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To think ParkRun need to consider banning racers?

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 08:49

My local parkrun has been overtaken by drama this week, after some men attended and basically turned the entire thing into a glorified race for themselves. They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

I always thought the point of parkrun was to go and enjoy a 5k run and some socialising after. But it seems that across the country they’re being overtaken by people who are obsessed with “winning” it and getting the PB as a “chip time”.

i understand the sense of achievement you get from getting a PB, but I don’t think parkrun is the place to do it. Myself and many other women who have been attending for years are now considering not going again because it is so unpleasant.

AIBU to say they need to clamp down on this, before it becomes a big men’s club?

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/04/2026 10:49

Goditsmemargaret · 25/04/2026 10:00

I live in an area with a huge running club and a parkrun with a tough hilly route close by. I am a runner but not fast.

I have always been bemused by this image that parkrun is for everyone, gangs of friends, buggies etc because it certainly has never been the case around here. I never run it but occasionally volunteer and I often see the photos; the same faces, the same names in the shoutouts etc.

We do sometimes drive half an hour to another beautiful park for the parkrun followed by breakfast. The atmosphere is very different but still competitive and average number of attendees s are 300. There's a female international runner who coaches around there and she is often there with some other elite athletes. There are pacers and because they are present people naturally fall into their time zones.

I think in your case the atmosphere you've been enjoying will not remain as once it gets competitive that's it. But could you volunteer and look to make it enjoyable for everyone; rules read out and enforced, time wave start points, direction about overtaking on the right etc.

Intrigued by the description of your area as that could apply to ours, but our parkrun very definitely is inclusive. We get fast runners and also some very slow plodders (e.g. me) at the back. Plenty of people running or walking with buggies and/or dogs and/or young kids. Plenty of decrepit older people (me again). I've never seen the behaviour the OP describes, but then our run directors always stress that we don't have exclusive use of the park so to be aware of other people and be considerate. If I did ever observe twattish behaviour I would make it known to the run director asap so she or he could act on it.

TheignT · 25/04/2026 10:49

I've always found park runs full of rude and aggressive people, not all obviously but lots of them. Going for a walk with disabled husband became dangerous as he was pushed and jostled. Why can't they hire a venue instead of making parks no go areas?

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:49

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:46

Hmmm well regardless of what you say, lots of serious athletes do parkrun every week. It’s not about beating the amateurs, it’s about getting a good time, which is why the spelling contest example isn’t that good. Parkrun is free whereas most other races have a fee to enter. Also a lot of races eg London Marathon have both elites and amateur runners.

The London marathon doesn’t involve the athletes lapping the slower runners and shoving them out of the way.

zanahoria · 25/04/2026 10:48

You are not being unreasonable to complain but this is a really tough call on the organizers. They put on a great event only for some to ruin it but most volunteers do not want to act as race police

TheSpecialTwo · 25/04/2026 10:47

I’m at park run most weeks with the kids, they leave me for dead! I’ve never witnessed that kind of behaviour but I’ve seen plenty of groups run three a breast or with a dog on a long lead that is not quite under control which is irritating, and no care that people are trying to pass (including me at quite a slow pace).

2ndcarowner · 25/04/2026 10:46

I don’t like Park Run, I went a couple of times but there was always someone who would slow themselves down to run alongside me shouting ‘motivation’ at me and pushing me to run faster. I don’t need that, I’ve been running longer distances that 5k since my teens, I run at my own pace and I’m not interested in being faster, it was supposed to be a gentle run.

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:46

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:34

Why would an athlete want to run with a load of amateurs?
Why would an author want to do a year 1 spelling test?
Answer - so they could win, easily, and feel smug.

Hmmm well regardless of what you say, lots of serious athletes do parkrun every week. It’s not about beating the amateurs, it’s about getting a good time, which is why the spelling contest example isn’t that good. Parkrun is free whereas most other races have a fee to enter. Also a lot of races eg London Marathon have both elites and amateur runners.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/04/2026 10:45

I’d like to ban the same bloody woman who brings her dog every week that barks and barks and barks incessantly for half an hour before and after the park run that starts outside my bedroom window. I’m not running at the moment and would Like to sleep beyond 8:30am.

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:44

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:42

So the only solution therefore is to simply have everyone gets a time and that’s it. Job done. No categories and no competition. Don’t set it up as a race and then say it’s not a race.

I’ve got no idea. I’m not a park run organiser. But if I lived near a park and I was an athlete and I wanted to see how fast I could run around said park, I’d go on a quiet Tuesday morning, not on a busy Park Run day when it was full of amateurs. Unless, of course, I wanted other people to see how fast I was……

usedtobeaylis · 25/04/2026 10:44

In case anyone forgot, parks are multi purpose by design.

usedtobeaylis · 25/04/2026 10:43

Quite cheeky of dog walkers to get in the way of people enjoying a casual jog.

21ZIGGY · 25/04/2026 10:42

Viviennemary · 25/04/2026 10:13

I think it's quite cheeky of large groups of runners to take over a park in this way and disrupt the enjoyment of other park users.

For me, it's just the entitlement that they matter above all other park users. I've been shouted up before because I've been walking with my dog and a park runner told me that they couldn't run past me because they were afraid of dogs and I was holding up their park run.

usedtobeaylis · 25/04/2026 10:42

Hallamule · 25/04/2026 10:40

I'm interested in how you got from "there was an incident at my park run this week" to "park run everywhere is being ruined by competitive men".

