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To wonder why working class white boys do worse than any other ethnic group, and how we can change this?

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Carla786 · 22/04/2026 22:38

A lot of stuff I've read recently has argued the way school is set up disadvantages boys compared to girls. But this doesn't explain why white working class boys would perform worse than wc boys of other ethnicities.
Asian wc boys are more likely to have present fathers,,but black wc boys less likely than white boys (I think). So absent fathers I'm sure are part of the problem, but then maybe also black boys then have a protective factor that still boosts performance which white boys don't have? What could this be?

And how can white wc boys be helped? The question also remains why white wc girls are apparently less affected too : maybe I suppose tying in to school methods being more suited to the average girl?

https://www.spiked-online.com/2026/03/24/the-betrayal-of-white-working-class-boys/

The betrayal of white working-class boys

Anyone who still believes in white, male privilege should take a look at England’s school system.

https://www.spiked-online.com/2026/03/24/the-betrayal-of-white-working-class-boys/

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OneQuirkyPanda · 23/04/2026 11:17

Speaking from personal experience (as a white WC woman who over achieved with a brother who underachieved), I think the main reason is that education is not seen as important amongst most white WC males, they’ve heard their whole lives how their fathers, uncles, grandfathers etc had no qualifications, but had good jobs and supported families.

The main career option for them is usually to go into the trades (which is a lot less appealing for girls) where they can earn good money and can start off as labourers (not needing any qualifications). This is very common with the boys I went to school with and what almost all the men in my family have done.

There’s also the difference between the way boys and girls are raised, I was raised to be agreeable, compliant, conscientious, mature, independent, boys are typical infantilised and have excuses made for them, so they behave more poorly and are less conscientious and mature.

I don’t believe it is anything to do with schools apparently being more suited to girls, it’s that behavioural standards are much lower for boys, they have less respect for authority and do not value education because they have other career options that earn well which girls don’t have or are not appealing.

FernandoSor · 23/04/2026 11:14

Aluna · 23/04/2026 11:02

Traveller communities have a different cultural approach to education frequently ending school attendance at 14. This is the report on which the Spiked article is based:

https://www.centreforsocialjustice.org.uk/newsroom/white-working-class-boys-still-at-the-bottom-of-the-class-says-race-report-chief

I know. And this is accepted. However it seems that when white working class families also have a different cultural approach to education, this is a problem that must be 'fixed'.

Nitgel · 23/04/2026 11:09

Some kids disengage from an academic curriculum.early and struggle to catch up
A more technical curriculum would be better for some kids.

Unpaidviewer · 23/04/2026 11:05

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:59

That's not what I said. I didn't mention the army. I was talking about the German system and how much flexibility is built in, however, someone has answered that.

I never said you mentioned the army. I was using it as an example that learning doesn't have to stop at a certain age. If a child were put into a stream that didn't suit them after a year there is nothing to stop them from going on to complete further education.

anourishingsoup · 23/04/2026 11:05

Hallamule · 23/04/2026 10:26

The idea that "valuing education " = degree level education is part of the problem here, no? It excludes half of young people straight away.

0-3 years is so formative, education has already started and there will already be stark differences between parenting

Tuiy · 23/04/2026 11:04

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 23/04/2026 10:58

I challenge you to find anyone in this thread who has said "white kids are lazy and naughty and all ethnic kids are studious hard workers" or anything close to that.

Ah because this thread is the only place this topic has ever been discussed ….

Aluna · 23/04/2026 11:02

FernandoSor · 23/04/2026 10:51

A slight correction to your title OP, Gypsy and Roma are actually the ethnic group with the worst educational outcomes, followed by Irish travellers, both by quite some considerable margin. Traveller girls do marginally better than boys, but not by much.

