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To wonder why working class white boys do worse than any other ethnic group, and how we can change this?

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Carla786 · 22/04/2026 22:38

A lot of stuff I've read recently has argued the way school is set up disadvantages boys compared to girls. But this doesn't explain why white working class boys would perform worse than wc boys of other ethnicities.
Asian wc boys are more likely to have present fathers,,but black wc boys less likely than white boys (I think). So absent fathers I'm sure are part of the problem, but then maybe also black boys then have a protective factor that still boosts performance which white boys don't have? What could this be?

And how can white wc boys be helped? The question also remains why white wc girls are apparently less affected too : maybe I suppose tying in to school methods being more suited to the average girl?

https://www.spiked-online.com/2026/03/24/the-betrayal-of-white-working-class-boys/

The betrayal of white working-class boys

Anyone who still believes in white, male privilege should take a look at England’s school system.

https://www.spiked-online.com/2026/03/24/the-betrayal-of-white-working-class-boys/

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CotswoldsCamilla · 23/04/2026 00:44

PickAChew · 23/04/2026 00:27

When white boys have parents who hated school and distrust authority figures and all their wider social contacts are the same then there is nothing to help them break that cycle unless they are very self motivated.

Does that explain why white WC boys underperform the black Caribbean boys though? 63% black Caribbean boys grow up in a lone parent household vs only 22% of white boys (admittedly I’m citing data from 2021). That would indicate to me dictate that BC WC boys should underperform. Would be interested to see the stats for the 2 groups in London alone, since WWC boys have access to the same resources as BCWC boys in London and large cities, where resources tend to be diverted.
I don’t see any governments throwing money at Blackpool. In fact I read a worrying article recently where more and more children are opting for home schooling in places like Blackpool, and homeschooling in this country is scandalously under regulated.

Dweetfidilove · 23/04/2026 00:37

Brightonkebab · 22/04/2026 22:59

When people have been raised to have no ambitions, no aspirations but blame everyone for their short comings. That’s what you get.

I came across a video of Nicola Thorpe chatting with two young lads at a rally and thought - they really don't stand a chance. They were marching because they're bored and would otherwise be in their bedrooms doing nothing, because everyone gets free stuff except them... and they were fully supported by their parents and grandparents.
It was so sad to see, because they seem like affable enough young men; but completely without direction and purpose.

JemimaTiggywinkles · 23/04/2026 00:29

Partly home issues, partly school ones. The one constant is lack of investment.

The vast majority of parents really love their kids. However, some of them simply don’t have the time or energy to insist (for eg) that kids do homework. Some see zero point in school work so don’t encourage working hard in school. Many parents work in low paying jobs so struggle to ensure kids come to school having eaten nutritious food and many kids lack extras (such as having a car to get to a football training session) and therefore don’t exercise.

Then there’s schools. In these areas they don’t have the money to attract decent teachers. Who the heck is going to choose to teach a class of 30 where there’s 2 with social workers cos their home life is really not okay, 4 with emotional / MH issues, 3 with significant behaviour issues and probably another 3 with undiagnosed SEN? With no additional pay for being in a tough school, but more abuse (cos the kids are dysregulated) and being hammered by ofsted?

When there’s a child who cannot cope in mainstream school and they need alternative provision the school get financially penalised. The grammar school I taught in paid for AP not even once in 5 years. Current (northern, disadvantaged, mostly white working class) has more than one kid in every year group in AP. And it’s not cos I magically became a shit teacher when I started work here. Keeping children who cannot cope with a classroom in a mainstream setting has a hugely negative effect on that child, their family and their classmates. It is wrong and unfair that there is insufficient access to suitable school for kids who can’t cope.

Why is this affecting girls more than boys? I think it is puberty. By the end of year 10 lots have girls are more mature and are taking school seriously. But (on average) for boys the change happens later. Biology is a bitch sometimes. Then there’s the usual social issues of boys being less compliant (cos “boys will be boys, innit”) and a significant lack of fathers (which I expect affects boys more than girls cos role models are very important).

Sorry, that was long! TLDR: some people are proper skint and the public sector needs more money.

Carla786 · 23/04/2026 00:28

JLou08 · 23/04/2026 00:26

I think the fact that the disadvantage of being working class is massively underplayed will be a part of it. We know women/girls experience oppression and we know ethnic minority groups do so policies are in place to promote equality. What the government and society in general have no interest in is white boys/men because they are seen as the most privileged, which they are, IF they are not middle/upper class. Working class girls/ethnic minorities do worse than their middle class counterparts.

