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To think ParkRun need to consider banning racers?

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 08:49

My local parkrun has been overtaken by drama this week, after some men attended and basically turned the entire thing into a glorified race for themselves. They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

I always thought the point of parkrun was to go and enjoy a 5k run and some socialising after. But it seems that across the country they’re being overtaken by people who are obsessed with “winning” it and getting the PB as a “chip time”.

i understand the sense of achievement you get from getting a PB, but I don’t think parkrun is the place to do it. Myself and many other women who have been attending for years are now considering not going again because it is so unpleasant.

AIBU to say they need to clamp down on this, before it becomes a big men’s club?

OP posts:
laurini · 29/04/2026 15:51

If they were genuinely pushing people, that's terrible. Swearing I wouldn't be bothered by unless it was directed at someone. However, i think its absolutely fine to go fast and swerve round people.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/04/2026 15:47

TheignT · 29/04/2026 15:32

Shame noone can encourage kids by waving fees for them for sports they want to enjoy.

Maybe they could put out buckets for donations.

What I think you perhaps haven't considered here is that children trying out different sports and then really working hard at the ones they like need skilled, carefully vetted coaches with the right insurance in place in case anything goes wrong. There are some very dedicated amateurs out there who do coaching around their jobs and family responsibilities, but even they need to be working within a structure for their sport which means there have to be people in there who're getting paid because it's their job. Therefore sports teams and clubs need some funding, whether that comes from the participants or from the local council or a grant-awarding body.

None of this applies to parkrun. There is no coaching going on. It's been carefully designed so that every single aspect can be delivered by volunteers with minimal training.

You clearly don't like it. Fair enough. Nothing that anybody has said has changed your mind, even though it's no longer running in your local park, so it's no longer having any effect on your life.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/04/2026 15:37

TheignT · 29/04/2026 15:30

My park has no cafe and no loos. Maybe if the park runners had paid we could have had loos but of course they didn't.

Well, now your park has lost its parkrun I imagine the chance of getting a cafe and loos is a lot less than it was. You win some, you lose some.

TheignT · 29/04/2026 15:32

RunningAndSinging · 29/04/2026 13:59

It’s one on the three things that makes it a parkrun. Free, weekly and timed. I think lots of people would pay £1 but parkrun want to reduce barriers to participation as much as possible and keeping it ‘free for everyone forever’ is one of their mantras.

It does matter to people. People pay to park at lots of events and that money goes to the landowner and then they put money into the economy by going out for breakfast afterwards.

Shame noone can encourage kids by waving fees for them for sports they want to enjoy.

Maybe they could put out buckets for donations.

TheignT · 29/04/2026 15:30

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/04/2026 14:01

High participation rates mean a lot of custom at park cafes too. Also plenty of people using the loos which helps make the case for keeping them open and regularly checked, thus benefiting all park users. In days of yore our park had no cafe and the loos were more often closed than open because of vandalism. Better for everybody if lots of people use the park.

My park has no cafe and no loos. Maybe if the park runners had paid we could have had loos but of course they didn't.

TheKittenswithMittens · 29/04/2026 14:01

And what's worse, the men who can't beat the other men pretend to be women

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 29/04/2026 14:01

High participation rates mean a lot of custom at park cafes too. Also plenty of people using the loos which helps make the case for keeping them open and regularly checked, thus benefiting all park users. In days of yore our park had no cafe and the loos were more often closed than open because of vandalism. Better for everybody if lots of people use the park.

RunningAndSinging · 29/04/2026 13:59

It’s one on the three things that makes it a parkrun. Free, weekly and timed. I think lots of people would pay £1 but parkrun want to reduce barriers to participation as much as possible and keeping it ‘free for everyone forever’ is one of their mantras.

It does matter to people. People pay to park at lots of events and that money goes to the landowner and then they put money into the economy by going out for breakfast afterwards.

