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AIBU to think management and colleague are being unreasonable about my notice?

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Sam155320 · 23/04/2026 18:12

Gave in my notice today at work, Management ignoring me & close Work Colleague being very off with me as I didn’t tell her I was job searching & told Management first and according to her I was out of order for that 🤷‍♀️ so AIBU to think Management are being unreasonable & close work colleague who I work with is being more than unreasonable.

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Sam155320 · 23/04/2026 18:28

MysteryParcel · 23/04/2026 18:26

You have described your work colleague as “close” twice in your OP, do you mean close as in they just work alongside you or are you actually friends? Not going to lie, I’d be put out if someone I was close friends with at work did what you did and I’d question if we were even friends at all.

As for management, what do you mean ignoring you? Were they blanking you when you tried to talk to them or have they just not acknowledged your resignation / spoken about it with you? Those are two different things.

Either way, you’re leaving though so don’t give it too much headspace.

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Work alongside with Work Colleague we are not friends
Management not talking or making conversation like they normally would do - not greeting hello/bye

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MysteryParcel · 23/04/2026 18:26

You have described your work colleague as “close” twice in your OP, do you mean close as in they just work alongside you or are you actually friends? Not going to lie, I’d be put out if someone I was close friends with at work did what you did and I’d question if we were even friends at all.

As for management, what do you mean ignoring you? Were they blanking you when you tried to talk to them or have they just not acknowledged your resignation / spoken about it with you? Those are two different things.

Either way, you’re leaving though so don’t give it too much headspace.

OnlyMabelInTheBuilding · 23/04/2026 18:17

‘Thanks for all confirming I’ve made the right decision’

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 23/04/2026 18:13

That’s pathetic. Well done in escaping.

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