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Why isn't there any mainstream media focus on British men rape who molest and rape, women and children? But just 'the boat people' ?! Evil/badness exists everywhere!

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Betchygreen · 23/04/2026 19:27

I'm an immigrant of white British/European descent and I saw a headline today in the mainstream media about 'rape meaning sex' pleaded according to asylum seekers who have recently tried at court for rape.

What's going on? If I had to report a (my) white British rapist, I really don't think it would've made headlines. Nor would've any other abuse. White Male British men seem to get off with impunity, or I know are ever accused and formally charged.

I feel it is a shocking abuse of power that only newcomers and brown skinned/other culture peoples are singled out.

Why is it that the UK remains so very much patriarchal and oppressive towards women and children? Why are we not centred in such as way that it as important for women and children to thrive in our society and culture as it is for men of any/whichever long standing class? Is it classicism or what is it? Explain it to me, I truly don't understand why it has to be like this other than those who get a rise out of feeling powerful and in control of others?

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CalmTheFuckDownMargaret · 24/04/2026 14:06

5128gap · 24/04/2026 11:55

I think you have red white and blue tinted glasses on here.
Marital rape didn't become illegal in Britain until 1991. 1.6m women in the UK experienced DVA last year. 64% of UK women have experienced sexual harassment in a public place. Our refuges are full. Our teen daughters are catcalled in their school uniforms. One in four of us will have been raped or sexually assaulted as an adult. The NSPCC estimates that one in twenty of us will have been sexually abused as a child.
The chief of police calls MVAWG in the UK a "national epidemic beyond the scope of policing"
So unless you think there's some extremely busy offenders from other countries getting about a lot, you might need to accept that if our 'cultural norms' are so superior when it comes to the treatment of women, a lot of uk men didn't get the memo.

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Nope, I don’t have patriotic glasses on. As I have just said to another poster, I am well aware of the stats around male violence in this country as I am an active member of a women’s rights group. I spend considerable time and energy complaining about men in this country, too.

Patriarchal repression and domination of women is global. That said, some practices are culturally different. It is inaccurate to say that FGM is a British cultural practice. It is inaccurate to say that girls and women can’t be educated in this country. It is inaccurate to claim that marital rape is preached about in Anglican churches. Women are still violently and sexually assaulted but we absolutely do not have a culture where men can openly talk in the workplace about hitting their wives.

CalmTheFuckDownMargaret · 24/04/2026 13:54

nomas · 24/04/2026 11:45

No, it isn’t tolerated in the Middle East. Egyptian women protest long and fighting for their rights. How have you supported them?

You think groping and spousal rape doesn’t happen in the UK by white men?

How naive.

What you have just posted is downright wrong.

Far from being naive, I’m an active and campaigning member of a women’s rights organisation. The Egyptian women you speak of are fighting for their rights because of the way they are treated culturally by male Egyptians. My husband worked in Egypt a few years ago and was left pretty speechless by the way male businessmen treated and talked about women.

You are missing the point spectacularly. Spousal rape happens in this country and it is illegal. It is tolerated or legal in the following countries (source cited - Rape Crisis Scotland):

  • Middle East/North Africa: Saudi Arabia, United Arab Emirates, Qatar, Oman, Bahrain, Kuwait, Yemen, Iraq, Syria, Jordan, Egypt, Lebanon.
  • Asia: India, Pakistan, Sri Lanka, Afghanistan.
  • Africa: South Sudan, Cote D'Ivoire, Gambia, Seychelles, Nigeria, Eritrea, Tanzania.

To be clear, this is not a ‘white’ thing as you claim I believe. It is a male thing, and it occurs with horrific regularity in countries where the culture encourages female subservience.

