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To think job market for those 55 and over is dire

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Bettyfordtoday · 25/04/2026 13:54

At 55, and recently made redundant from a highly paid corporate role I am struggling to get another role or even an interview.

I'm wondering what others do at this age point, too young to retire but seemingly too old to interview ?

Have a mortgage etc to pay and don't want to get in debt , redundancy pay will last if I am careful to the end of the year at most

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Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 26/04/2026 17:22

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:04

Surely a DBS check would be the easiest way to check that?

Not just prison, it's a general safeguarding requirement in teaching. Any gaps in employment need to be explained fully.

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 17:14

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 13:02

You'd think!

But it's just the way it's done.

We also have to sign a form to say we've never been convicted of any 'List 99' offences too. It's not even called that anymore.

I suppose it's just to make sure no one slips through the net.

What are/were List 99 offences?

OnlyHasEyesForLoki · 26/04/2026 16:23

It is not usual to include DOB in CVs and not on application forms. I’ve only included relevant professional experience from when I qualified as a midwife. I was already 31 then but could have been 21 if I’d started my training at 18. Interviews are usually online and with a gentle filter I look 40s not 50s. The people I’ve worked with still have no idea I’m 58 and have never asked!

InconsequentialFerret · 26/04/2026 16:01

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 26/04/2026 13:59

Except it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work out that someone with, say 35 yrs experience, is over 50

Except it doesn't take a rocket scientist to know that for most roles no one is interested in what you did 35 years ago or 20 years ago.

Anyone who puts an entire lifetime of job history on a CV for most jobs they're going for is just highlighting how out of touch they are with what is expected and wanted by most employers for most jobs in 2026.

Hence CV gets filed in the shredder.

CarolineC21 · 26/04/2026 15:39

Bettyfordtoday · 25/04/2026 13:54

At 55, and recently made redundant from a highly paid corporate role I am struggling to get another role or even an interview.

I'm wondering what others do at this age point, too young to retire but seemingly too old to interview ?

Have a mortgage etc to pay and don't want to get in debt , redundancy pay will last if I am careful to the end of the year at most

Job market doesn't seem easy whether you are young or old these days, finding that a lot of more experienced people are struggling because even though companies shouldn't see age they, think that is why a lot of people do what I do as it earns money flexibly and gives you a royalty style income too

Ncisdouble · 26/04/2026 14:36

fluffiphlox · 26/04/2026 14:20

People shouldn’t be putting DOB on a CV and I’ve been saying that for about 25 years.

I didn't think Brits did tbh so am quite surprised. It usually showed on immigrants' CV (alongside MANY other things that shouldn't be mentioned in UK...)

fluffiphlox · 26/04/2026 14:20

People shouldn’t be putting DOB on a CV and I’ve been saying that for about 25 years.

IDontHateRainbows · 26/04/2026 14:03

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 26/04/2026 13:59

Except it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work out that someone with, say 35 yrs experience, is over 50

And it also doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize as the older candidate you don't need to put 35y experience! I have 25y experience but I only go back to 2014. I put 'insert professional body' qualified and my membership level, no date.

LiviaDrusillaAugusta · 26/04/2026 13:59

InconsequentialFerret · 26/04/2026 13:44

Having your DoB on your CV hasn't been the done thing for a number of years.

So a CV with DoB may be flagging up a candidate who isn't up to date in their thinking.

Except it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to work out that someone with, say 35 yrs experience, is over 50

InconsequentialFerret · 26/04/2026 13:44

DumpedByText · 26/04/2026 13:39

I'm 56 and job hunting, I used to get shortlisted for most jobs, not anymore.

I've taken my DOB off my CV, my SIL is in HR and she said you don't have to put it on. I'm hoping this makes a difference.

Good luck 🤞

Having your DoB on your CV hasn't been the done thing for a number of years.

So a CV with DoB may be flagging up a candidate who isn't up to date in their thinking.

DumpedByText · 26/04/2026 13:39

I'm 56 and job hunting, I used to get shortlisted for most jobs, not anymore.

I've taken my DOB off my CV, my SIL is in HR and she said you don't have to put it on. I'm hoping this makes a difference.

Good luck 🤞

fluffiphlox · 26/04/2026 13:34

I’m in my late 60s and still do some consulting and training on a freelance basis. Could that be an option in your area of expertise?

Friendlygingercat · 26/04/2026 13:31

If you have teaching or any other experience or skill thats in demand you can always do private tutoting (as I do) so you are not at the mercy of employers.

Trint · 26/04/2026 13:15

I retired from teaching at 65 and I had a couple of lovely part time jobs since then. I do a load of grandchild care do I am not flexible about days but I am willing and hardworking and still working part time and doing childcare at 75. I think the fact that I was a teacher helps a lot. I attended a local toddler group session and the centre offered me work there. I am reliable and keen to learn which makes a big difference. A friend of mine in her mid sixties has just accepted a job as an entertainments manager for a care home. They had been looking for someone for ages.

Darkside0fm00n · 26/04/2026 13:14

I went for a job interview on Friday
I am late 50s
Yes I had to produce all my work history since 16

Written test
Verbal test

Netcurtainnelly · 26/04/2026 13:10

age discrimination is definitely alive and kicking.

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 13:08

examworries2026 · 26/04/2026 11:23

Your post doesn’t make sense. Are you saying they didn’t employ you because you said your husband would look after your children while you were on the residential?

In any case they absolutely shouldn’t have asked you that question.

