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To think ParkRun need to consider banning racers?

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 08:49

My local parkrun has been overtaken by drama this week, after some men attended and basically turned the entire thing into a glorified race for themselves. They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

I always thought the point of parkrun was to go and enjoy a 5k run and some socialising after. But it seems that across the country they’re being overtaken by people who are obsessed with “winning” it and getting the PB as a “chip time”.

i understand the sense of achievement you get from getting a PB, but I don’t think parkrun is the place to do it. Myself and many other women who have been attending for years are now considering not going again because it is so unpleasant.

AIBU to say they need to clamp down on this, before it becomes a big men’s club?

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BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:34

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:27

Really? That’s a weird way of looking at it. Loads of “athletes” do parkrun. As well as other races.

Why would an athlete want to run with a load of amateurs?
Why would an author want to do a year 1 spelling test?
Answer - so they could win, easily, and feel smug.

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:33

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:31

Because park run is meant to be fun, and is meant to be a place where novice runners can get involved. Surely the more serious racers would join a running club.

Apart from anything else, if you’re a serious runner then 5k is nothing. And how can you get a PB when you’re running in a throng of people? That’s what I mean when I say it’s performative. Their priority is not their actual time. It’s being seen to be faster than the mere mortals who are there for fun exercise.

PB stands for Personal Best. It’s personal. No need for it to be the “look at how fast I am” show.

Then take away the rankings then. Everyone just gets their own time. No need for gender/sex/age classification- just your time.

Stnam · 25/04/2026 10:32

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:10

Respectfully if you’re doing parkrun as your timing you’re not an athlete

That is not quite true. A lot of serious runners will do a park run for timing. You can even use some park run times to qualify for certain races. It is a broad range of people who do it. Park runs vary quite a lot from place to place.

CatkinToadflax · 25/04/2026 10:32

Dame Kelly Holmes and Alex Yee have both done our local Parkrun. DH and DS both do it regularly and both also volunteer. DH bumbles along happily and DS tries to better his time every week.

I much prefer Parkrun to the local running groups who thunder up and down the pavements at random times of day. On one occasion I was walking the dog and a large group came flying along in the opposite direction. Two women shoved me and my dog into a hedge, didn’t even notice, and just kept on running.

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:31

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:29

Parkrun isn’t a race

Anything with timings and ranking is a race. It is, in fact, exactly the definition of a race.

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:31

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:17

What is wrong with being performative? Competitive sports by its nature is performative. The whole point of the Olympics is performative. Yes, this is on a Very micro level but I’d be chuffed honestly to have my name in the top 10 of a park run.

Because park run is meant to be fun, and is meant to be a place where novice runners can get involved. Surely the more serious racers would join a running club.

Apart from anything else, if you’re a serious runner then 5k is nothing. And how can you get a PB when you’re running in a throng of people? That’s what I mean when I say it’s performative. Their priority is not their actual time. It’s being seen to be faster than the mere mortals who are there for fun exercise.

PB stands for Personal Best. It’s personal. No need for it to be the “look at how fast I am” show.

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:30

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:25

I’d have thought an athlete going to a park run would be a bit like an author asking to join in a year 1 spelling test!

Why though? There are 2 very distinct groups who are doing park run. Competitive athletes using it as a race and the people who are using it as a sociable fun run for fitness purposes. Both can be true at the same time.

if you want to restrict it to the second group you have to remove the timings. If you want both to coexist then some thought needs to start going into having separation of the groups.

things are always evolving and so there isn’t reason that park run can’t evolve as well so everyone is happy and catered for.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:29

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:27

Really? That’s a weird way of looking at it. Loads of “athletes” do parkrun. As well as other races.

Parkrun isn’t a race

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:29

Upsetaboutparents · 25/04/2026 10:28

I think the point is that he also does park run and is the fastest park runner in the UK I think?

I bet he doesn't shout and push though. There are proper athletes at park run but I reckon it's not them acting like idiots.

i think what I should’ve said is if you’re only doing parkrun

but I do think it’s a bit embarrassing as a real athlete to do parkrun!

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hypnovic · 25/04/2026 10:29

Shitty entitled and embarrassing why are they like this.

Upsetaboutparents · 25/04/2026 10:28

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:26

An Irish long distance runner who has won multiple championships? Not the same thing as Ben popping down his local parkrun and shouting at kids id say

I think the point is that he also does park run and is the fastest park runner in the UK I think?