Marital rape is still not outlawed in India. Changing that would be ‘excessively harsh,’ government argues | CNN

Criminalizing marital rape would be “excessively harsh,” the Indian government has said, in a blow to campaigners ahead of a long-awaited Supreme Court decision that will affect hundreds of millions of people in India for generations.

https://www.cnn.com/2024/10/11/india/indian-government-marital-rape-intl-hnk

filofaxdouble · 24/04/2026 13:49

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:29

Champagne socialism vs hysterical juxtaposition 🤔.

I can not want to walk the streets of Kabul or Cairo AND accept I'm at great risk of being raped in London too. As the OP asks - I can acknowledge that evil men come in all colours, shapes and sizes and rapists will rape wherever you meet them - Kabul, Cairo and London.

You are NOT at equivalent risk.

You are NOT at an equivalent risk of being groped by passers by in London as you are in Cairo.

You are NOT at an equivalent risk of violent sexual assault in London as you are in Kabul.

The fact that there is risk in London does NOT make that risk the same as the risk somewhere else.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 13:42

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:32

This would be laughable, if not for the serious nature of the OP.

The question posed is not 'SHOULD WE IMPORT MORE RAPISTS'. It is, WHY IS THERE WIDESPREAD REPORTING OF FOREIGN RAPISTS, BUT NOT HOMEGROWN ONES'.

There is a lot to see here, actually.

Horrific crimes do get headlines, it’s usually more likely if it’s something that breaks public trust such as Sarah Everard. The public were outraged.

Netcurtainnelly · 24/04/2026 13:41

Helpboat · 23/04/2026 21:39

Those two white blokes who adopted a baby and raped him to death - not a single eyelid batted.

Epsom - not even any evidence of a crime yet the pitchforks were out.

White disgusting men getting away with the worst. Tale as old as time.

of course ppl batted eyelids about the men. Crazy thing to say that they didn't.

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:39

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:36

I just outlined your position, so…

I'll find a 5 year old to interpret this line and come back to you 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Netcurtainnelly · 24/04/2026 13:39

we know we have criminals of our own but it's not rocket science to understand that we don't want even more problems with men coming in on boats .
Why would you want to something?

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:39

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:36

I just outlined your position, so…

No, you didn’t. She didn’t say that at all.

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:37

MyPeppyCyanFinch · 24/04/2026 13:31

There really aren't white British grooming 'gangs' raping on the scale that the Asian and other non- white British gangs have been.

There are thousands upon thousands of white British rapists but not in a co-ordinated way like the Asian and other non-white British grooming gangs have been.

And definitely not any using white British culture or religion to rape. Which is what all of the Asian and other non-white British grooming gangs have all done. They used their Religion and culture to groom and rape white British girls.

The Home Office report actually says there is limited evidence but there are more white grooming gangs. They fly under the radar better.

Having said that there does need to be a clear and effective strategy to understand and target grooming gangs. All women want that.

And definitely not any using white British culture or religion to rape. Which is what all of the Asian and other non-white British grooming gangs have all done. They used their Religion and culture to groom and rape white British girls.

The rapists used cigarettes and food and drugs to groom the girls. They then demanded ‘favours’ as recompense for these things. This is a classic grooming tactic, religion doesn’t teach you to do that.

How do you think white abusers groom victims?

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:36

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:32

This would be laughable, if not for the serious nature of the OP.

The question posed is not 'SHOULD WE IMPORT MORE RAPISTS'. It is, WHY IS THERE WIDESPREAD REPORTING OF FOREIGN RAPISTS, BUT NOT HOMEGROWN ONES'.

There is a lot to see here, actually.

I just outlined your position, so…

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:32

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:21

Some men here are rapey so what’s a few more? Nothing to see here, let’s not even bother having any kind is selection process as to who we allow to live here?

This would be laughable, if not for the serious nature of the OP.

The question posed is not 'SHOULD WE IMPORT MORE RAPISTS'. It is, WHY IS THERE WIDESPREAD REPORTING OF FOREIGN RAPISTS, BUT NOT HOMEGROWN ONES'.

There is a lot to see here, actually.

