Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

Should those with severe autism have their own diagnosis. Thread 2

56 replies

Cubic · 14/04/2026 21:02

The first thread was full of debate of this emotive topic. Most posters engaged in good faith. Many of us want to have this discussion and that includes posters for and against.

It's worth saying that some posters may have autism so please bare that in mind as some posts could be mis interpretated or written in a way where it appears abrupt and that isn't the intention.

There was a notable derailment in the last thread and it is suggested that if/when this happens it is ignored.

The poll at writing was 91% in favor of a seperate diagnosis after over 1000 votes.

OP posts:
New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Cubic · 25/04/2026 14:22

This paper is currently not behind a paywall.

I found quite interesting and it cover a lot of what we discussed on this and the previous thread inc genetics, pregnancy and the removal of Aspergers, inc profound etc. It's worth a read for anyone with an interest.

https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/the-british-journal-of-psychiatry/article/from-autism-to-the-plural-autisms-evidence-from-differing-aetiologies-developmental-trajectories-and-symptom-intensity-combinations/4D9B0B35DCF03FDBA4E001F7DC9B02D6?fbclid=Iwb21leARZnlVjbGNrBFmeMGV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHrQ8U9MKmQ7Dh71gORoZrQu9FlZmWmBzNgiKMGlkdIVYGXwYPU89sEkG9Z-S_aem_D4xydtt2NLzC9vOlJwT7UA&utm_id=97758_v0_s00_e0_tv2_a1demo0eb4c038

From autism to the plural ‘autisms’: evidence from differing aetiologies, developmental trajectories and symptom intensity combinations | The British Journal of Psychiatry | Cambridge Core

From autism to the plural ‘autisms’: evidence from differing aetiologies, developmental trajectories and symptom intensity combinations - Volume 227 Issue 1

https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/the-british-journal-of-psychiatry/article/from-autism-to-the-plural-autisms-evidence-from-differing-aetiologies-developmental-trajectories-and-symptom-intensity-combinations/4D9B0B35DCF03FDBA4E001F7DC9B02D6?fbclid=Iwb21leARZnlVjbGNrBFmeMGV4dG4DYWVtAjExAHNydGMGYXBwX2lkDDM1MDY4NTUzMTcyOAABHrQ8U9MKmQ7Dh71gORoZrQu9FlZmWmBzNgiKMGlkdIVYGXwYPU89sEkG9Z-S_aem_D4xydtt2NLzC9vOlJwT7UA

OP posts:
Forthesteps · 15/04/2026 16:01

Velumental · 14/04/2026 22:03

Yes I think it should. For 2 reasons. I think the level of support required by those with around autism is very different to the level of support my son who has higher functioning autism requires. He's verbal, academically capable when well supported etc. however in neurotypical spaces he definitely stands out as different. He couldn't cope with a very minor issue today and ended up whimpering under a table in a venue over it. He's not a toddler, he's too big to easily haul out from under a table. Yet he couldn't, genuinely couldn't, get himself under control to get himself out.

I feel like neither are served by having a single diagnosis, I feel like a fraud if I state my son is autistic because I feel I need to be clear he can talk. Communicate, access mainstream school etc. because it feels fraudulent that someone may think I'm the position of a friend with a non verbal 5 yr old who cannot follow 2 step instructions and will likely never gain independence. I'm tired, she's exhausted, I'm often running on 1 frayed nerve her last never has snapped entirely. I CAN send my son to a small number of childcare options that can support his needs, she has no childcare options out with respite services and an sen school.

That said I also have a neurotypical child, she's 4, parenting her is an actual wall in the park, she has wee issues here and there but largely she sleeps, eats, can manage her emotions age appropriately, if something causes an upset she can be brought back to baseline fairly predictably, she hasn't been hospitalised regularly for seizures, she can be left to do a craft activity while I got to the loo and not try abscond the house as my son would have done at 4. Even when upset she's very unlikely to run into the road. She tells me she's hungry, doesn't wait until she's angry and upset l, so many reasons that parenting a neurotypical child is as different from parenting my son as parenting my friends profoundly autistic child is from parenting my lower support needs son.

You absolutely should not feel a fraud. If he's autistic he's autistic. Just like NT people they are all individuals with individual needs.
My son now holds down a job, lives independently and travels abroad ( when he's got the money!). At 5 he started in special education still in nappies and liable to spend the morning looking for things to sweep off surfaces or, if liquid, pour on the floor. HFA or not?

ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 15:53

Cubic · 15/04/2026 14:47

The restraint vs meds is a difficult choice. I thought meds were best for my son as it's not as traumatic as you say but i was speaking to a dad of a yp who had angleman, the yp sadly passed away during a general for a tooth extraction from complications. Everyone knows general's have risk but I think for most it gets weighed against the need. We're looking at it again. I'm not sure what we will decide.

That’s horrendous for the YP and their family.

It is a hard decision. And one where there isn’t a right answer. Neither is perfect. Both have risks. Both can be traumatic for DC and all involved. It also isn’t always one or the other even for the same individual - both can be necessary depending on the intervention/investigation.

Greenblue2 · 15/04/2026 15:33

TigerRag · 15/04/2026 14:42

And what if you don't fall into those near little boxes?

While categorisation is rarely perfect, it's at least more informative than lumping everyone together with no distinction. There could be basic levels used to provide a general overview, alongside more detailed medical reports for schools or others who require more depth. It works for other conditions. Having agreed upon terms to quickly give people a general idea of what to expect would be helpful, as the label can currently mean almost anything. At present, if someone says they or their child is autistic, it provides very little useful information because the diagnosis encompasses everyone from some of the most successful, high functioning people in the world to some of the most severely disabled who need 24 hour care, and everything in between. As I said on the other thread, we already classify many other conditions like cerebral palsy, learning disabilities, and hearing or visual impairments by levels of severity. Why is autism so different that people seem to object so much to the idea? Even if we don't distinguish between different levels of severity of autism, there'll still be a line drawn between people who have many traits of autism but not quite enough to get a diagnosis, and those who are very similar but have just enough traits to be diagnosed, and that will be imperfect too.

SweetRedJam · 15/04/2026 15:31

SleeplessInWherever · 15/04/2026 15:28

It’s usually a co-existence of autism and LD that means the term profound is used.

Where the debate differs is if it’s acceptable to refer to those people as profoundly autistic or if profoundly disabled is more accurate, as the LD isn’t autism in itself. Really, that’s just semantics IMO.

Personally, I would be happy for that co-existence to mean someone was labelled as profound, in whatever format “acceptable,” if it meant that the level of need was recognised and catered for effectively.

Thanks for answering. That makes sense.

SleeplessInWherever · 15/04/2026 15:28

SweetRedJam · 15/04/2026 15:22

I have a question; hope it’s ok to ask here.

I know that autism and LD can play a part in the presentation for some people. So are there people with profound autism who don’t have any LD?

Thanks in advance and hope that question isn’t offensive in any way.

ETA sorry I see others are discussing this already above.

Edited

It’s usually a co-existence of autism and LD that means the term profound is used.

Where the debate differs is if it’s acceptable to refer to those people as profoundly autistic or if profoundly disabled is more accurate, as the LD isn’t autism in itself. Really, that’s just semantics IMO.

Personally, I would be happy for that co-existence to mean someone was labelled as profound, in whatever format “acceptable,” if it meant that the level of need was recognised and catered for effectively.

Silverofthemoon · 15/04/2026 15:26

@SweetRedJam
The definition of profound autism as it is suggested would require an intellectual disability.

But there are other autistic people without an intellectual disability, but with complex needs, who need a lot of support and who will probably never be able to live independently.

SweetRedJam · 15/04/2026 15:22

I have a question; hope it’s ok to ask here.

I know that autism and LD can play a part in the presentation for some people. So are there people with profound autism who don’t have any LD?

Thanks in advance and hope that question isn’t offensive in any way.

ETA sorry I see others are discussing this already above.

Cubic · 15/04/2026 14:47

ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 12:40

We also have as much done at the same time where possible. Microsuctioning DSs’ ears is also something that is always tagged on to GA for something else.

For bloods etc. we go for restraint rather than medication. It takes lots of people now, especially for DS1 (he has a port but it doesn’t always bleed and he needs restraining to access it), and is traumatic, but DSs have medical needs which requires regular bloods and it isn’t suitable to medicate every time.

The restraint vs meds is a difficult choice. I thought meds were best for my son as it's not as traumatic as you say but i was speaking to a dad of a yp who had angleman, the yp sadly passed away during a general for a tooth extraction from complications. Everyone knows general's have risk but I think for most it gets weighed against the need. We're looking at it again. I'm not sure what we will decide.

