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To think south of France beach clubs have ruined DH

243 replies

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:42

Now he’s acting like a spoilt baby
Saying he won’t go to a normal beach and sit on a towel on the sand and he will only go somewhere he has a sunbed, a proper one

so now I’m trying to find places with beach clubs that are reasonable for this summer

any ideas ? don’t want to go to south of France again

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RoseBlueuet · 18/04/2026 18:41

geoger · 18/04/2026 17:29

Most beaches in Greece and the islands have this set up. Prices vary tho. We were in Halkidiki last year, sunbeds free as long as you bought a drink - padded beds, with a bar and clean toulets

Most beaches in Greece and the Islands have this set up. No, they do not have this set up.

Times have moved on.

Iloveshihtzus · 18/04/2026 18:38

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:54

He says he like it with a proper sunbed ideally with padding

and he likes getting his drink in a proper glass with ice and also being able to go to nice toilets without queueing

and having food brought over and music

We went to Dubrovnik last year and the hotels all had their own beach with free sun beds for guests and bar service

Left · 18/04/2026 18:29

Hi OP - are you looking for a family hotel, or is this just an adults break? Also any other requirements- do you like to eat out in different places, want to do day trips etc?

Moellen54 · 18/04/2026 18:25

Rhodes a year or so ago. Loads of beach sunbeds. Often free if you buy food or drinks. But he's being a wimp and Id go alone.

Crikeyalmighty · 18/04/2026 18:25

Gillthepill · 18/04/2026 18:18

Italy is probably the king of beach clubs, they’re everywhere. Ibiza has loads also. As others have said, any hotel overlooking a beach will have sunbed areas - Majorca has lots of hotels on the beach.

I love the Universal Aquamarin in sant Elm in Majorca- private beach and service ( you pay for this separately but not totally stupid money) and it’s pretty and small town with lots of lovely upmarket cafes

https://www.booking.com/Share-Joa13H

Crikeyalmighty · 18/04/2026 18:21

Ha her H would get on with my H - he’s tour managed for bands in lots of high end hotels( low end too) in citys and I think it’s totally spoilt him as to what hotel standards and resorts generally are like when actually paying for it yourself -

CharlotteStreetW1 · 18/04/2026 18:19

RoseBlueuet · 18/04/2026 15:30

Where in Greece? Curious to know where a drink gets you a bed for free for 8 euro.

Plaka beach on Naxos for one. Some cost €5 or a drink (2023 price).

OP should just find a hotel with its own beach area.

Hotel Chryssi Akti on Andros had all this including waiter service etc.

Gillthepill · 18/04/2026 18:18

Italy is probably the king of beach clubs, they’re everywhere. Ibiza has loads also. As others have said, any hotel overlooking a beach will have sunbed areas - Majorca has lots of hotels on the beach.

Aluna · 18/04/2026 18:17

TiredMummma · 18/04/2026 17:44

Why would you not just stay at a beach club? Some have hotels, I would suggest Rhodes, or Livorno or Rimini in Italy?

There are far nicer beaches on the med coast and the Adriatic, Livorno and Rimini are entry level.

Deliaskis · 18/04/2026 18:15

Plenty of what you're looking for on Kefalonia, and sometimes they're EUR20 a day, sometimes they're free if you order food and drinks. South Coast or Antisamos.

Echobelly · 18/04/2026 18:05

There are plenty of beaches outside south of France where you can hire beds/umbrellas without it being as pricey as the clubs there (they are quite outrageously expensive) - it seems to me to be a South of France thing.

FWIW, I also need shade and a bed or chair - in my case I have a bad hip and can't sit comfortably on the ground, I burn really easily and I just really hate having sand all over me, like a lot of people. Having to sit on a sand-covered towel in direct boiling sun is not an enjoyable experience! To people saying OP's DH is being a man child - I would find it pretty nasty if my husband insisted on me having to do what I describe above that because he's fine with it, so why aren't I? OP's DH is entitled to say he doesn't want to be uncomfortable and maybe he used to be OK with it but as he's got older he's found he doesn't like it anymore.

Last time we were in South of France I took one for the team and sat on a free beach on a towel for a couple of hours to save us some money, having bought the cheapest parasol I could find so I didn't burn to a crisp. It was not fun but the kids were happy and it saved us about 150 euro by me enduring it.

