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To think ParkRun need to consider banning racers?

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 08:49

My local parkrun has been overtaken by drama this week, after some men attended and basically turned the entire thing into a glorified race for themselves. They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

I always thought the point of parkrun was to go and enjoy a 5k run and some socialising after. But it seems that across the country they’re being overtaken by people who are obsessed with “winning” it and getting the PB as a “chip time”.

i understand the sense of achievement you get from getting a PB, but I don’t think parkrun is the place to do it. Myself and many other women who have been attending for years are now considering not going again because it is so unpleasant.

AIBU to say they need to clamp down on this, before it becomes a big men’s club?

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AlcoholicAntibiotic · 26/04/2026 13:06

NoWordForFluffy · 26/04/2026 12:54

Same here. Expecting others to modify their day to suit ParkRun really isn't acceptable. If the location really isn't suitable to be a shared space, they shouldn't hold them there.

That used to be a real issue for my local Parkrun as well - don’t know if it still is as I’ve moved and no longer need to go through the park. The path that they were monopolising was a footpath through to the railway station, so well used by others even on a Saturday morning. Organisers weren’t at all interested when people complained - it wouldn’t have been difficult for them to leave a small space for people walking through, but they wouldn’t.

MasterBeth · 26/04/2026 12:59

ChamonixMountainBum · 26/04/2026 12:29

Park run occupies some of the path for for about 20 mins when you get the initial surge of runners. After that the field typically thins out to single runners or those jogging in pairs. Its not really an issue unless you deliberately and knowingly decide to take walk against the tide of runners 5 mins after the start. Over the course of a week when said paths are available its hardly a big inconvenience.

It really is an issue and the fact that park run participants claim it isn't shows an unfortunate arrogance.

Many other groups (football teams, open water swimmers, personal trainers, groups of people playing frisbee, dog training) use the park during the week. Park Run is the only one that makes the park actively unusable while they are there (8:15. - 10:30 every single Saturday), marking out their territory and blocking the paths.

NoWordForFluffy · 26/04/2026 12:54

MasterBeth · 26/04/2026 12:51

But the part of the park you use is the paths - i.e. the part of the park that everyone else needs to use.

In my local Parkrun, they monopolise the paths. I think that is unacceptable.

Same here. Expecting others to modify their day to suit ParkRun really isn't acceptable. If the location really isn't suitable to be a shared space, they shouldn't hold them there.

MasterBeth · 26/04/2026 12:51

CallMeDaphne · 25/04/2026 14:40

I’m involved in my local parkrun. We use part of the local park for about 45 minutes, once a week.

We always ask everyone involved to be courteous and respectful to other park users.

We pick up litter from the course and we have contributed to work parties in the park to make improvements.

We support our local food bank with collections 3 or 4 times a year.

Our participants and volunteers use the cafe in the park. I would estimate that parkrunners spend c£30,000 per year in the cafe, which is run by a local couple.

i don’t think any of this is disruptive and cheeky.

But the part of the park you use is the paths - i.e. the part of the park that everyone else needs to use.

In my local Parkrun, they monopolise the paths. I think that is unacceptable.

NoWordForFluffy · 26/04/2026 12:39

ChamonixMountainBum · 26/04/2026 12:29

Park run occupies some of the path for for about 20 mins when you get the initial surge of runners. After that the field typically thins out to single runners or those jogging in pairs. Its not really an issue unless you deliberately and knowingly decide to take walk against the tide of runners 5 mins after the start. Over the course of a week when said paths are available its hardly a big inconvenience.

Not true. Loads of the paths in the woods near to us are so narrow that they're not really usable for the whole time, due to the pack spacing out. And the runners really don't like giving way where the paths are wide enough to share.

Then, the finish line stretches across a 12ft path, and people congregate round there, blocking the entire path, instead of just moving down the path a bit and standing to the side so they don't create a blockage / pinch point.

I think I'm well aware how bad it is for the run near me!

ChamonixMountainBum · 26/04/2026 12:29

NoWordForFluffy · 26/04/2026 11:51

Nonsense. Those things you try to compare to ParkRun just aren't analogous, as they take up a small, confined, area of the park. ParkRun takes up loads of the paths in the park (or woods, as per the one nearest to me), some of which are really narrow and barely have room for the runners, let alone anyone else wanting to use the paths at the same time.

It's quite clear if I happen to be in the woods at the same time, that many of the runners don't appreciate that it's shared space and will quite happily run you off the path. One bloke tutted and glared at me when I was keeping to the grass at the side of the path, because he chose to cut the corner and run across the grass straight at me instead of following the path. No hope with people like that!