I bet he doesn't shout and push though. There are proper athletes at park run but I reckon it's not them acting like idiots.

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:28

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:26

An Irish long distance runner who has won multiple championships? Not the same thing as Ben popping down his local parkrun and shouting at kids id say

Well what if Ben also does lots of races AND pops down to his local parkrun to shout at kids. Those two things can be true at the same time.

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:27

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:25

I’d have thought an athlete going to a park run would be a bit like an author asking to join in a year 1 spelling test!

Really? That’s a weird way of looking at it. Loads of “athletes” do parkrun. As well as other races.

ArtyFartyCrafts · 25/04/2026 10:26

It’s the same with lane swimming. Full of selfish, ignorant people who take up lanes they shouldn’t be in and either swim over people or hold people up. Usually men and old women. It’s infuriating.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:26

suki1964 · 25/04/2026 10:25

I suggest you go google Nick Griggs

An Irish long distance runner who has won multiple championships? Not the same thing as Ben popping down his local parkrun and shouting at kids id say

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BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:25

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:16

Why is that? We have lots of club runners at ours and they definitely are athletes.

I’d have thought an athlete going to a park run would be a bit like an author asking to join in a year 1 spelling test!

suki1964 · 25/04/2026 10:25

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:10

Respectfully if you’re doing parkrun as your timing you’re not an athlete

I suggest you go google Nick Griggs

suki1964 · 25/04/2026 10:18

My local park run is a local playing field and its three laps . We get all sorts , club runners to pram pushers. Im a walker and I aim for a PB every time :)

Its a timed run, so why would you not aim for a PB?

We group at the start, fastest first, walkers last , walkers know where about they are going to get lapped and move to the side . We are all aiming for a PB, not a dander, catching up with friends , blocking the course

Pushing and shoving isnt on. But again, why was there a need? Are you just merrily grouping up and chatting away oblivious to other users?

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:18

nOlives · 25/04/2026 10:17

Reading about pinch points and looping and how that definitely means elbows and pushing... I'm not a runner, but are elbows and pushing a normal permitted part of running? I would hate it and feel endangered.
If, as I'd hope, running is a non-contact sport then surely the very first thing you as an organiser do is point out the pinch points and note that there are cameras there and people making contact will not be allowed to place. Multiple offences leading to a ban.
I mean I get you can't have eyes everywhere, but you can have eyes in the obvious places.

Not when running normally

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BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:17

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:11

Exactly. There are a million phone apps (not to mention smart watches) that record time, speed, steps etc. If people really want to track their timings, they don’t need someone with a stopwatch blowing a whistle like a school sports day!

As I say, it sounds very performative.

I run 5 miles 3 times a week. I have slow days and fast days. Occasionally I manage a really fast run. The only person who knows this is me. I don’t need someone in a hi-vis jacket to validate it.

What is wrong with being performative? Competitive sports by its nature is performative. The whole point of the Olympics is performative. Yes, this is on a Very micro level but I’d be chuffed honestly to have my name in the top 10 of a park run.

LadyTyburn · 25/04/2026 10:17

My nearest PR is three flat laps in an otherwise hilly area and it's overwhelmingly people in club vests who yell at slower runners and push past. There's no point trying to change it and it has put my two teen daughters off trying to run now. I drive to a more distant PR now, but its hilly so my girls don't want to come with me. The local run does feel very male, aggressive and excluding.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:17

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:16

Why is that? We have lots of club runners at ours and they definitely are athletes.

This is part of the issue I think. A lot of people who do something as a hobby trying to paint themselves as athletes, but the most “competition” they’re willing to take part in is parkrun

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nOlives · 25/04/2026 10:17

Reading about pinch points and looping and how that definitely means elbows and pushing... I'm not a runner, but are elbows and pushing a normal permitted part of running? I would hate it and feel endangered.
If, as I'd hope, running is a non-contact sport then surely the very first thing you as an organiser do is point out the pinch points and note that there are cameras there and people making contact will not be allowed to place. Multiple offences leading to a ban.
I mean I get you can't have eyes everywhere, but you can have eyes in the obvious places.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:17

Viviennemary · 25/04/2026 10:13

I think it's quite cheeky of large groups of runners to take over a park in this way and disrupt the enjoyment of other park users.

Parkrun is a longstanding thing, and it’s great. It’s just a few dicks that ruin it.

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Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:16

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:10

Respectfully if you’re doing parkrun as your timing you’re not an athlete

Why is that? We have lots of club runners at ours and they definitely are athletes.

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