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To think ParkRun need to consider banning racers?

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 08:49

My local parkrun has been overtaken by drama this week, after some men attended and basically turned the entire thing into a glorified race for themselves. They were pushing people out of the way, swearing at them and shouting at them to let them through.

I always thought the point of parkrun was to go and enjoy a 5k run and some socialising after. But it seems that across the country they’re being overtaken by people who are obsessed with “winning” it and getting the PB as a “chip time”.

i understand the sense of achievement you get from getting a PB, but I don’t think parkrun is the place to do it. Myself and many other women who have been attending for years are now considering not going again because it is so unpleasant.

AIBU to say they need to clamp down on this, before it becomes a big men’s club?

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MathildaPony · 25/04/2026 11:10

I'd have a word with your run director and let them know what happened. They or the director of the next run can address the issue at the start and mention expected behaviours of those passing other runners and those being lapped.

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:09

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 11:04

For an hour? I don’t think this argument is valid because it’s an event organised with permission of the council

If you need exclusive use of a venue hire one otherwise make sure all participants behave in a reasonable manner. If you can't ensure that then it shouldn't be allowed. It actually isn't allowed in our local park anymore. Actions have consequences.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 11:08

Terfedout · 25/04/2026 11:07

I was with you OP but you've lost me now. It's not for you to decide where someone wants to run. Who are you to tell them they are embarrassing. You are just rude.

I mean if you get your kicks from beating amateur runners and being rude to them then fair enough

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justletusrun · 25/04/2026 11:07

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:06

My husband is disabled and in pain. We get his exercise, which he needs, by getting up, having breakfast with his heavy duty painkillers and going out when pain most manageable. There is no reason park runners have to have the whole path meaning other people can't walk safely. No excuse for pushing people out of the way. If runners can't behave in a civilised manner then the runs should be banned A great example of selfish behaviour.

Why should we have to avoid the park?

You’re aware of it happening though

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Terfedout · 25/04/2026 11:07

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 10:29

i think what I should’ve said is if you’re only doing parkrun

but I do think it’s a bit embarrassing as a real athlete to do parkrun!

I was with you OP but you've lost me now. It's not for you to decide where someone wants to run. Who are you to tell them they are embarrassing. You are just rude.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/04/2026 11:07

sillylittlerabbit · 25/04/2026 11:04

They have hired it. With the local authority’s permission - they’re just not being charged for it. And that’s because the health benefits and community benefits are significant.

Spot on. I believe in South Africa people with health insurance get a reduced rate if they can prove they are doing some sort of organised activity that will benefit their health. This is one reason parkrun has done well there, as it provides an easy way of proving that.

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:06

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/04/2026 11:00

It happens once a week on a Saturday morning, starting at 9am and usually all finished by around 10am. Junior parkruns for 4-14yos are Sunday mornings and as they are shorter they are generally over and done with by 9.45am. Parks should not be no go areas because of parkrun, but even if they were, it's for a tiny fraction of the week, so pretty easily avoided.

My husband is disabled and in pain. We get his exercise, which he needs, by getting up, having breakfast with his heavy duty painkillers and going out when pain most manageable. There is no reason park runners have to have the whole path meaning other people can't walk safely. No excuse for pushing people out of the way. If runners can't behave in a civilised manner then the runs should be banned A great example of selfish behaviour.

Why should we have to avoid the park?

user7463246787 · 25/04/2026 11:05

I wouldn’t run if i was on fire, but our local towns SM tells of dog walkers and small children being shoved aside in pursuit of a win in our local nature reserve/park… and then the parking chaos they cause. They’re not making themselves popular the last few months, which is a shame as I think everyone has rubbed along okay for a good few years.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/04/2026 11:04

Emptyandsad · 25/04/2026 10:58

I don't have much sympathy for this point of view. A park is a community asset and Park Run is a community activity. It takes an hour and it doesn't take up the whole park - just one path through a park (and parks generally are big enough to have several paths running through them). Park Run is held at the same time every week so you know when to expect them and you can avoid them all together if they upset you.

If there is a run through a city which is big enough to involve roads being closed, I find it hard to believe it took you 'by surprise'. These events are publicised for weeks beforehand. It's one day a year; get over yourself

Agreed. Also, organised races involving road closures have to be approved by local councils and notified to the police and other emergency services. They're planned months and years in advance.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 11:04

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:01

Our local park is small and park run meant other people had to exclude themselves from the park for safety. Hire a venue if you want an event.

For an hour? I don’t think this argument is valid because it’s an event organised with permission of the council

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Butchyrestingface · 25/04/2026 11:04

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I imagine amongst the 29% were people who disagree with the premise of the thread title, rather than they think this behaviour is acceptable.

ApplebyArrows · 25/04/2026 11:04

I suspect the angry men might start to rethink things if another, possibly much larger, man started to shout and swear at them when they act out of order, though knowing how the world works it would probably be the man telling them off who got banned and the badly behaved men would be allowed to continue.

sillylittlerabbit · 25/04/2026 11:04

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:01

Our local park is small and park run meant other people had to exclude themselves from the park for safety. Hire a venue if you want an event.

They have hired it. With the local authority’s permission - they’re just not being charged for it. And that’s because the health benefits and community benefits are significant.