MyPeppyCyanFinch · 24/04/2026 13:31

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:07

Of course the grooming gangs have to be addressed, that’s a given.

But there are lots of posters who focus on them to the exclusion of any other rapes, therefore giving white rapists a free pass. Even on a thread about other rapists, the thread gets hijacked.

Those posters don’t care about the girls who are raped, they just use them for racial and political point scoring.

There really aren't white British grooming 'gangs' raping on the scale that the Asian and other non- white British gangs have been.

There are thousands upon thousands of white British rapists but not in a co-ordinated way like the Asian and other non-white British grooming gangs have been.

And definitely not any using white British culture or religion to rape. Which is what all of the Asian and other non-white British grooming gangs have all done. They used their Religion and culture to groom and rape white British girls.

Devonshiregal · 24/04/2026 13:31

AliceAbsolum · 23/04/2026 20:17

Agree. It boggles my mind people defend them. It must be sheer denial of the situation? Idk

Look at the % stats for Albanians arrested here. It is mind boggling.

OP consider a few things here:

firstly that there is a lot of focus on asylum seekers - for legitimate reasons - so therefore newspapers will jump on any story that involves asylum seekers. That might make the press shit stirring bastards who don’t care what they’re doing to society, and it definitely fans the flames of racism, but that is why you see it so much in the news. Same reason I could shoplift and no one would give a shit but if Meghan Markle nabbed a stick of gum from the local newsagent, her face would be plastered all over the 10 o’clock news.

secondly, many of the rapes committed by British men here (of any ethnic background) are likely to be of women linked to them. So they might take place somewhere they’re not likely to get caught of have witnesses, and they may be far less likely to be reported.

thirdly, someone speaking a different language when the rape happens is easier to identify - it’s quite a particular detail. And if there’s been trouble around an area where lots of these men are staying, the police will be aware of them - it’s not like just one rogue man does one crime, there is a huge amount of crime related to these large groups of asylum seekers.

fourth, you’re not wrong that there’s a conspiracy going on around the treatment of these people - but I’d urge you to consider it in a different light. Many asylum seekers have been victims, and the government is well aware/involved to varying degrees in this. So it helps them and criminals involved to have attention diverted from their crimes if everyone is busy looking at the asylum seekers as monsters. That isn’t straight forward racism. That’s money making. People trafficking. it’s a lot deeper than tommy Robinson’s lot not liking someone because they’re a different skin tone to them. go look into the Hove asylum seeker kidnappings. in fact everyone should because it is outrageous.

Paganpentacle · 24/04/2026 13:30

AliceAbsolum · 23/04/2026 20:01

Why are you so keen to deny the reality of the situation? These men come from places where women are property.

This. Attitudes which are incompatible with our way of life.
Yes... we have our own home-grown rapists- cannot be denied.
Do we need to import any more?

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:29

filofaxdouble · 24/04/2026 12:56

Yes we are. Of course we are! What a silly fantasist statement!

Would you rather walk through a square in Cairo, Kabul or London?

You may be privileged enough to claim that it’s just as bad here as any of these other countries knowing that you will never have to go there and actually experience it but that doesn’t make any of it true. Lots of bad things happening here doesn’t make it just as bad or equivalent to somewhere else.

This is the new champagne socialism.

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Champagne socialism vs hysterical juxtaposition 🤔.

I can not want to walk the streets of Kabul or Cairo AND accept I'm at great risk of being raped in London too. As the OP asks - I can acknowledge that evil men come in all colours, shapes and sizes and rapists will rape wherever you meet them - Kabul, Cairo and London.

LoveItaly · 24/04/2026 13:29

Traceysgoingtobelivid · 23/04/2026 23:15

Because we have enough of our own rapists and murderers without importing more.

Was going to write the exact same thing. I don’t understand the mentality of people thinking we need to bring more of this problem into the country.

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:23

Tesremos82 · 24/04/2026 13:13

Really!? I've seen plenty written about poor Preston Davey. Spoken to several people about it, and all find it horrific.

