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Voting for Reform.the north/south

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Jollyjupiter · 24/04/2026 00:16

As a proud Northerner i can say 80 per cent of my peer group will vote for Reform in May. Do you think it will be a North v South split?

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Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 09:41

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 09:40

She doesn’t care about anyone else’s rights except her own and will be astonished to find hers disappearing along with everyone else’s.

It absolutely needs looking at when rapists cannot be deported because they have a 'right to family life' or whatever bollox they come up with.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 09:40

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:38

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more

This to me is absolutely insane. It's the European Court of Human Rights. Which protects our human rights. All human rights (which means including yours.)
Scrapping it would put your human rights at risk.
Or is that ok as long as pesky "boat people" get theirs taken away too?!

She doesn’t care about anyone else’s rights except her own and will be astonished to find hers disappearing along with everyone else’s.

Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 09:40

RampantIvy · 24/04/2026 06:47

I live in Yorkshire and was chatting to one of the Labour candidates in our area yesterday. They see Reform as major competition.

Sadly, there are a lot of little Englanders who fly the England flag in parts of town so it will be a two horse race here. I would be disappointed if any of my friends voted Reform.

I live in Yorkshire too.
There have been flags up poles everywhere- little villages more so than the cities.
No party has delivered anything for the North-we always get shat on.
People are pissed off and struggling
Labour is traditionally strong up here but but my feeling is they will take a bettering this time.
I will not be voting Reform- can't trust Farage as far as I could spit.
Polanski is absolutely deranged.
For the first time in my life I may not actually vote ... which is massive for me. Women died for my right to vote but none of them are worth the ballot paper.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:38

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:35

I don't know anything about green but I don't understand why anyone especially women would vote reform. Wants to go to war, wants to privatise the nhs, hates women, disagrees with gay marriage, against abortion, hates disabled people. It will be a man's world and it will be like we've gone back in time 50 years.

I suppose the answer is some feel as negatively as you do about the other options. What you’re saying doesn’t resonate and Labour are proving worse than they expected.

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:38

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 09:36

So who will you vote for? More Labour? How good have they been for the north? Tory?
These parties are dead in the water,
Dont you think the welfare bill needs some sort of shake up?? It’s bigger than the income from income tax!

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Im also a northerner and will be voting labour. They kept us from going to war thats good enough for me

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:38

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more

This to me is absolutely insane. It's the European Court of Human Rights. Which protects our human rights. All human rights (which means including yours.)
Scrapping it would put your human rights at risk.
Or is that ok as long as pesky "boat people" get theirs taken away too?!

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:37

Genuine question the people voting reform would you also vote trump if you lived in the U.S

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 09:36

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:32

As a proud Northerner I can tell you not a CHANCE am I voting Reform, and none of my friends are either.
I'll go as far as saying I think anyone voting Reform who are working class like round here are absolutely batshit, because it's kind of like repeatedly punching yourself in the arm and then wondering and crying why it hurts. 🙄
When Farage and Reform come out with the crap they do about benefits (which we all may need someday, whether through job losses or health reasons) or the women need to be staying at home (can't remember who said that this week but someone did) we're all suffering under them imo.

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So who will you vote for? More Labour? How good have they been for the north? Tory?
These parties are dead in the water,
Dont you think the welfare bill needs some sort of shake up?? It’s bigger than the income from income tax!

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:35

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:32

I think they’re losing supporters, a few will believe in their policies still but they’re losing many to Greens and Reform.

I don't know anything about green but I don't understand why anyone especially women would vote reform. Wants to go to war, wants to privatise the nhs, hates women, disagrees with gay marriage, against abortion, hates disabled people. It will be a man's world and it will be like we've gone back in time 50 years.

BIossomtoes · 24/04/2026 09:35

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:32

I think they’re losing supporters, a few will believe in their policies still but they’re losing many to Greens and Reform.

I don’t think that’s the case. Reform is benefitting from the collapse of the Tory vote. Nothing ever came of the Labour big name Farage was boasting about a few weeks ago.

DaisyDooley · 24/04/2026 09:35

BewareoftheLambs · 24/04/2026 04:01

Good summary, Farage and his crew managed to do this rubbish to the country without being in charge, imagine the damage they'd do if they were!

They -Reform and Farage -DIDNT do this though did they?
The people voted to leave -only we didn’t have a ‘leaver’ in charge did we?
So it was not don’t correctly and that is why we are in the shit show we are in.
People who voted leave wanted to regain control of our borders - well that’s got even worse and despite his repetition Starmer hasn’t manged to ‘smash the gangs’has he - as if that was never ever going to work.
People wanted to stop ‘human rights’ lawyers who seem to have everybody’s human rights at the front of their minds apart from the people who are paying them - which is the tax payer.
People wanted to see the steel works beimg re invested in and providing jobs, for ports to have the ability to send out boats and for our government to stop French, Spanish and Dutch horrendous overfishing in OUR waters.
To stop boats throwing fish Back because they hauled too much. Madness.

Yes get us out of the ECHR as it’s not fit for purpose any more
. When the human rights of people who came here illegally are more important than the h7man rights of those who have lived here for centuries something is terribly wrong,
Why are taxpayers paying for top level barristers to defend the rights of a rapist to stay here? Or murderers?
Why don’t we check the fingerprint/dna of every single person who comes here?
America checks fingerprints and biometric scans but not the uk.
’Human Rights’.
Those of us who voted Brexit -the majority- are equally as frustrated as remainers as the ‘pretend’ Brexit we got is nothing like what we voted for, Frankly I think Jeremy Corbyn an ardent Euro sceptic might have done a better job.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:32

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:28

Who knows but at least they are trying something new which is no different then what reform would be able to do.