Park run occupies some of the path for for about 20 mins when you get the initial surge of runners. After that the field typically thins out to single runners or those jogging in pairs. Its not really an issue unless you deliberately and knowingly decide to take walk against the tide of runners 5 mins after the start. Over the course of a week when said paths are available its hardly a big inconvenience.

RhaenysRocks · 26/04/2026 12:26

Viviennemary · 25/04/2026 10:13

I think it's quite cheeky of large groups of runners to take over a park in this way and disrupt the enjoyment of other park users.

Its one hour a week and pretty early. Thousands of people use it as a great way to get motivated, start being healthier and feel far safer as part of an organised event. On balance, I think.one hour out of 24x7 is a fair trade off.

NoWordForFluffy · 26/04/2026 11:51

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 10:20

Nonsense. Parkrun is no more an issue than a game of football or a pilates group or the local nursery bringing the kids down for a picnic. All things that take up space for a short period but make the park more accessible to all. People who complain about it are usually those who see the park as their own personal dog toilet.

Nonsense. Those things you try to compare to ParkRun just aren't analogous, as they take up a small, confined, area of the park. ParkRun takes up loads of the paths in the park (or woods, as per the one nearest to me), some of which are really narrow and barely have room for the runners, let alone anyone else wanting to use the paths at the same time.

It's quite clear if I happen to be in the woods at the same time, that many of the runners don't appreciate that it's shared space and will quite happily run you off the path. One bloke tutted and glared at me when I was keeping to the grass at the side of the path, because he chose to cut the corner and run across the grass straight at me instead of following the path. No hope with people like that!

Ginmonkeyagain · 26/04/2026 11:27

If this has happened contact parkrun and the owner of tbe park. Event directors are in regular contact with the owners of the park and parkrun HQ and can clamp down on any poor behaviour by participants.

TheignT · 26/04/2026 10:59

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 10:20

Nonsense. Parkrun is no more an issue than a game of football or a pilates group or the local nursery bringing the kids down for a picnic. All things that take up space for a short period but make the park more accessible to all. People who complain about it are usually those who see the park as their own personal dog toilet.

Amazingly my disabled husband has never been pushed or sworn at by kids from the local nursery. Never seen a Pilates group in our park so can't comment on how violent/selfish/foul mouthed they might be. I can say how runners behaved because I've seen it.

Hallamule · 26/04/2026 10:20

Keepingthingsinteresting · 25/04/2026 21:51

@justletusrun by excluding others, saying they shouldn’t use the space, their arguments aren’t valid etc you are being just as bad as the people you are complaining about. Either it is inclusive or it isn’t, you cannot have it both ways.

Nonsense. Parkrun is no more an issue than a game of football or a pilates group or the local nursery bringing the kids down for a picnic. All things that take up space for a short period but make the park more accessible to all. People who complain about it are usually those who see the park as their own personal dog toilet.

ChamonixMountainBum · 26/04/2026 10:14

RareGoalsVerge · 26/04/2026 08:57

Yes but they had to pretend the competitive aspect is actually irrelevant and unimportant because they were allowing people to self-identify into timing categories that they don't actually belong in, making a mockery of all their league tables because when they say you have the 10th quickest time in whatever subcategory, you have no idea how many of the 9 people above you are actually correctly in that group. Their defence on being challenged on this was to say it's not competitive but that's a clear and obvious lie as long as the tim8ngs are still being done.

Schrodingers Parkrun - simultaneously so trivial for women that its ridiculous and weird for them to want to change the rules yet so important for men that any suggestions of rule change has life destroying consequences for a whole group of people.

ChamonixMountainBum · 26/04/2026 10:06

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:36

It's called "Park run" not "Park Race". That tells me it wasn't meant to be a "race". Duh

The beauty of park run is that it is whatever you want it to be, a casual social jog or a fast competitive sprint, nobody really cares what you opt for.

My local Parkrun is Bushy Park where you get several hundred people participating. If watch the start line the first 100 people are most definitely taking it seriously as they tear off down the course jockeying for position and ultimately a fast time. At the back you have people pushing buggies, walking, jogging with dogs etc.

BananaPeels · 26/04/2026 09:39

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:36

It's called "Park run" not "Park Race". That tells me it wasn't meant to be a "race". Duh

So the ‘Great North Run’ isn’t a race and doesn’t have records?

pavillion1 · 26/04/2026 09:37

Apprentice26 · 25/04/2026 08:55

Not all men eh ? But always a man ruining things

Came here to say this

Spaghettea · 26/04/2026 09:36

When I walk it I shout up ahead to let people know the faster runners are coming through and lapping us. Better to shout than there's an accident.

