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What minor and unreasonable things have been irritating you lately?

64 replies

Bikergran · 19/04/2026 11:19

Things that have unreasonably annoyed me recently.

Bought some knickers a few months ago. Can't remember where from. They're really comfy and quite pretty, so wanted to buy some more. All the manufacturer's info has washed off the label, so I don't know where to get more.

People starting to load their stuff on to the conveyor belt at the supermarket checkout BEFORE I'VE FINISHED UNLOADING!!!

Being charged almost £11 for a 250ml wine in a pretentious restaurant- out of a bottle that costs less than £8 in the supermarket (less if there's an offer on).

Salad garnish on a plate of fish and chips. Good grief.

So, what utterly minor thing has insensibly irritated you recently?

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Petrolitis · 19/04/2026 21:15

Just everything

HarryVanderspeigle · 19/04/2026 21:12

Companies putting artificial sweeteners in all soft drinks, so I can no longer have a nice drink while we are out and about. I had a tea with my meal deal today, as everything single cold drink had sweetener at the animal park we went to.

VexedofVirginiaWater · 19/04/2026 21:02

I caught the last five minutes of Bargain Hunt on Friday whilst waiting for the News at One and was unbelievably irritated by the behaviour of the red team who were screaming - literally screaming at the top of their voices because their items were doing well at auction. I think that it's because of how I was brought up that I have such a strong reaction to people screaming unless they are in pain or it's an emergency. There's no need to scream red team - just stop!

PrayForMyBum · 19/04/2026 19:46

FinallyHere · 19/04/2026 18:36

I’m not following the thing about loading stuff on to the conveyer belt at the checkout before the previous person has finished unloading? What am I missing ?

Why do the supermarkets provide separators , to delineate the next persons shopping if the belt is dedicated to one person at a time.

If you have a huge trolley load of stuff to unload, and someone starts loading their stuff behind yours before you’ve finished, there isn’t enough room! It’s so bloody irritating. I now say to people, can you please stop until I’ve finished? Or just passive aggressively push the divider, and their shopping, backwards so theirs falls off the end. Serves them right.

the divider is to separate people’s shopping but it doesn’t miraculously mean there’s enough space.

canuckup · 19/04/2026 19:35

Overpaying for crappy restaurant food

Having to do an insane security/it questionnaire at work for a client. Mindless.

plsdontlookatme · 19/04/2026 19:30

People who eat crisps loudly on the train
Ditto people who sniffle copiously

threescoops · 19/04/2026 19:17

My husband coughing. I gave him the cold.

Neveranynamesleft · 19/04/2026 19:14

People that don't go to work during the week deciding to cut the grass or jet wash at weekends so that people who do go to work during the week have to listen to the noise whilst having a lie in. Go away.

Ella31 · 19/04/2026 19:14

Dust 😅 I dust down the house and a few days later it appears again. I know it will, I know it's enivitable, I know I'll do it iver and over again, but god it annoys me. 😅🤣

thisfilmisboring123 · 19/04/2026 19:13

Husband and kids putting empty packets back in the fridge/cupboards instead of the bin.

Vogue Williams saying ‘cold’ on that Fairy advert.

People using the outer seat on busy trains for their bags. Just rude.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 19/04/2026 19:07

It's been reasonably sunny today but windy.

I had the back door open to let some fresh air into the house and so the dog could potter in and out at her leisure.

And all the paperwork I had attached by fridge magnets to the fridge has blown off and half of it has gone behind the freezer.

Very minor but very unreasonable of the weather. And I'm cross.

Frumpiness · 19/04/2026 19:02

People who pay music in the park. I know there isn’t a law against it but green spaces are supposed to be places of relaxation. I can’t read a book when there’s music on as I can’t concentrate. Why can’t people just be quiet? Why do people always have to have some kind of noise with them?

TheyGrewUp · 19/04/2026 19:01

Nothing unreasonably. Very reasonably:

Rachel Reeves
My local Residents' Association Councillors.

NeededANameChangeAnyway · 19/04/2026 19:01

My Henry hoover hose keeps unscrewing which drives me up the wall.

I can't find a (certainly jackpot winning) lottery ticket and think I've put it through the wash.

I'm back to work tomorrow 😭

Neuronimo · 19/04/2026 18:59

People who slump over their supermarket trolley (excluding those who are older or have disabilities) and then have to walk really slowly because they can't control the direction and can't see where they are going.

igelkott2026 · 19/04/2026 18:57

WeaselsRising · 19/04/2026 18:51

Twice now got the train and booked into the quiet carriage. Twice having to listen to a woman having a really loud conversation several seats down. One even commented on the announcement "oh this is the quiet carriage " and carried on her loud conversation. DD will not let me say anything to them.

