and frequently attend concerts and have been utterly baffled in recent years that people behave as they would in the cinema - plonked on their backside, mutely watching. For me it’s all about the immersive experience - dancing, screaming, swaying, singing, waving my arms… But not only are more people staying seated, but I’m actually seeing discourse where people such as myself are being criticised for acting exactly like a typical concert goer - singing and standing.

I went to a show last night and noticed this little note on my e-ticket “People around you may stand!” though I think it should go without saying, finally some sense is prevailing and those whingers can keep schtum now (which they advocate for at gigs anyway 😂).

Disclaimer: I know people will pile on saying that not everyone can stand, and no they can’t and I understand that. I’d support if they wanted to have a section where people stay seated if there’s demand for it. However, I have observed a change in behaviour that is out of proportion even when considering that.

Standing at gigs - finally some sense!
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Quokkafeet · 26/04/2026 15:07

The problem is the standing tickets always sell out! I think asking people to stay seated at a music concert is unreasonable, I'm with you OP!

OurFlagMeansAfternoonTea · 26/04/2026 15:05

It's very annoying when you buy a seat, want to sit and some selfish prat stands in front of you and waves their arms about, because they want to dance. Then you have to stand if you want to see more than someone's swinging backside.

Buy a standing ticket!

APC303 · 26/04/2026 15:05

Dancing, screaming, swaying, singing, waving your arms sounds pretty irritating tbh.

TheClangyClunk · 26/04/2026 15:01

Just book a standing ticket, OP.

PullTheBricksDown · 26/04/2026 14:59

I don't think you're unreasonable. Though I wonder why you haven't booked a standing ticket!