If JV was not a UK citizen, any normal person would question why he was in the country. It’s not really surprising that nobody is debating this man’s immigration status, and there has definitely been media coverage.

LetsBeWellBehaved · 24/04/2026 13:21

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 12:52

Literally! Just nonsensical really.

I'm an immigrant in this country and not any of the others, so it's quite obvious where I'd prefer to be.

Only the good Lord knows why recognising our men are as rapey as any other, means I don't want to be here.

Some men here are rapey so what’s a few more? Nothing to see here, let’s not even bother having any kind is selection process as to who we allow to live here?

Dweetfidilove · 24/04/2026 13:17

nomas · 24/04/2026 12:55

Exactly. There was an American woman who used to post here saying she was a better class of immigrant than other immigrants because she was a white American woman married to a white Englishman.

The sense of entitlement and hierarchy on these thread is unreal.

I'll try and find the thread, it was hilarious.

😂😂😂😂

Tesremos82 · 24/04/2026 13:13

Helpboat · 23/04/2026 21:39

Those two white blokes who adopted a baby and raped him to death - not a single eyelid batted.

Epsom - not even any evidence of a crime yet the pitchforks were out.

White disgusting men getting away with the worst. Tale as old as time.

Really!? I've seen plenty written about poor Preston Davey. Spoken to several people about it, and all find it horrific.

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:07

Meadowfinch · 24/04/2026 12:59

Perhaps that is because the grooming gangs have not been dealt with. I was an undergrad in South London in the 80s and it was happening then, yet Sadiq Khan still pretends it doesn't exist 40 years later.

When the govt and police actually deal with the issue, we can stop talking about it.

Of course the grooming gangs have to be addressed, that’s a given.

But there are lots of posters who focus on them to the exclusion of any other rapes, therefore giving white rapists a free pass. Even on a thread about other rapists, the thread gets hijacked.

Those posters don’t care about the girls who are raped, they just use them for racial and political point scoring.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 13:05

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:03

I’m guessing we both post on posts that are trending.

I don’t follow your posts any more than you follow mine. I have no idea where you’re from, I don’t tend to ask posters this.

People can engage with whoever they want, that’s how a forum works.

I don’t see the point in engaging further if you’re at the level of leaping on to usernames and insults. I’ll ignore your posts and see if you’ll do the same.

MyPeppyCyanFinch · 24/04/2026 13:05

I don't know what's complicated about why people may be more bothered about an asylum seeker or immigrant commiting rape.

Precisely because we have enough rapists to deal with that were born here.

An asylum seeker has already committed a criminal offence entering the UK illegally. To go on and commit rape while waiting for their asylum claim to be processed while we give them sanctuary from whatever they claim made them break our immigration laws to enter here, is outrageous

And if an immigrant has been given permission to live here it is because they have agreed to abide by our laws as part of the contract we have with them to let them live here.

If they then rape someone. It is outrageous.

It's not hard to see why people may be more outraged.

nomas · 24/04/2026 13:03

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 12:59

Since you seem to follow my posts it’s obvious I’m in the U.K.

On that note, go for it and engage with others. Enjoy.

I’m guessing we both post on posts that are trending.

I don’t follow your posts any more than you follow mine. I have no idea where you’re from, I don’t tend to ask posters this.

People can engage with whoever they want, that’s how a forum works.

EasternStandard · 24/04/2026 13:00

filofaxdouble · 24/04/2026 12:56

Yes we are. Of course we are! What a silly fantasist statement!

Would you rather walk through a square in Cairo, Kabul or London?

You may be privileged enough to claim that it’s just as bad here as any of these other countries knowing that you will never have to go there and actually experience it but that doesn’t make any of it true. Lots of bad things happening here doesn’t make it just as bad or equivalent to somewhere else.

This is the new champagne socialism.

Edited

Exactly. Such privilege and then to lose it when asked where they’d rather be.