The only person who really pissed me off, and is now my nemesis, is a woman in my age group who stepped in front of me after the finishing line and took the 1st in our age group when it should have been me. I make sure I beat her every week now. Silly cow never even volunteers either. <<bitter 😁>>

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:36

It's called "Park run" not "Park Race". That tells me it wasn't meant to be a "race". Duh

BlueMum16 · 26/04/2026 09:36

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 15:20

Just not the slow runners, eh?

You've just told the fat kid to go somewhere else and time/motivate themselves when they were clearly getting lots of health benefits and confidence running with others.

It is timed so a race for the individual.

You do you and allow others to do their own Park Run.

If groups are rude l/physical mention it to the organisers so everyone can be reminded it's fun and to be considerate.

TheignT · 26/04/2026 09:35

k1233 · 26/04/2026 00:04

My experience of park run, not doing it but walking along a track I'd joined at a different point totally unaware park run was on, is that it is full of self centred people. I was nearing the end of a walk with my dogs (on leash). Wide, shared cycling path. Come around a corner to the path totally blocked with not one runner moving to their side. Someone knocked into me and I ended up going down like a sack of spuds. All because selfish people couldn't share. Given I've got degeneration (moderate at that time, now advanced) in both hips and knees, let's just say I was pissed.

Very much my experience. Thankfully now no PR in my local park.

BananaPeels · 26/04/2026 09:34

Bringchocolate · 26/04/2026 09:23

Starting first is fine but our park run is twice round a loop, so they have to pass ALL the slower ones. I tried it once when it was first starting up about 10 years ago, got shoved on a narrow bit by some bloke presumably going for his PB and never bothered to go back.

Then (on certain courses where there clearly isn’t room for both groups to coexist easily eg narrow paths) why don’t for the first 20 mins allow the fast runners to go around from everyone else and then start everyone else? Wouldn’t that be a solution so that the super fast people can already be on the their second lap by the time the slower starts? That way you can have 2 distinct groups who are relatively kept apart?

it just seems that for some courses both groups can coexist happily because of space but on other they can’t. Lots of people have come on here a said they won’t join because of this problem which seems a shame when there surely must a workable solution so everyone is happy.

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:29

Parks are meant to be for everyone, but selfish people often ruin them for others - cheeky "personal trainers", ridiculous professional dog walkers, big parties with loud music and bbqs, idiots on electric bikes and scooters , no thought for others who want peace and quiet.

Bringchocolate · 26/04/2026 09:23

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 09:01

If it was just a run with socialising why would there be any timing at all? surely the issue is is that you get a rank and so for some getting the 1st spot is very important. I’d be chuffed to have a first spot honestly (rather than the one at the bottom I would get!).

interesting reading all the debate about park runs in the last few days - why can’t it be something for everyone. Why can’t it be a competitive race for those who want it to be and just a fun run for those who don’t. They can start first and then everyone else behind? Like the London marathon does. Then you won’t get this sort of behaviour as those people are long gone?

not condoning these idiots btw but just suggesting that different people have different views about park run is and I can’t work out how they can’t be accommodated so everyone is happy.

Starting first is fine but our park run is twice round a loop, so they have to pass ALL the slower ones. I tried it once when it was first starting up about 10 years ago, got shoved on a narrow bit by some bloke presumably going for his PB and never bothered to go back.

MagpiePi · 26/04/2026 09:12

RareGoalsVerge · 26/04/2026 08:57

Yes but they had to pretend the competitive aspect is actually irrelevant and unimportant because they were allowing people to self-identify into timing categories that they don't actually belong in, making a mockery of all their league tables because when they say you have the 10th quickest time in whatever subcategory, you have no idea how many of the 9 people above you are actually correctly in that group. Their defence on being challenged on this was to say it's not competitive but that's a clear and obvious lie as long as the tim8ngs are still being done.

True. The whole ‘identity’ thing has become a big problem for Parkrun, particularly their stance on men identifying as women, but you could say that it is a symptom of its popularity. There are always going to be people who are prepared to lie and cheat to come out on top.

I do find it annoying that the inclusiveness message has been pushed so far that there are people who think that no-one should be allowed to be competitive.

BringBackCatsEyes · 26/04/2026 09:09

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:07

Men just have to make everything a competition - any women who cycle know this. Pathetic, fragile male ego.

Pathetic generalisations…..

Bertiebiscuit · 26/04/2026 09:07

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 09:01

I do understand that to a degree but if you’re behaving like this I think it just shows a disregard for the spirit of it, and for your community.

Men just have to make everything a competition - any women who cycle know this. Pathetic, fragile male ego.