TheignT · 29/04/2026 13:55

Fizbosshoes · 28/04/2026 23:06

Kind of...
The parkrun i do most often, I frequently volunteer. Often im standing there at 8.50, thinking its not very well attended ...and it looks like maybe 50 people are there...in the next 10 minutes another 200 people usually turn up. Its not a particularly fast course, but the first person is usually 18 or 19 min and the last one just over an hour....but id say majority of people (that were running) are dispersing, or drifting towards the cafes by 9.45. The main paths are generally quite empty by then. It takes maybe until 10.15 to pack away the cones/finish etc, but our start/finish area is in the middle of a very large expanse of grass, unlikely to be impeding any other park users. The course set up is done before 9 but doesnt entail closing any paths so if anyone was dog walking, or exercising i doubt putting a few cones down would impact them.

So it isn't 60 minutes.

TheignT · 29/04/2026 13:53

The free thing seems important to lots of people. It seems odd to me when if you want to play football on a pitch you pay for it, if they have a fair in our local park they pay but adults can't make a small contribution for their run? Say you have 400 runners every week and they pay £1 that's £20k a year that could be used to improve facilities or subsidise kids who can't afford to play a sport they love. Would that £1 stop people and if it would does the run matter that much?

VanillaTime · 29/04/2026 08:50

I think Parkrun is fantastic and I’m glad there’s somewhere that everyone from racers to strollers can go and take part for free. There are a couple of things that could be done to make the situation easier. Faster runners at the front, slower/walkers at the back obviously. Make it very clear which side is the passing side (this seems to vary and isn’t always clearly communicated by RDs). Where possible have a single loop course or maybe a maximum of 2 laps to reduce the number of times the fast runners are overtaking the slower ones, same for avoiding routes with very narrow tracks. I have taken part on a 3 lap narrow route and it’s not fun if you’re at the back! Personally I would not allow buggies to be pushed on those types of courses (same as dogs are not always allowed). More marshalls (and everyone has to volunteer after x number of Parkruns or no more times recorded).

Ultimately whatever the type of course, it’s down to all the users of that space to be considerate and tolerant of each other. Same as on our roads 🤔 - unfortunately some people act in a rude, entitled and dangerous way and need to be pulled up for it.

MasterBeth · 28/04/2026 23:31

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/04/2026 13:02

You said If a group of 500 teenagers decided to ride bikes round and round a public footpath the Daily Mail would be screeching about mob rule. You were clearly suggesting an organised event, not just a lot of teenage cyclists all happening to descend on the park at once because the measures to encourage cycling had been so successful.

No, actually, I wasn't suggesting an organised event or, at least, not one like Park run with marshalls and badges and a website and a logo.

Fizbosshoes · 28/04/2026 23:06

TheignT · 28/04/2026 22:01

Do you think people materialise and sixty minutes later they disappear?

Kind of...
The parkrun i do most often, I frequently volunteer. Often im standing there at 8.50, thinking its not very well attended ...and it looks like maybe 50 people are there...in the next 10 minutes another 200 people usually turn up. Its not a particularly fast course, but the first person is usually 18 or 19 min and the last one just over an hour....but id say majority of people (that were running) are dispersing, or drifting towards the cafes by 9.45. The main paths are generally quite empty by then. It takes maybe until 10.15 to pack away the cones/finish etc, but our start/finish area is in the middle of a very large expanse of grass, unlikely to be impeding any other park users. The course set up is done before 9 but doesnt entail closing any paths so if anyone was dog walking, or exercising i doubt putting a few cones down would impact them.

Mysterian · 28/04/2026 22:46

I really don't understand slow runners that try to get in the front of the pack. It just means that for the next half an hour you're getting passed by 3 or 4 hundred people. It'll also use up your energy faster and you'll get a slower time at the end.

Fizbosshoes · 28/04/2026 22:05

I imagine the really busy part of parkrun only lasts for about 45 min in most places. All the fastest runners (that lots of people seem to object to) will have been and gone within 25 min....

Lots of running clubs or coaches recommend parkruns for improving your 5k (and other) times so joining a running club isnt an alternative to parkrun. Most of my friends from running club do club sessions during the week, and parkrun most weekends.

Nobody should be pushing, shoving, barging, swearing, spitting or overtaking in a dangerous manner. That is the same in a race, on a running track...or anywhere really. But being "inclusive" surely include both ends of the scale. The people that take 17 minutes and the people that take over an hour. And everyone in between.