I think they’re losing supporters, a few will believe in their policies still but they’re losing many to Greens and Reform.

IAmBeaIDrinkTea · 24/04/2026 09:32

As a proud Northerner I can tell you not a CHANCE am I voting Reform, and none of my friends are either.
I'll go as far as saying I think anyone voting Reform who are working class like round here are absolutely batshit, because it's kind of like repeatedly punching yourself in the arm and then wondering and crying why it hurts. 🙄
When Farage and Reform come out with the crap they do about benefits (which we all may need someday, whether through job losses or health reasons) or the women need to be staying at home (can't remember who said that this week but someone did) we're all suffering under them imo.

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:30

Sartre · 24/04/2026 09:26

Anywhere with vast pockets of deprivation will likely vote Reform and historically that has always, and continues to be, the north and Wales. Poor people are weirdly now more likely to be right wing and I say weirdly because Labour generally put more money in their pockets…

Its because all they hear is get the foreigners out their taking our jobs 🙄 what they don't realise is they will be absolutely screwed under a reform government

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:28

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:26

Will this be as effective as smash the gangs and one in one out?

Who knows but at least they are trying something new which is no different then what reform would be able to do.

Sartre · 24/04/2026 09:26

Anywhere with vast pockets of deprivation will likely vote Reform and historically that has always, and continues to be, the north and Wales. Poor people are weirdly now more likely to be right wing and I say weirdly because Labour generally put more money in their pockets…

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 09:26

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:25

Labour have just signed a new deal with France to stop the small boats so they are doing something

Will this be as effective as smash the gangs and one in one out?

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:25

Labour have just signed a new deal with France to stop the small boats so they are doing something

anniegun · 24/04/2026 09:25

Thick racists is all parts of the country sadly

Dinosnorous · 24/04/2026 09:24

lovealieinortwo · 24/04/2026 08:03

@Dinosnorous are you saying polite debate will change their minds?

In some cases it might. But if you are going in to the conversation thinking the only reason you are engaging is to educate and change minds then you haven’t really changed the perspective that you find them ignorant- people are incredibly good at picking up micro cues.

People change their minds all the time. The guardian had yesterday that across the British Indian community support for Reform has risen from 4% to 13% in a year. That kind of swing is people changing their minds- not having a broad ethos and tactically voting to deliver an outcome

Stnam · 24/04/2026 09:23

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 07:30

If you ignore the smear campaign from the right wing press, labour are actually achieving quite a lot.

Are they? They have taken money away from some people and they have raised unemployment. National debt interest repayments have risen. They have introduced tooth brushing in some schools and underfunded breakfasts. Small boat arrivals are up, but net migration is down which doesn't usually signal a booming economy. Waiting lists are supposedly down but I have had to go private because my NHS physio referral resulted in an AI consultation so I'm very sceptical.

phoenixrosehere · 24/04/2026 09:12

cardibach · 24/04/2026 08:47

The people on here saying you would be daft to vote reform do know your concerns. They also know Reform won’t mar things better in those areas - probably considerably worse. It’s not that anyone isn’t listening. It’s that Reforms answers are either missing or wrong. It’s not looking down noses, it’s trying to engage over policy choices. Explain why you think Reform will be better. Everyone is listening.

Would love to hear why too.

Why should I vote for a party who wants to take away ILR where people spent thousands of pounds in applications and visa renewals, integrated into British life, have very likely had British children, may not be allowed by their home country to hold two passports, and are paying taxes? Why vote for separating British families and people who have come in the legal way?

Complaining about illegal immigration yet want to get rid of those who did come through legally makes zero sense.

Reform voting against a bill aimed at preventing workplace sexual harassment.

Farage and his views of Andrew Tate 🤮

Pretty much Reform’s so-called way of protecting women and plenty of other reasons not to want to vote for Reform.

CanSeeClearlyNowTheRainHasGone · 24/04/2026 09:12

justmeandthedogs · 24/04/2026 07:24

So it’s exactly who you’d expect.

The older, wealthy generation who got everything handed to them and are now pulling the ladder up behind them. Cheap housing, mortgage interest set off against taxes, married person tax allowance, low cost of living, free university, the list goes on. The same people who voted for Brexit because they didn’t understand the implications, or even worse didn’t care.

The older, wealthy generation who got everything handed to them...

If this is your level of comprehension then its not worth even reading the rest of your post.

Shock horror. After 40-50 years of working away every day, older people somehow have managed to accumulate more savings than 20-somethings.

This dog-whistle of generational unfairness is as distasteful and wrong as anything Reform spouts.

youalright · 24/04/2026 09:11

The only people who should be voting reform are white rich healthy straight males who don't mind going to war. Anyone else who votes for them are stupid as the party hates you.

Freysimo · 24/04/2026 09:09

xanthomelana · 24/04/2026 08:28

I’ve voted for every party except Labour for years and it made zero difference in my constituency because Labour has dominated it and never lost their seat. In certain areas I don’t believe it makes a difference and this is why we’ve always had safe seats. I don’t have a problem with voting for the policies that I believe in and I also don’t have a problem with admitting that I agree with Reform on certain things such as immigration. The other part of me agrees with Plaid about certain things, mainly issues around how Wales is funded but I don’t think I can bring myself to vote for a party that can’t answer a simple question about what is a woman. For a lot of people they’ll feel caught in the middle with no party that represents them and I don’t think anyone has to justify their voting intentions to anyone else and if anyone asks someone to justify why they voted for a particular party then they are just a twat.

I'll be voting Reform for the Senedd because of Plaid's insistence on gender self ID. I think people will be surprised how well Reform will do here, not least because people are keeping quiet in case they're accused of being racist. I've never voted Reform before.

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