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parkrun defending their position

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Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 11:52

I used to be a parkrunner and do not understand how parkrun can defend their position of allowing trans identfying males into the female category.

I read that 280 published race winners in the female category are actually men identifying as women. How is this fair to women? Some women don’t care about this but some women do, just as some men take it as a race and care about the rankings and some men don’t

The other option of course is they could stop the timing, stop recording winners and records?

AIBU to genuinely not understand why parkrun claim not to be a race when they time the runners, publish times by category, rank times and runners, and have record holders by category.

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Helleofabore · 26/04/2026 17:55

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 26/04/2026 16:47

It’s so weird when people just keep baldly insisting that black is white or white is black just because they say so.

I guess it shows that they can’t justify their position and the unfairness at all and just have to resort to a blatant untruth. It is strange to see though.

I think that also some people will take what parkrun says as being correct without ever thinking further about it. Just because parkrun makes false statements about it being 'not competitive', some people simply repeat that without thinking... well fuck... why then are there course records noted down and published.

The contradictory position is exactly why parkrun is now subject to legal action. It cannot make such false claims and expect that people will simply fucking believe them.

Heatedrival · 26/04/2026 17:55

My DH stopped running the Park run because of this.

soupycustard · 26/04/2026 17:51

Flossette · 26/04/2026 17:45

I find the attitude of some of the ‘mothers’ on this thread worrying. If you’re happy to see women’s rights being handed to men, what other rights do you think your daughters should give up to men. what sort of message do you think this is giving them?

Do better!

Indeed. It's as if outside of their own particular bubble, they just don't care one jot or see the wider picture. It's really upsetting because fundamentally these people are saying that males and their feelings are more important than my DD and her feelings. Why?! Just why?!

BlueRedCat · 26/04/2026 17:47

BoredZelda · 26/04/2026 16:56

You are really using the word “inclusive” to describe someone who is uber competitive in a fun run? 😆

You do know it was originally called the Bushy Park Time Trial? Doesn’t sound like a fun run to me. Even when it moved into something more inclusive of different abilities the intent was the timings not just the run itself.

Flossette · 26/04/2026 17:45

I find the attitude of some of the ‘mothers’ on this thread worrying. If you’re happy to see women’s rights being handed to men, what other rights do you think your daughters should give up to men. what sort of message do you think this is giving them?

Do better!

ACynicalDad · 26/04/2026 17:35

I’m a parkrun event Director and I think whilst Park events are wonderful the people at the top of HQ are a bunch of . I’m hoping that momentum will take over and sooner or later they’ll have to change.

71Alex · 26/04/2026 17:33

This guidance is incomplete. Schedule 16 of the Equality Act provides exemptions for organisations. It allows you to restrict membership on the basis of protected characteristics. You can’t then discriminate once people are members.

Flossette · 26/04/2026 17:31

The minute parkrun accepted £5m of public funding is the minute they have to obey the law and kick the blokes out of the women’s results. If they want to continue to act unlawfully they need to stop taking public money. It’s that simple!

EyesOpening · 26/04/2026 17:26

Sorry I forgot to add the part about discrimination

”1. Know the law
It is unlawful for an association to discriminate against or victimise its members, associates and guests, also its prospective members, associates and guests, because of the following protected characteristics:
age
disability
gender reassignment
pregnancy and maternity
race
religion or belief
sex
sexual orientation”

EyesOpening · 26/04/2026 17:18

71Alex · 26/04/2026 16:46

Why not? There aren’t any justification requirements for associations (unlike for charities and single-sex provisions). It probably wasn’t intended to be used in this way when the legislation was drafted but I agree with previous posters that it is otherwise overly restrictive on people’s freedom to do what they want.

There aren’t any justification requirements for associations

I’m not sure what you mean there, since you’d previously stated “Because you can have a group for women and a group for trans women” do you mean they don’t have to justify their discrimination against male people/male people who aren’t trans/trans people who aren’t male?
Unless they keep the membership numbers (presumably for the two groups as a whole, otherwise they’re basically just trying it on, for want of a better phrase) under 25, then yes, there are still requirements, they’re not free to discriminate at will.