Source: https://www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/education-skills-and-training/11-to-16-years-old/gcse-results-attainment-8-for-children-aged-14-to-16-key-stage-4/latest/#by-ethnicity

Traveller communities have a different cultural approach to education frequently ending school attendance at 14. This is the report on which the Spiked article is based:

https://www.centreforsocialjustice.org.uk/newsroom/white-working-class-boys-still-at-the-bottom-of-the-class-says-race-report-chief

anourishingsoup · 23/04/2026 11:02

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:10

This ⬆️. Cultural capital. Giving your child music lessons, taking them to museums and art galleries, the sights of different cities etc. leads to better outcomes.

I don't think it's the actual cultural capital per se that leads to better outcomes. The children who have cultural capital reserves from an early age are generally speaking from engaged, financially solvent, stable families who value these activities. This cultural capital is important further down the line when in the world of work. Many BAME children are high achievers but are lacking this cultural capital (although they certainly have their own forms of cultural capital), which is why there are measures to level up.

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:59

Unpaidviewer · 23/04/2026 10:58

My husband left school at 16 with no GCSEs, he now has a degree. He joined the army and did every qualification offered to him. If a child gets to 16 and has a functional skills style qualification and some trade knowledge, why that would prevent them from going on to study after this point?

That's not what I said. I didn't mention the army. I was talking about the German system and how much flexibility is built in, however, someone has answered that.

Unpaidviewer · 23/04/2026 10:58

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:33

So you sort them out at 14? You'd need to build in a lot of flexibility to allow for those who caught up later on.

My husband left school at 16 with no GCSEs, he now has a degree. He joined the army and did every qualification offered to him. If a child gets to 16 and has a functional skills style qualification and some trade knowledge, why that would prevent them from going on to study after this point?

GasperyJacquesRoberts · 23/04/2026 10:58

Tuiy · 23/04/2026 10:23

This is always what is said in these discussions, anything else wouldn’t be pc would it.

Not many people know these studies use free school meals eligibility as the definition of working class. That’s an income under £7,400. A small minority of families who will have reasons they earn so little that affect the child’s ability to study. Being a carer for a disabled parent for example.
It’s not the millions of sons of plumbers and builders we picture when we hear “working class”

Anyway I challenge anyone who believes white kids are lazy and naughty and all ethnic kids are studious hard workers with good parents to spend a week in a school in inner city London.

I challenge you to find anyone in this thread who has said "white kids are lazy and naughty and all ethnic kids are studious hard workers" or anything close to that.

Aluna · 23/04/2026 10:58

Hallamule · 23/04/2026 10:44

In the German system there's plenty of flexibility in a sense. But being in the Apprenticeship stream isn't lesser, it isn't something you can or need to escape from in order to do well, it just provides a different route for doing well. So, for example, my cousin was severely dyslexic and hated school. He started the apprenticeship route, working for one of the big supermarket chains on the shop floor but with (compulsory) day release to college to learn about retail and business. He was quite good at his job and the college model suited him better so he later started courses in management and worked his way up and today manages an IKEA store. He wasn't condemned to spend the rest off his life stacking shelves but, equally, shelf stacking is considered a respectable job that one can take pride in and that requires training. An uncle of mine worked his way up from junior draftsman to architect in the same way (that was a long time ago though).

The German system of gymnasiums and technical schools seems to work far better than ours and they have much lower rate of youth unemployment.

The technical schools are extremely effective at teaching trades, skills and offering apprenticeships from 15 yrs onward - whereby students are working part time at school a part time on the job.

Lifeomars · 23/04/2026 10:56

Dweetfidilove · 23/04/2026 00:37

I came across a video of Nicola Thorpe chatting with two young lads at a rally and thought - they really don't stand a chance. They were marching because they're bored and would otherwise be in their bedrooms doing nothing, because everyone gets free stuff except them... and they were fully supported by their parents and grandparents.
It was so sad to see, because they seem like affable enough young men; but completely without direction and purpose.

I saw that video, it was sad, they were basically pleasant, friendly young men who weren't really into what the rally was about but it will give them a sense of belonging and there is a fair chance that will lead to them getting more deeply involved.