Yes.

Maybe they were MN users and of the opinion that men are useless and assumed I'd be making excuses to not go or pulling out at the last minute due to childcare issues. Maybe they'd had experience of that happening before. Maybe their own husbands would have refused and they thought there was no chance my husband would agree to it.

But, you're absolutely right they shouldn't have asked the question in the first place!

ilovebrie8 · 26/04/2026 13:06

The market is truly awful! I have tried to reduce my CV but they check qualifications and can see when you qualified.
i was quizzed by a recruiter about what I was doing in 1997! mad as that’s 30 years ago almost…

WendyFromTransvisionWamp · 26/04/2026 13:06

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 10:35

It's because, in teaching, they have to be sure you've not been in prison.

Part time jobs alongside school/whilst at university don't need to be included, but we still have to include every job whether it's relevant to teaching or not from 30+ years ago with dates for each. You can't have any gaps which can't be easily explained or proven.

Along with GCSE, A Level, degree, teaching and other certificates.

I’m not a teacher but I work as a support staff at a secondary school. I applied last summer and as you said, had to list all my jobs since I graduated in 1993. I understand why this is done but equally it is bit pointless, as I moved to UK in 1998, so all those jobs before were in another country. I could have said anything, the school would have no way of finding out if I lied or not. But I guess it’s a box ticking exercise to show they have tried their best to check the information.

Tbh I was quite worried they’ll withdraw their offer as I had to explain why I had a 14 month gap from 1994-1995. I was unemployed as my country was in a deep recession, unemployment was 18% at that time. There were no jobs at all. But if there’s a current 30 year old going through my details, they would not understand the situation at all.

Luckily the job offer still stood and I’ve now been there nearly a year. I’m 53 and infact youngest of all the technicians with our department. I feel very lucky I found this job after 17 years as a SAHM AND being over 50.

StillAGoth · 26/04/2026 13:02

ButterYellowHair · 26/04/2026 11:04

Surely a DBS check would be the easiest way to check that?

You'd think!

But it's just the way it's done.

We also have to sign a form to say we've never been convicted of any 'List 99' offences too. It's not even called that anymore.

I suppose it's just to make sure no one slips through the net.

Bulbsbulbsbulbs · 26/04/2026 12:51

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:34

Yes, a couple of years ago, a friend was applying for teaching roles and had to account for a month between his summer job on a building site and being back in uni - in 1991. He had been on a driving holiday in the USA, but he couldn't actually prove it after all this time. And not everyone would remember at all.

In teaching this is because of safeguarding policy. You need to account for all the time in case of something untoward.

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:34

Darkside0fm00n · 26/04/2026 10:42

Depending on the type of job that a person is applying for. Some online CVs require every job going back to age 16 & you have to account for any times not in work, with accurate dates & what you were doing.

Plus provide all original qualification certificates

Yes, a couple of years ago, a friend was applying for teaching roles and had to account for a month between his summer job on a building site and being back in uni - in 1991. He had been on a driving holiday in the USA, but he couldn't actually prove it after all this time. And not everyone would remember at all.

EBearhug · 26/04/2026 12:29

MidnightMeltdown · 26/04/2026 03:22

I’m not talking about ‘knowing how to use a computer’ or using Microsoft Word or Excel. Of course everyone knows the basics that have been around for decades. Tech has become an awful lot more advanced since then (at least in my industry) and what I’m seeing is that people are struggling to adapt.

It's probably people in their 50s who wrote the applications. We know how to program and write scripts and often learnt when people had to be careful with memory usage and so on, and we had to know how we impacted efficiency and cost. Of course some people are slow, but that is true of any age group, not just the over 50s. Most of my colleagues would be very dismissive of anyone who thinks tech is just MS Office applications.

You are being ageist. Please stop it.

I took my dates off my CV. A recruitment consultant made me put them back on. (He didn't even get me a job, either.) Fortunately another one did.

Idolovemydog · 26/04/2026 11:51

Greenwitchart · 25/04/2026 14:49

I agree that it is hard because there is ageism in the workplace and because the economy is struggling in general.

I am 55 and I have a long term health condition.

I had to leave my last permanent role six months ago after raising a complaint against my manager for disability discrimination. The organisation offered me a financial settlement because I had enough evidence of being bullied/treated differently from the rest of the team. The bullying destroyed my confidence in my skills and experience.

Since then I was lucky to find a freelance role with a small business for the past 6 months but now that project is completed so I am trying to find something else and it is so difficult.

My CV only has my last 15 years of career and I have removed the dates of my qualifications.

I am flexible about the jobs I apply for and also looking at retraining and any freelance work I can get and I am trying to stay positive.

I do think government needs to do more about the over 50 and people with disabilities because they say they want people to work longer and be employed but do nothing to try to address the barriers that we face.

Can I ask you how long you worked in your job , if you don't mind ? I am going through this just now. I am going through a terrible time due to bullying and have a disability . I have never worked anywhere so horrible. Just going through the grievance process just now and can hardly sleep. Good for you .I am glad you won .

UltimateSloth · 26/04/2026 11:35

Aposterhasnoname · 26/04/2026 11:26

So leave them off, once you get to 50 school exams are irrelevant.

Grade C Maths and English remain relevant for life and are required for lots of jobs. But I would just say I had GCSEs. They are the equivalent to O levels.

Once you have been offered the job and asked for your certificates, I doubt anyone is going to quibble that they're O levels.