”Part 7 of the Equality Act 2010 states that an association is any group that has at least 25 members and regulates admission using rules and a selection process.”

https://www.equalityhumanrights.com/equality/equality-act-2010/equality-act-2010-guiding-principles-associations

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 17:15

BoredZelda · 26/04/2026 16:56

You are really using the word “inclusive” to describe someone who is uber competitive in a fun run? 😆

You have outed yourself entirely.

Do you not think women who would like to have the same opportunity as men, to win and compare times, should be included because yo are too closed minded to see that not everyone uses parkrun the same way.

It started as a time trial.

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soupycustard · 26/04/2026 17:05

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 13:54

For some people it’s just for fun
For some people it’s about bettering their own time
For some people it’s about comparing themselves to others in their category.

It’s meant to be inclusive of all these people.

How would it stop trans woman running if they had to declare their sex at birth on a form?

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That last sentence goes to the crux of the issue. Trans identified males can race off at the front, pootle at the back, or meander in the middle; just like every other human running Parkrun.
What is not fair is if they categorise themselves as female.

BoredZelda · 26/04/2026 16:56

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 13:54

For some people it’s just for fun
For some people it’s about bettering their own time
For some people it’s about comparing themselves to others in their category.

It’s meant to be inclusive of all these people.

How would it stop trans woman running if they had to declare their sex at birth on a form?

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You are really using the word “inclusive” to describe someone who is uber competitive in a fun run? 😆

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 16:53

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 26/04/2026 16:31

Why do you think women should be denied fair competition?

It's not a competition!! 😭🤣

You can’t see beyond your own perspective of parkrun.

It’s really closed minded that you can’t understand that for SOME women they would like the same opportunity that men have at parkrun.

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71Alex · 26/04/2026 16:53

I was responding to the general point someone made about freedom to form groups, it wasn’t related to park run.

71Alex · 26/04/2026 16:50

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 16:47

Ok.

You can’t start a public group for women and exclude men unless it meets a certain criteria. That criteria is, the exclusion of men should be a proportionate means to a legitimate aim.

So, at parkrun, the very reason to have categories for men and women is so biological women have the same opportunities as biological men. To race and compare their times should they want to just as the men do. It’s equity built on biological difference.

With that being the criteria how could it ever possibly be fair to include some men (trans women) and not other men. What about short men, should they race with women? Why have a category for women and include some men.
If you allow one group of men into a category segregated for women to meet a legitmate aim then that criteria is no longer valid.

So, then we end up saying well let's get rid of the female category and everyone can just run in one mixed sex timed race. Bang goes any equity for women to have the same opportunities as men.

Some women don’t care about their times but some do, men have that opportunity and so should women.

Trans women have every single right that every single other man has, why do they want more rights than other men.

There are specific provisions in the Equality Act for sports and single-sex provision. I am talking about associations

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 26/04/2026 16:47

Helleofabore · 26/04/2026 16:42

And again.

It is competitive by nature if any course records are noted. Certainly it is competitive if the course records are published.

Just denying it is a competition while this activity is recorded and published doesn't change the fact that very activity makes it 'competitive.'

It’s so weird when people just keep baldly insisting that black is white or white is black just because they say so.

I guess it shows that they can’t justify their position and the unfairness at all and just have to resort to a blatant untruth. It is strange to see though.

Funtime2 · 26/04/2026 16:47

Bobbingtons · 26/04/2026 15:44

Yes, but equally I believe that is a group wants to allow women and trans women to join they should be allowed to do so which is the mainstream 'TRA' position. Currently this has been made illegal under equality law. Do you agree that both positions should be seen as mutually valid under law

Ok.

You can’t start a public group for women and exclude men unless it meets a certain criteria. That criteria is, the exclusion of men should be a proportionate means to a legitimate aim.

So, at parkrun, the very reason to have categories for men and women is so biological women have the same opportunities as biological men. To race and compare their times should they want to just as the men do. It’s equity built on biological difference.