FernandoSor · 23/04/2026 10:51

A slight correction to your title OP, Gypsy and Roma are actually the ethnic group with the worst educational outcomes, followed by Irish travellers, both by quite some considerable margin. Traveller girls do marginally better than boys, but not by much.

Source: https://www.ethnicity-facts-figures.service.gov.uk/education-skills-and-training/11-to-16-years-old/gcse-results-attainment-8-for-children-aged-14-to-16-key-stage-4/latest/#by-ethnicity

Agrumpyknitter · 23/04/2026 10:51

DontKillSteve · 22/04/2026 23:27

Lack of aspiration is often deeply entrenched. You’ll have generations who haven’t valued education or been let down by it. The school system isn’t good at engaging the non academic. Boys more likely to muck around and derive a status from this and bunking off. I think girls are more likely to break out of the cycle because of earlier maturity. I say this as someone from a working class, impoverished background where everyone left education as soon as they reached the minimum age. White, working class schools are not great to be in.

I agree with this.

My parents were immigrants. My father came to the U.K. and went to university here so I wasn’t the first in my family to go to university.

I value education as does my husband and we’re born here, it’s drummed into our children to make the most of what is on offer and to try your best. My youngest has done her 11 plus exam last year and passed and will go onto a grammar school. She did one year of tuition. Her peers (white background) some didn’t pass because the parents wanted them to have a break from studying over the summer, and they missed out by 1 or 2 marks. And some of them studied for 2 years. We continued to study (1-2 hours a day) during the summer and passed over the threshold. It’s the attitude to learning that is often different.

I think when they’re little and have the ability, you push them to succeed. You can’t leave it up to your children to decide, faff around and then leave with mediocre results. I am not saying this is the way for everyone as everyone is different but it’s the thought process that a lot of people from ethnic backgrounds have. It’s also one of the reasons I wasn’t allowed to have a boyfriend at school as it would take the focus away from my studies.

People should do what they think is best for their kids, but the above is an insight to how most people like me think.

JudgeJ · 23/04/2026 10:50

I wasn’t good at maths either it runs in our family so don’t worry about it.”

A common comment and not totally class related, a Colonel's wife said it to me, a Maths teacher, when her son was struggling. Strangely I never heard it said about reading, that seemed to be the Holy Grail of learning!
On the original subject, I retired, early, 20 years ago and the situation regarding white working class boys was starting to be discussed before then so it's not new. We had 'initiatives' to support girls in general, 'looked after' children ie in care or foster homes, the very least able through Special Needs as it was called then and the most able Gifted and Talented, none of which supported the working class boys of average or slightly below average ability
Before that job I taught in a very diverse school in the Bradford area and one thing we were told was not not say anything negative about the attainment of the black children as it had been known to create problems for them at home, the expectations were very high.

Lampzade · 23/04/2026 10:49

I don’t think that anyone is saying that all white working class kids are lazy and that all ethnic kids are studious and hardworking
Op asked why white working class boys generally do worse than other ethnic groups and posters are simply giving some of the reasons which includes some personal anecdotes
My dds attended a grammar school in Kent and a third of the pupils were from ethnic minorities many of them travelled from inner London

FortyDegreeDay · 23/04/2026 10:48

Socioeconomic background is the biggest determination of outcomes in the UK. The UK has a huge inequality of achievement based on class but there is absolutely no appetite from any government to solve the class, and therefore opportunity, gap.

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:47

Hallamule · 23/04/2026 10:44

In the German system there's plenty of flexibility in a sense. But being in the Apprenticeship stream isn't lesser, it isn't something you can or need to escape from in order to do well, it just provides a different route for doing well. So, for example, my cousin was severely dyslexic and hated school. He started the apprenticeship route, working for one of the big supermarket chains on the shop floor but with (compulsory) day release to college to learn about retail and business. He was quite good at his job and the college model suited him better so he later started courses in management and worked his way up and today manages an IKEA store. He wasn't condemned to spend the rest off his life stacking shelves but, equally, shelf stacking is considered a respectable job that one can take pride in and that requires training. An uncle of mine worked his way up from junior draftsman to architect in the same way (that was a long time ago though).

