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AIBU to feel guilty for not stopping a crow?

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AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 09:38

Just seen a crow attacking a black bird nest down our driveway, all the black birds where dive bombing it and it didn’t care, it managed to pull a baby bird out of the nest, crow and baby fell onto driveway and crow was them divebombed by around 7 blackbirds 😱 it was throwing the baby around in the air, it was awful. I stopped watching but I’m assuming it got away with the baby. Now I feel guilty - I could have gone out and stopped it but I didn’t - it’s nature isn’t it 😞 would you have intervened?

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TorroFerney · 20/04/2026 15:51

Alwaysoneoddsock · 20/04/2026 10:37

Be careful with crows. There was a poster on here once who felt a crow was after her and she never came back. I often wonder what happened to her 😱🤣

ETA my post was light hearted but I did once see a bird die and it’s not nice to see at all, so I am sending a virtual arm pat.

Edited

Was just going to say that. You do not mess with crows, they hold grudges . It would have remembered. Have a google it’s fascinating. They are so clever.

Poppingby · 20/04/2026 15:47

Sorry about the baby blackbirds but this thread is one of the most entertaining I've read in a long time. Especially the poster who suspects some of it is written by crows themselves

gannett · 20/04/2026 15:46

Some crows in Japan have been known to drop nuts with shells on roads so the traffic will crush the shells. The crows then fly down to retrieve the nuts. That's not all - some crows then started doing this at pedestrian crossings. They would drop the nuts when the light was red, then waited til the light was green (and the cars had stopped) to go down for the nuts.

Always help out a crow, or at least remain firmly in their side.

Lavenderandbrown · 20/04/2026 15:42

@AliceNotInChains yes all true about crows. Crows are fascinating and if your dc ever has to pick an animal to do a report on always pick crows. So many interesting characteristics

In have witnessed a crow tribunal. From inside the house.

CanIbeRio · 20/04/2026 15:37

Oh yes, nature is so cruel. Not too long ago I witnessed a sparrowhawk murder a blackbird in my garden - it was horrific. It was standing on the poor thing and plucking out its feathers while it was still alive 😪. The blackbird was squawking and making a horrific noise but was completely pinned down unable to move. I did try and shoe the sparrowhawk away - it did hop off the blackbird who was clearly half dead, then grabbed the poor thing and flew off with it in its claws. In hindsight I reflected and thought i shouldn't have intervened purely because it's probably best to let the prey be finished off quickly rather than be left to die slowly. It also probably sounds a bit shallow but I was glad I didn't have the messy aftermath to deal with in my garden

Delphiniumandlupins · 20/04/2026 15:35

Well you couldn't have saved the baby blackbird even if you had chased the crow off. It wouldn't survive out of the nest unless it was virtually ready to fledge. The only time I have ever felt sorry for a rat was one being dive-bombed by three crows. I didn't hang around to see if it got away but it didn't look like it would.

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 15:08

WarmLilacHiker · 20/04/2026 15:03

Crows are horrible, they peck the eyes out of lambs if they are away from the sheep. Sometimes the lamb is left alive in agony with no options for the farmer. Crofters here have a real problem with them.

Never heard of this in nearly ten years living in a rural area. Farmers were much more concerned about unleashed dogs, thieves, and sinkholes on the sheep farm!

AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 15:07

WarmLilacHiker · 20/04/2026 15:03

Crows are horrible, they peck the eyes out of lambs if they are away from the sheep. Sometimes the lamb is left alive in agony with no options for the farmer. Crofters here have a real problem with them.

Jesus Christ!! 😱 that’s horrendous

is it true they go for the eyes if they attack humans? I’m bloody glad I didn’t interfere earlier!

ill tell my sister not to interfere if the same happens in her garden.

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WarmLilacHiker · 20/04/2026 15:03

Crows are horrible, they peck the eyes out of lambs if they are away from the sheep. Sometimes the lamb is left alive in agony with no options for the farmer. Crofters here have a real problem with them.

toomuchfaff · 20/04/2026 15:03

AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 09:51

Jesus there is a crow sat on a rooftop now staring directly into my living room … it knows I know … 😂

Give them some scraps, they like pork! Maybe get them onside. Become buddies

sparklyblueberry2 · 20/04/2026 15:01

Crows do not forget easily! We have a crow that stalks our garden after once stealing pizza off my child’s plate. Nothing will stop them!