With that being the criteria how could it ever possibly be fair to include some men (trans women) and not other men. What about short men, should they race with women? Why have a category for women and include some men.
If you allow one group of men into a category segregated for women to meet a legitmate aim then that criteria is no longer valid.

So, then we end up saying well let's get rid of the female category and everyone can just run in one mixed sex timed race. Bang goes any equity for women to have the same opportunities as men.

Some women don’t care about their times but some do, men have that opportunity and so should women.

Trans women have every single right that every single other man has, why do they want more rights than other men.

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71Alex · 26/04/2026 16:46

EyesOpening · 26/04/2026 16:33

Because you can have a group for women and a group for trans women and the two groups can do everything together.

I somehow don’t think that is going to wash!

Why not? There aren’t any justification requirements for associations (unlike for charities and single-sex provisions). It probably wasn’t intended to be used in this way when the legislation was drafted but I agree with previous posters that it is otherwise overly restrictive on people’s freedom to do what they want.

soupycustard · 26/04/2026 16:46

@IAmBeaIDrinkTea @MummyWillow1
You are right that Parkrun is a fun run / inclusive etc but it is also competitive for many of the front runners.
The issue is that because, at population level, males are faster than females, females don't have true equality if their times aren't ranked within a sex-based category.
So imagine a teen girl runs a Parkrun amd achieves '1st lady' and that her times are also good enough to get into the London mini marathon (won in the past by lots of now famous runners). If a boy were to run as a girl and beat her, she could lose that accolade/place.
You may not care about competition for you. But it is important for some people; and girls have just as much right as boys to the accolades and race entries that Parkrun can give them.
And the front runners (as long as they're not aggressive pushy shouty twats - sadly that does happen) have as much right to run Parkrun and get a good time and accolades (as my DD would), as I have to lug myself round at the back.
Things can't always be about males, even if they're trans-identified. Girls matter too.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 26/04/2026 16:45

ThatBlackCat · 26/04/2026 16:40

But-but-but 'It's NoT a ComPeTitiOn!' Bs it ain't. If it has entry categories and publicly listed timings and placings, it is a competition! People need to stop lying about it. It's a competition and we all know it!

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To compete against yourself. To better your personal best.
So get rid of publishing them all together then.
That'd be ok. Just send us an email with our own times on.
Although I bet there'd still be people whinging and moaning.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 26/04/2026 16:45

MyPinkOtter · 26/04/2026 16:16

I honestly couldn’t give a toss whether a woman ahead of me in the parkrun ranking is trans or not.

I’m generally pro trans rights but do accept there are some situations where the subject needs nuance and careful handling. I just don’t think a free weekly funrun led by volunteers is one.

That’s lovely for you.

My proposal is that all people who are not bothered about the competitive element and those who don’t want to compete fairly (ie registered as their correct sex, age, whatever) opt out of the published timings and rankings and just run.

Then the trans people can run happily with all you non competitive people and the competitive people get some nice accurate rankings for their sex and age.
are you up for that?

Would you opt out of rankings to support trans people? I’m sure they’d be very grateful.

Helleofabore · 26/04/2026 16:42

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 26/04/2026 16:31

Why do you think women should be denied fair competition?

It's not a competition!! 😭🤣

And again.

It is competitive by nature if any course records are noted. Certainly it is competitive if the course records are published.

Just denying it is a competition while this activity is recorded and published doesn't change the fact that very activity makes it 'competitive.'

ThatBlackCat · 26/04/2026 16:40

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 26/04/2026 16:31

Why do you think women should be denied fair competition?

It's not a competition!! 😭🤣

But-but-but 'It's NoT a ComPeTitiOn!' Bs it ain't. If it has entry categories and publicly listed timings and placings, it is a competition! People need to stop lying about it. It's a competition and we all know it!

parkrun defending their position
parkrun defending their position
CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 26/04/2026 16:40

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 26/04/2026 16:31

Why do you think women should be denied fair competition?

It's not a competition!! 😭🤣

They can claim it’s not a competition until they are blue in the face. Until they remove the elements that make it a competition, they will be wrong.

Do you generally believe that words have meanings?

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