People like this are so annoying aren't they. Happens so often on my local train line too. And they get on with small kids. There aren't reservations so they're not being allocated seats in the quiet carriage - they just see the sign and decide to sit there with noisy squealy kid anyway.

I thought of another one - not so much for me because I was up and about but my neighbour started using a noisy power tool about 9am this morning. I think that's too early for a Sunday.

igelkott2026 · 19/04/2026 18:55

A local path is being upgraded. But the path next to it is partly closed because of the upgrade (I am not sure why). It's only a short section but they don't warn you in advance and they don't post a diversion but leave you to work it out for yourself.

People who moan about middle lane sitting on motorways. I get it, it's annoying. But it's about 251st on the list of driving annoyances!

WeaselsRising · 19/04/2026 18:51

Twice now got the train and booked into the quiet carriage. Twice having to listen to a woman having a really loud conversation several seats down. One even commented on the announcement "oh this is the quiet carriage " and carried on her loud conversation. DD will not let me say anything to them.

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 19/04/2026 18:50

It's been for a while, but that normal, non specialist, deodorants no longer have alcohol in them so aren't as "drying".

NormasArse · 19/04/2026 18:44

Today:

Massive potholes in the road when I’m cycling.

The salt and chilli tofu from the Chinese takeaway isn’t a patch on the one I used to get from the nearer one which closed down because the owner retired.

LittleMissLateForWorkAgain · 19/04/2026 18:36

Today Henry the hoover dropping his pipe on my foot when I m wearing slippers. And he hits me on the stairs with his hose. And he grins like a maniac the whole time.

My younger cat has been outside most of the afternoon with plenty of garden things to scratch but has decided to file his nails on the leather sofa (again).

Neighbours outside having a bloody tea party for her 60th. Complete with screaming grandchildren. I m 60 in 2 years. I said to my adult ds I will never ever want a bloody tea party nor get excited and squealy about a cup of tea. He gets it.

Off to shop for bottle of prosecco. The shop is in walking distance but I m annoying myself because I don't want to walk

FinallyHere · 19/04/2026 18:36

I’m not following the thing about loading stuff on to the conveyer belt at the checkout before the previous person has finished unloading? What am I missing ?

Why do the supermarkets provide separators , to delineate the next persons shopping if the belt is dedicated to one person at a time.

NimbleHiker · 19/04/2026 18:13

Bus drivers who just grunt when i say thank you. Car drivers who drive like they are at Silverstone.

SirAlbusRumbledore · 19/04/2026 17:47

Google lens for your pants 😀

2010Aussie · 19/04/2026 17:45

RainsFall · 19/04/2026 15:16

Getting stuck behind learner drivers barely doing 20mph.

I’m tolerant of learners, all drivers have been there and I never get too close behind them or anything, if anything I give them way more space than necessary. Often it’s not long before they turn off, but three times last week on my way home from work I got unlucky and was stuck behind learner drivers for most of the journey. They seemed scared to go above 20mph and would slam the brake if a leaf blew in their direction.

I don’t mind it so much on quieter side roads but on the busier ‘main’ roads, it’s very annoying. Even though I know they have to learn somehow, surely the instructor should be encouraging them to drive somewhat close to the speed limit, and if they seem unable they should be taken to a quieter side road to practice some more (although a lot of side roads near me are now 20mph, so that probably doesn’t help).

I know I’m being unreasonable as how else will learner drivers learn. I also feel bad for the learner when a long stream of traffic builds up behind them, they must feel the pressure even if everyone’s being perfectly polite about it. I tend to blame the instructor more than the learner, take them out on short stints on main roads until they become confident fair enough but don’t make them drive on them for long distances if they refuse to go over 20mph in a 30. At that point it feels unfair on all the other road users.

Driving Irritations

  1. Car drivers (obviously not learners) doing about 55 mph on a busy two-lane motorway at peak times - forcing everyone else to overtake them and causing a bottleneck in the outside lane.
  2. Vehicles driving without lights in poor visibility. The 'auto' setting on newer cars doesn't always illuminate the rear lights.
  3. Tailgating
  4. Hogging the centre lane.
  5. Drivers not giving way when they DON'T have priority - particularly not waiting behind a parked car with traffic coming the other way.
And on and on .....