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 15:00

Alwaysoneoddsock · 20/04/2026 10:37

Be careful with crows. There was a poster on here once who felt a crow was after her and she never came back. I often wonder what happened to her 😱🤣

ETA my post was light hearted but I did once see a bird die and it’s not nice to see at all, so I am sending a virtual arm pat.

Edited

Was probably autobiographical written by a crow being stalked by another crow

AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 14:58

Lavenderandbrown · 20/04/2026 14:46

Don’t ever mess with a crow. Absolutely they memorize your face hold a grudge and pass this grudge down to the next generation. They are extremely intelligent and if a crow dies they send a tribunal who will walk around the dead bird and determine cause of death.

Seriously??

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AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 14:57

SoScarletItWas · 20/04/2026 11:40

I would have sent it round to my sister’s house.

(Sorry, couldn’t resist.)

I called her as soon as it happened and told her to inspect her bushes for black bird nests, neither of us knew they nested in bushes so I suspect she’ll be busy now searching

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CmonBobby · 20/04/2026 14:56

The blackbirds were probably very inexperienced, almost certainly raising their first brood. They will learn and build the next nest somewhere more prudent. They still have time this year. The best thing to do to help is grow some lovely thick dense hedging. The crow babies are snuggling up with full tummies. The world is turning as it
should!

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 14:55

MedlarJelly · 20/04/2026 10:12

It knows you have been posting about it on mumsnet 😄

🤣🤣

jellyfish798 · 20/04/2026 14:52

Nature is brutal - it is what it is. I say this as a vegetarian 😆
I was once walking up my street back when I lived in a rural area, birds of prey aplenty there - beautiful. What was not beautiful was one of them dropping the gutted corpse (of a crow actually)! about two meters from me 🙈 Hit the road with a splat, thankfully not on my head.
I know it's sad though, but can't intervene.

LadySandwich · 20/04/2026 14:48

You save the baby but starve the crow? No. This is why we're not meant to interfere with nature. It's taken care of itself long before we came along.

Lavenderandbrown · 20/04/2026 14:46

Don’t ever mess with a crow. Absolutely they memorize your face hold a grudge and pass this grudge down to the next generation. They are extremely intelligent and if a crow dies they send a tribunal who will walk around the dead bird and determine cause of death.

Balloonhearts · 20/04/2026 14:39

Even if you had, it would have gone back for them.

XenoBitch · 20/04/2026 14:12

It is nature.
I remember being sat on the loo... utterly fascinated by a spider fight going on in the corner. I was a tiny little spider vs a massive house spider. The little spider bit the big one until it was paralysed. it kind of tensed up and stopped moving.

I did once rescue a pigeon from being pecked to death by two seagulls... because seasgulls are assholes. 😆

NettleTea · 20/04/2026 14:11

I got a magpie off my cat - who had obviously bitten off far more than it could handle, as was holding it by one paw as far away from itself as he could, and scared to let go. All the crows and magpies were bombing him.

The magpie was OK and REALLY pissed off, and from that day onwards the magpies have like me, but HATED that cat and used to scold him everytime he went outside.

they left his brother alone though.

Dont mess with the corvids, is all I will say

Spaghettea · 20/04/2026 14:04

AliceNotInChains · 20/04/2026 09:51

Jesus there is a crow sat on a rooftop now staring directly into my living room … it knows I know … 😂

It's probably starting a thread about you......

Alwaysthesameoldstory · 20/04/2026 11:45

It's nature taking it's course. Not nice to watch but crows at this time need to kill other birds because carrion is what their young eat.

A crow killed a pigeon in my garden last week and it was horrible. But I didn't intervene. Why make an enemy of the crow- which is what woukd hapoen - when it is doing what a parent needs to do for it's offspring?

SoScarletItWas · 20/04/2026 11:40

I would have sent it round to my sister’s house.

(Sorry, couldn’t resist.)

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