OP posts:
TigerRag · 15/04/2026 14:42

Greenblue2 · 15/04/2026 12:19

I think splitting it into several categories would be a good idea. Profound autism for the most severely affected who also have significant learning disabilities, then maybe also 3 more categories similar to level 1, level 2 and level 3 for the rest like they have in america.

And what if you don't fall into those near little boxes?

Cubic · 15/04/2026 14:37

For anyone who hasn't read or taken part in the last thread; there was a series of posts yesterday which haulted the discussion and caused some upset. It was discussed that maybe ignoring some posts is for the best to keep the thread on track.

OP posts:
Polishmamaa · 15/04/2026 14:35

@ProjectHailMary Thanks for providing a list of journals but I'm asking you to provide the specific source of evidence to back up your point that profound disability of autistic individuals is categorically not caused by autism?

Cubic · 15/04/2026 14:33

There were many people on the last thread waiting for your scientific evidence of what is a definitive cause of autism. Many of us would like to know especially if the cause has been found so we can at least let the nhs know. Just throwing a few medical journal names around doesn't cut it.

Pp makes a very good point and it is something I have eluded to also on the last thread. Autism isn't diagnosed by biology, it is diagnosed usually on symptons by a group of professionals.

OP posts:
Silverofthemoon · 15/04/2026 13:58

ProjectHailMary · 15/04/2026 13:47

To respond to the absurd posts at the end of the last thread, once again:

None of the listed articles in your link to the Lancet as far as I can see identify any actual biological or medical research providing any evidence whatsoever for your assertions that there is a separate category of autism/ condition that is different to that defined by the existing identified biological commonalities between all autistic people in terms of genetics and brain structure.

These are a list of studies about behaviour/ symptoms/ social issues, not medical studies providing any evidence whatsoever for your assertion that there is a separate condition that could be called “profound autism”.

There is no medical research showing any biological markers whatsoever to support this claim that there is a separate category of autism called “profound autism”.

Per many comments on the previous post, it’s already been pointed out to you OP numerous times that there is no scientific evidence at all to support your wish to create a separate condition called “profound autism”. It’s pseudo-science.

There is no medical research showing any biological markers whatsoever to support this claim that there is a separate category of autism called “profound autism”.

Biological markets aren’t typically used to diagnose autism, so I really don’t know why you believe biological markers are necessary to define a subset of it?

ProjectHailMary · 15/04/2026 13:47

To respond to the absurd posts at the end of the last thread, once again:

None of the listed articles in your link to the Lancet as far as I can see identify any actual biological or medical research providing any evidence whatsoever for your assertions that there is a separate category of autism/ condition that is different to that defined by the existing identified biological commonalities between all autistic people in terms of genetics and brain structure.

These are a list of studies about behaviour/ symptoms/ social issues, not medical studies providing any evidence whatsoever for your assertion that there is a separate condition that could be called “profound autism”.

There is no medical research showing any biological markers whatsoever to support this claim that there is a separate category of autism called “profound autism”.

Per many comments on the previous post, it’s already been pointed out to you OP numerous times that there is no scientific evidence at all to support your wish to create a separate condition called “profound autism”. It’s pseudo-science.

ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 12:40

Cubic · 15/04/2026 12:30

For bloods and injections we get sent to a hospital, he has the pre meds that are given before a general to sedate but not the full general then they do them. For any dental work that is done under general at hospital. They try to do as much as possible at one go to reduce risk.

We also have as much done at the same time where possible. Microsuctioning DSs’ ears is also something that is always tagged on to GA for something else.

For bloods etc. we go for restraint rather than medication. It takes lots of people now, especially for DS1 (he has a port but it doesn’t always bleed and he needs restraining to access it), and is traumatic, but DSs have medical needs which requires regular bloods and it isn’t suitable to medicate every time.

Cubic · 15/04/2026 12:30

ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 12:25

I understand this. Although I don’t think it is limited to those with what is being termed profound autism. Many who have autism who don’t fit that criteria are still excluded from services aimed at autism or wider disability because of how their autism presents.

That specialist dentist sounds beyond rubbish. I have 2 DC under the special care dental team. One has ASD (significant needs, will need 24/7 care for life, needs support with all ADL, has 2:1 EOTIS package but does not meet the criteria for profound autism as doesn’t have a low IQ) and one other complex needs. Neither would cope with what you describe. DS1 has never sat in the dental chair and probably never will. Nothing goes in his mouth (he is a biter) and he only has an examination whilst under GA for other things. DS3 didn’t sit in the chair until he was a teen and even now it is only briefly. Neither cope in the waiting room. We wait outside in the car, which brings its own problems but is easier than the waiting room. When the dentist is ready they call me and meet us outside.