Yes, Radio 4 showed working class white girls are not far ahead of working class white boys.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002tzqm

File on 4 Investigates - Are white working class girls falling behind? - BBC Sounds

When it comes to school attendance and attainment are some girls falling behind?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/m002tzqm

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PickAChew · 23/04/2026 00:27

Ellanory · 22/04/2026 23:45

This thread is interesting. So when black boys fail, it's because of racism and trauma. When white boys fail, it's the parents.

When white boys have parents who hated school and distrust authority figures and all their wider social contacts are the same then there is nothing to help them break that cycle unless they are very self motivated.

JLou08 · 23/04/2026 00:26

I think the fact that the disadvantage of being working class is massively underplayed will be a part of it. We know women/girls experience oppression and we know ethnic minority groups do so policies are in place to promote equality. What the government and society in general have no interest in is white boys/men because they are seen as the most privileged, which they are, IF they are not middle/upper class. Working class girls/ethnic minorities do worse than their middle class counterparts.

Carla786 · 23/04/2026 00:20

Cheesipuff · 23/04/2026 00:15

Putting money into education and sport facilities would make such a difference.

Yes, this must be done.

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Cheesipuff · 23/04/2026 00:15

Carla786 · 23/04/2026 00:09

Yes. It's the same system in several ways which left the Rotherham & Rochdale girls so vulnerable. Giving people in these areas tools to create a better life needs to be a national priority. It's disgusting that politicians allowed things to get so bad.

Putting money into education and sport facilities would make such a difference.

Cheesipuff · 23/04/2026 00:13

PM radio4 programme was featuring Wales this week - it was so depressing -the list of companies which have moved abroad from one region and nothing coming to replace them. Over decades.

Carla786 · 23/04/2026 00:09

Pieceofpurplesky · 23/04/2026 00:07

I teach in a school in a pretty poor area with 50% FSM. Asian kids on the whole are the hardest working.

A huge majority of white kids have no aspiration and very little support from home. A lot of the white boys are misogynistic, racist and lack any respect for authority. A lot of parents are unemployed, lack an education and drink/take drugs. My year 11 class is a bottom set and they don't really want to go to college, a couple are involved in county lines and some have part time manual jobs that will become full time minimum wage jobs.
Poverty and lack of jobs in an old
industrial town have had a generational impact.

Yes. It's the same system in several ways which left the Rotherham & Rochdale girls so vulnerable. Giving people in these areas tools to create a better life needs to be a national priority. It's disgusting that politicians allowed things to get so bad.

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Pieceofpurplesky · 23/04/2026 00:07

I teach in a school in a pretty poor area with 50% FSM. Asian kids on the whole are the hardest working.

A huge majority of white kids have no aspiration and very little support from home. A lot of the white boys are misogynistic, racist and lack any respect for authority. A lot of parents are unemployed, lack an education and drink/take drugs. My year 11 class is a bottom set and they don't really want to go to college, a couple are involved in county lines and some have part time manual jobs that will become full time minimum wage jobs.
Poverty and lack of jobs in an old
industrial town have had a generational impact.

Carla786 · 23/04/2026 00:06

MarthaBeach · 22/04/2026 23:57

I've noticed that there are quite a lot of relatively recent affluent middle class immigrants from African countries like Nigeria. Just think about the African names of black British film and TV stars. So they're going to have social and economic advantages over more working class black Caribbean people.

Yes, I've also been reading a lot of Chimamanda Ngozie Adichie lately & her books like Americanah & Dream Count are about exactly these kinds of Nigerian immigrants (though mostly in US not UK)

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 23/04/2026 00:02

Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:53

I'd always thought Carribean families tended to be quite religious? Or is that not correct?
Agree re the need for strong cultural standards, religious ones can also be helpful

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Well, they may go to mosque on a Friday or church on a Sunday all dressed up, but are they actually religious day to day? Does their family pray everyday, read religious texts, fast, take part in ceremonies, is sex before marriage frowned upon, is leaving a spouse and children frowned upon etc? The answer is usually no, just like white working class boys.

DavesGirl90 · 23/04/2026 00:01

Ellanory · 22/04/2026 23:45

This thread is interesting. So when black boys fail, it's because of racism and trauma. When white boys fail, it's the parents.

This is such a simplistic and uncharitable reading of this discussion.

I don’t think anyone sensible would deny that in both cases there are very strong cultural factors influencing outcomes (so, yes, that includes the parents and the wider community).

MarthaBeach · 22/04/2026 23:57

Nightmanagerfan · 22/04/2026 23:08

There’s a big difference between outcomes among black groups. Black Africans do better than black Caribbean for example.

I've noticed that there are quite a lot of relatively recent affluent middle class immigrants from African countries like Nigeria. Just think about the African names of black British film and TV stars. So they're going to have social and economic advantages over more working class black Caribbean people.

Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:53

BuffetTheDietSlayer · 22/04/2026 23:51

White working class and black Caribbean heritage boys both lack strong religious and cultural standards of expectations and behaviour. This does have a negative impact on education and achievement.

I'd always thought Carribean families tended to be quite religious? Or is that not correct?
Agree re the need for strong cultural standards, religious ones can also be helpful

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Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:51

Justaminuteplease · 22/04/2026 23:40

Very few kids would succeed if (a bog standard) school was their only education. Parents need to compliment that teaching at home, tutoring their kids after work, helping with homework, filling in gaps. For that to happen they need to value education enough to make their kids see it as non negotiable, and enough for parents to sacrifice their limited free time to it. Coming from an asian background, my first generation parents did this with me, and in turn I do it with my kids. My grandparents pride and joy was their wall full of their kids and grandkids graduation photos. Many families of colour do this by default - education is king.

This definitely

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BuffetTheDietSlayer · 22/04/2026 23:51

White working class and black Caribbean heritage boys both lack strong religious and cultural standards of expectations and behaviour. This does have a negative impact on education and achievement.

Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:48

Ellanory · 22/04/2026 23:45

This thread is interesting. So when black boys fail, it's because of racism and trauma. When white boys fail, it's the parents.

Well I've noted myself that absent fathers are a problem for more black boys than white boys.

Parental attitudes to education are probably an issue for both, but as pp said, educational funding for London probably offsets it.

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Ellanory · 22/04/2026 23:45

This thread is interesting. So when black boys fail, it's because of racism and trauma. When white boys fail, it's the parents.

Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:45

LikeGolddust · 22/04/2026 23:39

Apparently there is a strong tie to geography.

Children from poor ethnic backgrounds tend to live in the south, in big cities which have huge resources and programs in place targeting this.

Poor working class white boys disproportionately come from the north, and smaller towns. Towns that have been decimated by de industrialisation.

Not only have traditional family units been destroyed but all structures and organisations with strong male role models that once could help guide boys through to successful manhood have also fallen. ie Local sports teams, scouts, church groups, teaching staff now predominantly women etcetera.
And unlike big cities there are few resources to target and ameliorate the impact of this societal poverty.

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That explains a lot, the tie to geography. Inner city wc kids clearly do have a lot of issues to contend with but there is more investment.
Why did men stop wanting to be teachers? Scouts : aside from the abuse scandals, it turned mixed because not enough boys wanted to go. Why? And how can these things be changed?

I agree re role of secularisation meaning less church things. SureStart going didn't help.

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Carla786 · 22/04/2026 23:41

OnceUponATimed · 22/04/2026 23:26

People coming from the Caribbean suffered multi generational trauma, years of rape torture and abuse. Families ripped apart. Poor education for generations. Low expectations and racism. Passage to England was paid for and open to many.
From African countries many of the migrants are educated and place education high on the agenda. Exceeding at school is expected. Getting here was difficult and required a more complicated route and hence determination.

I know people in the Carribean suffered terribly during the slave trade and racism was strong in the years after.
Otoh slavery was banned in 1834. So people coming in 1948 or later would have been born probably a century or nearly that afterwards. Otoh we don't know how much trauma can continue over generations,,and obviously racism continued after slavery ended.

I read the Indo-Trinidadian Sam Selvon's 1956 book The Lonely Londoners recently. It showed a lot of the men being stuck in unstable jobs, partly due to discrimination, and marriages suffering as a result. Women may have been able to get stabler jobs (eg. In NHS) and this I suppose could have at least partly led some boys & men to de-emphasise work?

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Justaminuteplease · 22/04/2026 23:40

Very few kids would succeed if (a bog standard) school was their only education. Parents need to compliment that teaching at home, tutoring their kids after work, helping with homework, filling in gaps. For that to happen they need to value education enough to make their kids see it as non negotiable, and enough for parents to sacrifice their limited free time to it. Coming from an asian background, my first generation parents did this with me, and in turn I do it with my kids. My grandparents pride and joy was their wall full of their kids and grandkids graduation photos. Many families of colour do this by default - education is king.

LikeGolddust · 22/04/2026 23:39

Apparently there is a strong tie to geography.

Children from poor ethnic backgrounds tend to live in the south, in big cities which have huge resources and programs in place targeting this.

Poor working class white boys disproportionately come from the north, and smaller towns. Towns that have been decimated by de industrialisation.

Not only have traditional family units been destroyed but all structures and organisations with strong male role models that once could help guide boys through to successful manhood have also fallen. ie Local sports teams, scouts, church groups, teaching staff now predominantly women etcetera.
And unlike big cities there are few resources to target and ameliorate the impact of this societal poverty.