What’s the worst thing you’ve ever done?

I had a short affair with a married man who I was good mates with at work, I was actually in love with him, his wife was not in the country & i knew he’d had other affairs. But in all conscience i couldn’t stop thinking about his wife so i stopped it.
Anyway, his wife moved here & they had another child, he’s still a Facebook friend but lives elsewhere in the UK.

But thats not the shittiest thing I’ve done that i really regret. There are a couple of things I can’t even talk about really but I deserve bad karma.

Yeah I think it’s quite telling that the worst thing OP can think of is that she didn’t handle a bullying situation as well as she might have.

OP, you’re not perfect, and that’s ok 💐

geez I though you were going to say you got her fired not yourself 😂

Marvellous.

Well, I also surprised my awful grandmother with a loud "Goodnight, Granny!", deliberately making her jump.

She died 10 days later.

So that was pretty bad. Sorry not sorry, she made our lives a misery.

When it comes to a lot of things I’m very much an advocate of not judging things from the by the standards of today…so really if you lacked that moral guidance in the past something you did then is arguably ok.

I put fish in parsley sauce, mashed potato and peas into DH’s posh shoes.

Probably not the worst thing, but it was memorable.

Ok, off to name change...

I see your 2 men and raise you one man and one woman (separately) on the same day. I wish that was the worst thing I'd done in my life...

I think that's a very intelligent thing to have done! Although shouldn't have been necessary...

Definitely not a worse!

Then that would become the worst thing you've ever done 😁

I had a neighbour who slammed his front door. I jumped out of my skin every time. They are heavy fire doors and really loud. Sometimes the vibration ran across my floor.

I made numerous complaints to the management company but he didn't give a shit. Lockdown was awful, he was home all day and never went back to work. One day after 22 (yes 22 not a typo) slams I lost my shit.

I bought a huge pair of trainers in a charity shop so they looked worn. I put them outside my door. Suddenly he could close the door properly. Funny that....

It's a shame it took a threat of violence from the man who fits into those huge trainers to behave decently.

Washed a managers cup regularly with flushed toilet water(I was 17)
Took amphetamine 20 + years and only damaged myself mentally ..akin to torture and paid to get like that.

I've driven away after reversing into someone's car in a car park, knowing I'd damaged their car. I did get caught on cctv, so there was karma for them.

I slept with two men on one day. On two separate occasions, four guys in total, as it were.

I have been with my Husband, since I was 19, now 45 and I have a really good marriage.

In my 20s when I was pregnant, and a bit psychotic! We had a great big row and I dipped his toothbrush in the toilet! He is a right germophobe and even though I didn’t tell him at the time I was hugely smug with myself!

I did confess a few years ago, and he was absolutely horrified!! I don’t regret it though, I think it’s absolutely hilarious. My younger adult children looked at me like I was absolutely insane at the confession time.

I ghosted a friend. I can’t really explain why. It was an absolutely awful thing to do; she needed me.

A lot of cheating in my late teens/early twenties, still have guilty dreams about one of them even though it’s all 25+ years ago!

Aged 16 lied about having a terminal illness. Took it too far. Hurt a lot of people. I was being abused by someone who told me nobody would miss me if I died and stupidly I wanted to test the theory out without obviously dying and in my immature mind it was the only way. It was awful and I got in severe trouble

I had a horrible housemate. He had this mug that only he was allowed to use. I dipped it in the toilet, let it air dry and put it back in his cupboard. I’m my defense he was an awful person.

That sounds very reasonable considering what she did to you. I think you should try harder if you want to be shocking.

Worst things I've done is kissed someone else whilst working away in a relationship. Shop lifting as a teenager, got caught, was mortified and embarrassed, didn't tell anyone fit years including partner of nearly twenty years.

Lost my temper with my children, shouted at them and shook my daughters bed telling her to shut up and go to sleep (felt scared of how angry I was, single parent so I couldn't go for a walk etc)

Didn’t spot when our guinea pig had a medical problem and needed to be put to sleep.

Said something really awful to an ex boyfriend in public as he was really winding me up - I have actually apologised to him a few years back (well I know - 2.5 years to be precise) when I saw him at an event. He didn’t even remember it! Broadly he was the one who behaved badly in the relationship but I shouldn’t have said what I said.