Similar for bloods. Neither would cope if the only adjustments were what you describe.

For bloods and injections we get sent to a hospital, he has the pre meds that are given before a general to sedate but not the full general then they do them. For any dental work that is done under general at hospital. They try to do as much as possible at one go to reduce risk.

OP posts:
ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 12:26

Owninterpreter · 15/04/2026 10:50

Yes I was a bit confused by this. I dont especially see why its better than saying 'asd with learning disability'. I guess its two words not 4?

I suppose you could have 'mild' autism and mild learning disability. They definitely grade learning disability as mild, moderete, severe and profound.. I know levels in autism are very controversial. I guess profound would indicate both aspects were significant and intertwined.

I dont have any issues with a rebrand if it helps people. I am not confident it would help as I don't trust a government deciding profound people don't get education or certain healthcare. Education rights are pretty recent.

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70)

I had heard of lots of people where autism was the only diagnosis, who said the issues like non verbal or wearing nappies were solely caused by autism. but lots of other people said that was because the IQ couldn't be measured or noone looked any further after asd was diagnosed and they would be scooped up into the profound diagnosis anyway so they could access services.

It feels like a bit of refining is needed to make sure it achieves what people hope it achieves.

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70)

This is the case for some.

ChasingMoreSleep · 15/04/2026 12:25

SleeplessInWherever · 14/04/2026 22:35

I personally couldn’t give a stuff what the general public think or understand, I would be hopeful it would do something to make services more accessible.

A couple of examples;

We were referred to a specialist dental service. We’ve attended a couple of times now and it’s in no way appropriate for our child’s level of need. Yes, they’ve got some cause and effect toys and low lighting. But there’s still the expectation that he sits in the dentists chair before she looks in his mouth. She still doesn’t come to greet him in the waiting room - as in, meet him where he is.

We’re currently in an ongoing medical investigation that is proving really difficult for him to access. His doctor requires bloods, and recommended we “just” take him to the blood clinic to get them done, and there’s some cream we can use for numbing that works for
”other autistic” children.

I’d like it if his level of need being properly acknowledged and catered for wasn’t so dependent on what works for some blanket definition of autism, because his disability and inability to access makes that impossible for us.

I think too much is catered for what some services see as generic autism, though I’m not sure what generic would even look like in reality.

Children like mine are too far to the extreme to have their needs met by that. He’s “too autistic” for autism services.

Edited

I understand this. Although I don’t think it is limited to those with what is being termed profound autism. Many who have autism who don’t fit that criteria are still excluded from services aimed at autism or wider disability because of how their autism presents.

That specialist dentist sounds beyond rubbish. I have 2 DC under the special care dental team. One has ASD (significant needs, will need 24/7 care for life, needs support with all ADL, has 2:1 EOTIS package but does not meet the criteria for profound autism as doesn’t have a low IQ) and one other complex needs. Neither would cope with what you describe. DS1 has never sat in the dental chair and probably never will. Nothing goes in his mouth (he is a biter) and he only has an examination whilst under GA for other things. DS3 didn’t sit in the chair until he was a teen and even now it is only briefly. Neither cope in the waiting room. We wait outside in the car, which brings its own problems but is easier than the waiting room. When the dentist is ready they call me and meet us outside.

Similar for bloods. Neither would cope if the only adjustments were what you describe.

Greenblue2 · 15/04/2026 12:19

I think splitting it into several categories would be a good idea. Profound autism for the most severely affected who also have significant learning disabilities, then maybe also 3 more categories similar to level 1, level 2 and level 3 for the rest like they have in america.

Cubic · 15/04/2026 11:09

Owninterpreter · 15/04/2026 10:50

Yes I was a bit confused by this. I dont especially see why its better than saying 'asd with learning disability'. I guess its two words not 4?

I suppose you could have 'mild' autism and mild learning disability. They definitely grade learning disability as mild, moderete, severe and profound.. I know levels in autism are very controversial. I guess profound would indicate both aspects were significant and intertwined.

I dont have any issues with a rebrand if it helps people. I am not confident it would help as I don't trust a government deciding profound people don't get education or certain healthcare. Education rights are pretty recent.