TheignT · 28/04/2026 22:01

RollOnSunshine · 28/04/2026 21:39

Its about 1 hour a week!

Do you think people materialise and sixty minutes later they disappear?

RollOnSunshine · 28/04/2026 21:39

Monty36 · 25/04/2026 09:37

I always feel for anyone who just wants to enjoy the park. Especially anyone with a disability or old. The park it seems is for the runners at that point. And nobody else.
Where I used to live had a run through the city. I had no idea it was happening. I could not get from A to B because the road I used to cross on foot was closed off. For most of the day.
Some limits are needed. I think if people start to run competitively they really do need to join a running club.

Its about 1 hour a week!

RollOnSunshine · 28/04/2026 21:36

Unfortunately some parkruns are too popular for the routes used.

I agree that it was unacceptable for them to be pushing/shouting

For a while I have believed that parkrun needs a graded starting system. For example if you run sub 20 minutes you start at the front. sub 25 behind this flag, sub 30 behind the next flag etc

Whilst the idea is perhaps not 'in keeping with the spirit' of the event there are an inordinate number of runners who start too near the front relative to their abililty.

TheignT · 28/04/2026 21:29

Well it isn't happening now so there is that. Yes we knew it was happening so does that mean a disabled man of almost 80 shouldn't be able to get exercise at a time he can manage to walk because people who are able to run are so rude and entitled? I guess park runners really are that entitled.

NoWordForFluffy · 28/04/2026 20:11

Spaghettea · 28/04/2026 20:03

We had a woman like that in our park for a while. 9am on a Saturday moaning on the path and complaining loudly at the parkrunners.

I saw her being a dick in town too so she was clearly just one of those weird idiots.

There are many of those around, so I suppose it's not out of the realms of possibility!

tripleginandtonic · 28/04/2026 20:08

RampantIvy · 25/04/2026 08:52

They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

Yet 29% of voters think you are being unreasonable, and think this is OK.

Words fail me.

Doesn't ring any bells at any parkruns I've attended so maybe they are wondering if it's somewhat exaggerated People do parkrun for a variety of reasons, including besting their PB.

Spaghettea · 28/04/2026 20:03

Flossette · 28/04/2026 19:16

I said the people who on purpose choose to walk their dogs on the parkrun course at exactly 9 every Saturday JUST so they can moan about parkrun can get in the sea.

And I stand by that. Some people go out of their way to find things to irritate them.

We had a woman like that in our park for a while. 9am on a Saturday moaning on the path and complaining loudly at the parkrunners.

I saw her being a dick in town too so she was clearly just one of those weird idiots.

GimmieABreakOr3 · 28/04/2026 20:02

yanbu - if they want to compete, they should book a race … they shouldn’t be shouting and swearing, there should be zero tolerance on that ..

NoWordForFluffy · 28/04/2026 19:58

BrownBookshelf · 28/04/2026 19:52

What it comes down to is, everyone should be considerate. It's an equal obligation on all users. Being in the park is a choice, whatever you're doing, and nobody gets to decide that others shouldn't be there.

Totally agree. I'm certainly not trying to ban them. It'd just be nice if some of them were more considerate, and the organisers moved people along a bit at the finish line so the whole - very wide - path isn't blocked.

MillieTheMitten · 28/04/2026 19:53

NoWordForFluffy · 28/04/2026 19:49

Most of the dog walkers I know do try to avoid it, but sometimes timings go a bit awry, or there are other life events going on which means you end up clashing at some point.

However, it's a shared bloody space and ParkRunners should be considerate if they happen upon somebody on their route. If I accidentally come across a bunch of runners, I'll give way, rather than do my 'salmon going up stream' impression. It would be nice if sometimes the runners moved over once they've thinned out a touch though!

I would always avoid and say thank you/sorry depending on how much avoidance I had to do! Or I would get sidetracked by the dog - which happens more frequently than I’d like to admit! I love parkrun, for myself and for the running community, it’s really important that it’s a cohesive environment and we are considerate to each other and locals! Rude people really piss me off.

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