OneNewUser · 25/04/2026 11:04

The idea of ‘why can’t they just hire a venue’ is also laughable - a) there are clearly not many ‘venues’ big enough for a 5k loop to hire, b) the whole thing is free to participate and run by volunteers. It no doubt saves the nhs a chunk of money because there are a lot of people who have been encouraged into regular exercise by it.
Bad behavior should always be called out but that doesn’t mean park run should be made less inclusive just as a couple of rowdy teenagers don’t mean all teenagers shouldn’t be allowed in parks or the odd very loud and disruptive child mean no child should be allowed in restaurants.

TheignT · 25/04/2026 11:01

Emptyandsad · 25/04/2026 10:58

I don't have much sympathy for this point of view. A park is a community asset and Park Run is a community activity. It takes an hour and it doesn't take up the whole park - just one path through a park (and parks generally are big enough to have several paths running through them). Park Run is held at the same time every week so you know when to expect them and you can avoid them all together if they upset you.

If there is a run through a city which is big enough to involve roads being closed, I find it hard to believe it took you 'by surprise'. These events are publicised for weeks beforehand. It's one day a year; get over yourself

Our local park is small and park run meant other people had to exclude themselves from the park for safety. Hire a venue if you want an event.

justletusrun · 25/04/2026 11:00

Wearenotborg · 25/04/2026 10:57

Yeah. My question is how did OP know these were men behaving like this? I assume they didn’t reveal their gender identity. They could have been NB or women for all we know.

What?

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Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 25/04/2026 11:00

TheignT · 25/04/2026 10:49

I've always found park runs full of rude and aggressive people, not all obviously but lots of them. Going for a walk with disabled husband became dangerous as he was pushed and jostled. Why can't they hire a venue instead of making parks no go areas?

It happens once a week on a Saturday morning, starting at 9am and usually all finished by around 10am. Junior parkruns for 4-14yos are Sunday mornings and as they are shorter they are generally over and done with by 9.45am. Parks should not be no go areas because of parkrun, but even if they were, it's for a tiny fraction of the week, so pretty easily avoided.

Eddielizzard · 25/04/2026 10:58

It's not a new thing. I used to park run pre Covid and was pushed out the way by a couple of runners from the local club. Nothing like enjoying your run and then being shoved to the side out of nowhere. Yes, they were all men who did this.

Emptyandsad · 25/04/2026 10:58

Monty36 · 25/04/2026 09:37

I always feel for anyone who just wants to enjoy the park. Especially anyone with a disability or old. The park it seems is for the runners at that point. And nobody else.
Where I used to live had a run through the city. I had no idea it was happening. I could not get from A to B because the road I used to cross on foot was closed off. For most of the day.
Some limits are needed. I think if people start to run competitively they really do need to join a running club.

I don't have much sympathy for this point of view. A park is a community asset and Park Run is a community activity. It takes an hour and it doesn't take up the whole park - just one path through a park (and parks generally are big enough to have several paths running through them). Park Run is held at the same time every week so you know when to expect them and you can avoid them all together if they upset you.

If there is a run through a city which is big enough to involve roads being closed, I find it hard to believe it took you 'by surprise'. These events are publicised for weeks beforehand. It's one day a year; get over yourself

Wearenotborg · 25/04/2026 10:57

daffydreams · 25/04/2026 10:55

I stopped doing park run when they let men who identity as women into the womens

Yeah. My question is how did OP know these were men behaving like this? I assume they didn’t reveal their gender identity. They could have been NB or women for all we know.

ToadRage · 25/04/2026 10:56

We bumped into an old running friend at Sainsbury's yesterday. He introduced us to Parkrun years ago but we haven't been for a long time. He told us, though he still runs and had just returned from doing the Boston Marathon, he and his wife have totally given up the parkrun cos there are too many people. It used to be a regular group of about 300, everyone was very friendly, no one berated me for being too slow, I was always last through the funnel, then we'd all split off into our own friendship groups, some would leave and some stuck around for coffee and cake. Apparently now there are over a thousand and most people we knew don't go anymore. It's just too busy, its takes too long, and there will always be a bunch of awful people trying to make it competitive.

Dozer · 25/04/2026 10:56

I enioy Parkrun. Sorry it was spoiled by those men.

Even running fast can cause problems like accidents - I had one after tripping, running faster at Parkrun than I should have!

’They’ are volunteers and it must be difficult to deal with antisocial behaviour. They have the names, scould communicate with them afterwards.

Not at all happy with Parkrun as an organisation for not having a single sex women’s category.

daffydreams · 25/04/2026 10:55

I stopped doing park run when they let men who identity as women into the womens

SpringsOnTheWay · 25/04/2026 10:54

either park run needs to decide what it is, fun social way to get to 5k or allow people to race and manage this, like the marathon and almost have two starts with the people wanting to run like this start at the front

Glowingup · 25/04/2026 10:51

BerryTwister · 25/04/2026 10:49

The London marathon doesn’t involve the athletes lapping the slower runners and shoving them out of the way.

I’ve never said it’s okay to do that. I’m just taking issue with the smug proclamation that if you do parkrun you can’t be a real athlete (whatever that means as even the top club runners won’t be professional athletes). You can be. Nobody should push or shove or swear at people.

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