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70)

I had heard of lots of people where autism was the only diagnosis, who said the issues like non verbal or wearing nappies were solely caused by autism. but lots of other people said that was because the IQ couldn't be measured or noone looked any further after asd was diagnosed and they would be scooped up into the profound diagnosis anyway so they could access services.

It feels like a bit of refining is needed to make sure it achieves what people hope it achieves.

I think it's really difficult to work out if the autism is so bad that it impacts assessing IQ or if IQ is so low.

As I said in one of my earlier posts I do know of yp who only have autism diagnosed not LD but are similar to my son. My son wouldn't have had LD diagnosed if we hadn't have asked for it to be. Until then we had no choice but to put his needs down to autism alone.

OP posts:
Velumental · 15/04/2026 11:05

Owninterpreter · 15/04/2026 10:50

Yes I was a bit confused by this. I dont especially see why its better than saying 'asd with learning disability'. I guess its two words not 4?

I suppose you could have 'mild' autism and mild learning disability. They definitely grade learning disability as mild, moderete, severe and profound.. I know levels in autism are very controversial. I guess profound would indicate both aspects were significant and intertwined.

I dont have any issues with a rebrand if it helps people. I am not confident it would help as I don't trust a government deciding profound people don't get education or certain healthcare. Education rights are pretty recent.

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70)

I had heard of lots of people where autism was the only diagnosis, who said the issues like non verbal or wearing nappies were solely caused by autism. but lots of other people said that was because the IQ couldn't be measured or noone looked any further after asd was diagnosed and they would be scooped up into the profound diagnosis anyway so they could access services.

It feels like a bit of refining is needed to make sure it achieves what people hope it achieves.

My nephew does yet have an autism diagnosis, it is however as clear as the nose on his face and has been since he was a baby. He has however had educational psychologist input and the report states moderate learning difficulties and following his own agenda and makes it clear there is expectation of an autism diagnosis once assessed.

My son was verbal early, motor skills early, I have always thought he had ADHD not because he's in any way badly behaved but because he has and always has had a ridiculous energy level. Even compared to all his active boy friends of the same age from our baby group. All boys who now have ASD and ADHD diagnoses actually, because we all ended up in this right wee group reassuring ourselves that our boys were just super energetic and advanced and that's why they couldn't tolerate coats and would deliberately face plant puddles and eat leaves etc etc. would run in rings wooping instead of taking part at mummy and me classes. There's a definite difference between the presentation of my son and his pals and my sisters son and the children we encounter who are low or non verbal, not yet toilet trained at 7/8 etc.

It's a very complicated things and I guess as humans we love to categorise things.

Silverofthemoon · 15/04/2026 10:57

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70).

Yes, there are autistic people who wouldn’t fit the profound autism category who require high levels of care and 24/7 supervision or assistance.

This is one of the reasons splitting autism into different categories is controversial.

Owninterpreter · 15/04/2026 10:50

Velumental · 15/04/2026 09:50

This is interesting because people keep saying profound autism doesn't exist as it is s autism WITH other intellectual disabilities alongside.

Profound autism, if you read the definition, is being suggested as a diagnosis including intellectual disability as part of it. So it's literally autism with intellectual disability, it's just the specific term that differs

Yes I was a bit confused by this. I dont especially see why its better than saying 'asd with learning disability'. I guess its two words not 4?

I suppose you could have 'mild' autism and mild learning disability. They definitely grade learning disability as mild, moderete, severe and profound.. I know levels in autism are very controversial. I guess profound would indicate both aspects were significant and intertwined.

I dont have any issues with a rebrand if it helps people. I am not confident it would help as I don't trust a government deciding profound people don't get education or certain healthcare. Education rights are pretty recent.

I also genuinely thought there were people who needed 24/7 care due to autism alone (ie they had an IQ over 70)

I had heard of lots of people where autism was the only diagnosis, who said the issues like non verbal or wearing nappies were solely caused by autism. but lots of other people said that was because the IQ couldn't be measured or noone looked any further after asd was diagnosed and they would be scooped up into the profound diagnosis anyway so they could access services.

It feels like a bit of refining is needed to make sure it achieves what people hope it achieves.

eggsandsourdough · 15/04/2026 10:49

I 100% agree.

My nephew is very severly autistic, he will never ever live a "normal functoning" life.

Then i have many friends with autistic children, very functioning, mainstream schooling.

There should be an absolute difference and it should be clearly defined with a structure on the level of care needed with a pathway showing this.

I feel like care is so diluted at this point that noone is getting what they need especially those that are priority.

Swipe left for the next trending thread