AIBU to feel annoyed by my mum tracking my schedule?

Sounds like she is just making conversation, you sound quite paranoid if you think these are odd. Mums can’t win, if we don’t show interest then we are distant, show some interest and it’s suffocating???

Based on what you’ve said op I’d say YABU.
The examples you gave aren’t her tracking your schedule, she just knows what you routinely. It’s doesn’t sound anything out of the ordinary

This is bad. How can you trust if you’re ever speaking to your Dad or Sis, or just being misled and spied upon? Your M sounds unhinged, her behaviour is not okay.

So true, mine doesn’t remember what my job is and sometimes forgets my birthday, but if she finds out a detail of my routine she’ll bring it up relentlessly.

I get it OP. I have this too. It is endless. What is even more annoying is that the things I ask or tell her my DM that she actually needs to be aware of, she forgets or claims I never mentioned them 😆

OP, you will get loads of replies telling you this is just normal conversation, which it is in some contexts - but you have said your mum has a history of not respecting boundaries, so it's understandable you feel suffocated. These kind of interactions can feel massively different in different circumstances. Focus on setting and keeping boundaries with your mum - it can be hard to change your habits and feelings of obligation but it gets easier and helps massively in the longer run

Oh dear @sweetpotatopies . DD and I exchange about ten messages a day. She's at a class in central London right now. No idea how she'll get home with the tube strikes! She'll keep me informed. She's 27. Soumds normal to me.

As you say she crosses boundaries, I imagine you might have her on an information diet to protect yourself. And when she shows you she has information about you, you feel unsafe. That’s not because of the information or these circumstances, it’s because of how she behaves.
My mother is similar (she often messages from my dad’s or sister’s phone (taken when they aren’t looking) to see what she can get me to ‘tell’ her pretending to be them.
If she can’t get any information she sends a screenshot of the weather forecast for my town or local headlines. It’s slightly intimidating in a powerless odd old lady way.

I assume the history / back story involves a lot more than this. Because the things you mention here are just normal conversation.

I sort of understand how you feel but also it’s nice to know someone it looking out for you. Depends on your relationship but it can be a good thing. We mums (mostly) bloody love you children. Wait till you have your own. Xx

Maybe she’s trying to show she cares by mentioning activities you are involved in. Sounds quite normal in itself but there might be more to the situation, making you feel less comfortable.

I really don't understand why you think this is odd behaviour. I go to Circuit Training on Tuesday evenings, so if I messaged or rang my mum between 6.30 and 8.30pm on a Tuesday she would ask if I was injured or if there was some reason why I wasn't at class.

My adult son lives in a different city. He works alternate Saturdays. I vaguely track in my head which are his working Saturdays so that I don't phone him then.

It's not weird. It's being part of a family.

She's not tracking your schedule. She knows your routine and is mentioning it in passing.

sorry OP but you sound like the weird one here. This is entirely normal conversation

I like when my Mum takes an interest in what I’m doing

I do get this OP. On their own, these are quite standard comments but if part of a bigger issue, which you allude to, then of course YANBU.

Christ sounds like normal convo to me 🤷🏼‍♀️