It's not like there's zero options between pricey beach clubs and just rawdogging it with a towel. I've been to beaches in Croatia and Spain that have seat/shade options without being as massively expensive as beach clubs.

CapabilityBrownsHaHa · 18/04/2026 18:02

Bit out there, but there were some fabulous beach clubs in Varna, Bulgaria when I was there. V cheap, full service, open till the early hours (clubs at night). Probably not as "fancy" as the South of France, but the Black Sea is nice to swim in.

OnlyHasEyesForLoki · 18/04/2026 17:55

Sounds like you can afford to spend €800 a day on sun beds that us mere mortals wouldn’t even begin to fathom but there are lots of lovely beaches in Europe with cute bars or restaurants that put proper sun beds with thick cushions and parasols that are free to use on a section of the beach and serve food and drinks to your sunbed. You can also use their clean toilets. It is expected you spend money with them of course.

I went to Lesvos in Greece and the sandy beach at Anaxos was lovely and had all of the above. We stayed in the Alma Hotel between Anaxos and Petra which was great and up on a cliff with amazing views. Petra is lovely for restaurants but I didn’t like the beach as much as Anaxos.

VividDeer · 18/04/2026 17:55

I've seen beach clubs all over, some nicer than others. The ones in kalkan were beautiful

I like my comfort too. This year have booked a beachfront apartment. So can lie on own balcony. I do have a few flights of stairs between me and sea, but can 'rough it' on the sand briefly. Back to balcony for drinks. Its so close I can let the kids swim and watch from there

DreamTheMoors · 18/04/2026 17:55

JacquesHarlow · 18/04/2026 14:45

Is this some sort of weird flex?

You can't work out how to parent him about this without coming on a forum?

so now I’m trying to find places with beach clubs that are reasonable for this summer

Where? Where are you wanting to be? I could name you a dozen, but they would need different flights .

YABU

That’s pretty rude.

I come from the most “weird flex” place in the world - California, where people try to outdo one another every fifteen minutes.

@TeddyBearCottage is asking for suggestions in the UK.

There’s no need to get snippy over that..

TiredMummma · 18/04/2026 17:44

Why would you not just stay at a beach club? Some have hotels, I would suggest Rhodes, or Livorno or Rimini in Italy?

lebin · 18/04/2026 17:39

I think this is just the standard for any 4/5 star hotel in Europe with beach access. They usually have sun loungers for guests or that you can pay a day charge.

Cailin66 · 18/04/2026 17:34

TeddyBearCottage · 18/04/2026 14:54

He says he like it with a proper sunbed ideally with padding

and he likes getting his drink in a proper glass with ice and also being able to go to nice toilets without queueing

and having food brought over and music

Can you please divorce him and send him over to me. We’re a perfect fit.

PippaToryFripp · 18/04/2026 17:32

Malta a lot of the hotels have them

Ariel896 · 18/04/2026 17:32

OnlyReplyToIdiots · 18/04/2026 14:54

Every so often I see a thread and think “this is most ridiculous thing I’ve ever read on this site” and then something like this pops up and takes the crown.

Me too. Then you see it’s a three word username…. They keep popping up constantly

Barney16 · 18/04/2026 17:32

Get your husband down off the roof and tell him to ask Chat GPT.

geoger · 18/04/2026 17:29

Most beaches in Greece and the islands have this set up. Prices vary tho. We were in Halkidiki last year, sunbeds free as long as you bought a drink - padded beds, with a bar and clean toulets

AnneShirleyBlythe · 18/04/2026 17:25

CotswoldsCamilla · 18/04/2026 17:12

Ikos or Sani both nice resorts with comfortable sunbeds, Cocktails in proper glasses, using premium ingredients.
Usually a private beach - and the sun loungers on the beach are as nice as those around pool. And mainly Greece or Spain, not whiff of Côte d’Azur.

Incidentally, Instagram keeps show me beaches in Albania that look beyond stunning. Ksamil. Reckon if I could ever convince my husband to look at Albania, it might be my next holiday.

I am considering Albania as I have an Albanian colleague. She showed me pics of some beautiful beaches her family go
to when they visit. Reasonable prices too.

HoppityBun · 18/04/2026 17:21

Torquay