Thanks. I know of the Swedish system, which has quite good built in flexibility.
I think because of the negatives of the binary grammar/secondary modern of old, it would take a massive change to institute that here.

Hallamule · 23/04/2026 10:44

DelectableMe · 23/04/2026 10:33

So you sort them out at 14? You'd need to build in a lot of flexibility to allow for those who caught up later on.

In the German system there's plenty of flexibility in a sense. But being in the Apprenticeship stream isn't lesser, it isn't something you can or need to escape from in order to do well, it just provides a different route for doing well. So, for example, my cousin was severely dyslexic and hated school. He started the apprenticeship route, working for one of the big supermarket chains on the shop floor but with (compulsory) day release to college to learn about retail and business. He was quite good at his job and the college model suited him better so he later started courses in management and worked his way up and today manages an IKEA store. He wasn't condemned to spend the rest off his life stacking shelves but, equally, shelf stacking is considered a respectable job that one can take pride in and that requires training. An uncle of mine worked his way up from junior draftsman to architect in the same way (that was a long time ago though).

CostadiMar · 23/04/2026 10:40

The first post nails it really.
I live near London, all our near-by grammars and independent schools are 70-90% filled by middle class Asian children who have been tutored since nappies which is very common e.g. in India. When my children in my 90% white small village school with 20% of children on free school meals tell their colleagues that they have aspirations to go to the university, they hear 'why do you bother, my dad never did A-levels and is doing fine' (working part-time cash-in-hand and claiming benefits...).

CraftyNavySeal · 23/04/2026 10:39

TheyGrewUp · 23/04/2026 09:57

When was the last time anyone on the thread heard a school teacher say "plumbing/carpentry/motor mechanic/hairdresser/beauty, are brilliant trades to get into and will make you a small businessperson. It's important to grasp the literacy and numeracy foundations, so you can write your estimates, chase your bad payers and keep your accounts".

Educationalists in the UK need a hard reality check. Not everyone learns for the love of learning or find joy in Jane Austin or a quadratic equation, but it would be helpful to support more people to earn enough to make a living and instill a better work ethic.

Quite. I would love to see a similar thread on the shocking lack of construction skills in middle class boys.

Z0rr0 · 23/04/2026 10:38

Although working class white boys have poor educational outcomes, they often have better life outcomes than their peers. Asian girls might perform high in school but often still expected to marry and become home makers. Black boys might perform slightly above white peers in school but generally have worse life outcomes.

LarryUnderwood · 23/04/2026 10:37

Unpaidviewer · 23/04/2026 10:31

Interesting question. I grew up on a large council estate and I believe its the culture. My own mother sneered at me for reading and wanting to go to uni. Apparently I thought I was better than them, would be wasting my time and uni wasnt for people like us.

Pretty much everyone with an education left my home town. There's nothing work wise for you there. So kids don't see how different life can be if you do well. It's not like Steven from down the road gets a degree and then a decent job, then everyone sees he has a nice car and foreign holidays each year. It's Steven thought he was better than us and fucked off to a different city.

Most of the popular kids growing up were too cool for school, taking drugs, out partying. Trying was seen as lame. School was hard, most lessons were disrupted, its hard to be the boring one who wants to focus.

I don't really know what a feasible solution is. The only thing that I could see working would be to completely change the education system. Possibly more like they do things in Germany. Once children get to 14 you could split them into academic and vocational education.

Yep, this. My experience was very similar. I know that grammars were divisive and secondary moderns failed people, but for parents like mine (especially my dad, who grew up in south London in abject poverty) they were an absolute lifeline. Class is so ignored here and yet so influential. We need to find ways to work with, and change, the system we're in instead of pretending it doesn't exist.

ChachiChichi · 23/04/2026 10:34

@Hallamule Essentially the components of cultural capital (Boudieu, 1986)along with social capital, symbolic capital.