Probably because men do ruin a lot of things.

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:42

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:39

Evidently they can’t be true at the same time, as OP states. The fast runners end up pushing and shoving to get past the slower ones. And of course if the course involves several laps, then it’s pointless starting the fast ones at the front, because inevitably they’ll catch up with the slow ones at the back.

Yes sport is about competition, but it also has to be a level playing field. You wouldn’t have a football league that contained Manchester City and Morecambe FC would you. What would be the point of that?

So the only solution therefore is to simply have everyone gets a time and that’s it. Job done. No categories and no competition. Don’t set it up as a race and then say it’s not a race.

BitOutOfPractice · 25/04/2026 10:42

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:39

Evidently they can’t be true at the same time, as OP states. The fast runners end up pushing and shoving to get past the slower ones. And of course if the course involves several laps, then it’s pointless starting the fast ones at the front, because inevitably they’ll catch up with the slow ones at the back.

Yes sport is about competition, but it also has to be a level playing field. You wouldn’t have a football league that contained Manchester City and Morecambe FC would you. What would be the point of that?

But they don’t push and /or swear at 99% of park runs. The op states that she’s been going for years and it seems to be the first time she’s seen this crap behaviour. I’ve never seen it at the many park runs I’ve done.

usedtobeaylis · 25/04/2026 10:41

Almost everyone at park run is trying to beat their time. It is timed for a reason. Almost everyone is racing, even if it's just against themselves. Almost everyone behaves fine. YANBU. Being fast isn't a license to behave how the fuck you want.

mantez · 25/04/2026 10:41

Gosh it all sounds very competitive for something that I thought was supposed to be a "fun" time for everyone no matter their standard.

I'm glad I don't involve myself with any competitive sport, it seems to bring out the devil in some people!

Hallamule · 25/04/2026 10:40

I'm interested in how you got from "there was an incident at my park run this week" to "park run everywhere is being ruined by competitive men".

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:39

BananaPeels · 25/04/2026 10:30

Why though? There are 2 very distinct groups who are doing park run. Competitive athletes using it as a race and the people who are using it as a sociable fun run for fitness purposes. Both can be true at the same time.

if you want to restrict it to the second group you have to remove the timings. If you want both to coexist then some thought needs to start going into having separation of the groups.

things are always evolving and so there isn’t reason that park run can’t evolve as well so everyone is happy and catered for.

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Evidently they can’t be true at the same time, as OP states. The fast runners end up pushing and shoving to get past the slower ones. And of course if the course involves several laps, then it’s pointless starting the fast ones at the front, because inevitably they’ll catch up with the slow ones at the back.

Yes sport is about competition, but it also has to be a level playing field. You wouldn’t have a football league that contained Manchester City and Morecambe FC would you. What would be the point of that?

Ophy83 · 25/04/2026 10:37

The YABU votes are probably due to the suggestion of the complete ban on racing, rather than a ban on antisocial behaviour. Absolutely anyone who shouts, swears and pushes others should be told to leave immediately. But the kids aiming for sub 20-minutes absolutely should be encouraged. Most park runs manage to handle this.

Cricketashes · 25/04/2026 10:36

We have a couple of pro runners at our local one and a lioness. Parkrun is for everyone and that includes very fast people as well as slower walkers. You can't say its inclusive but also say faster runners shouldn't be allowed. They should definitely not be pushing and swearing though.
On the 'race' point, surely everyone races it in their own way. Nobody goes out to get slower every week? Everyone tries to get faster.

AlphabetBird · 25/04/2026 10:36

I think this comes down to etiquette and sportsmanship rather than whether it’s ok to run fast or not. Of course it’s good to try and get a PB if you want one and of course people of all abilities, including some very very able runners will run Parkrun. It not being ‘for’ one set of abilities over any other is one of its major strengths.

I’m a 30-odd minute runner and my sons are 16 and 20 minute runners respectively. I love that we can all do it together! (Well, start together…).

What is not ok is intimidating or being physical with other runners. That’s just shitty behaviour. Runners who think other people shouldn’t be in their way or shouldn’t be participating because they are slower are the ones who need to find another race to run!

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/04/2026 10:34

They probably want to go because it’s free!

wendywoopywoo222 · 25/04/2026 10:34

I love park run and haven’t seen this sort of behavior but I start and stay at the back. I would repost it if I did as the people in charge won’t know unless you tell them. The fast runners do pass us twice but the volenteers request when we move to the sides so that they have a clearer path. It’s a very inclusive event where I run with generally over 1000 runners/walkers. There are timings displayed at the start so pick your rough time and start around there and it all seems to work well. Have met several people I now walk/run with who do roughly the same time as me. When I first started the lovely back walkers chatted to me on and off and the fast ones who are leaving before I finish give us at the back well dones and claps and encouragement. I like having my times logged in the app and looking at the challenges I can do and I would imagine the fast runners feel the same.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 25/04/2026 10:34

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting a PB but it’s not in the spirit of it to behave as they are.

And in real life, you know the difference.

Pushing and shoving and acting macho are all no go.

I agree there should be a clampdown but are the volunteers going to be up to this? It’s a real shame as this exists to make running accessible and they are stopping it from being so.

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