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Settle an argument- downstairs loo or not…?

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TheBeaTgoeson1 · 13/04/2026 11:58

Please help settle an argument…

Starting on a small renovation. One person thinks that a downstairs loo is important as part of the work, there is space for it.

The other doesn’t see that it adds attraction to a property, and there’s a nice bathroom with loo at the top of the stairs…

Those who have or haven’t got one, who is reasonable?

(It would bring the total of loos in the house to two.)

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TallPhil · 14/04/2026 20:02

A legal requirement in all new builds…and I think major refurbishments (but don’t quote me). I’d suggest that not having one will drastically reduce the appeal in the future….

ithinkilikethislittlelife · 14/04/2026 19:52

when we moved into our current house it only had one bathroom. Now it has three. There are four of us in the house and often three toilets are in use. We are currently renovating the downstairs bathroom and we all miss it so much. The more the merrier.

Ariana12 · 14/04/2026 19:48

Hard agree to downstairs loo. All the reasons given. Can't begin to fathom what your DH has against it

celticprincess · 14/04/2026 19:47

yes yes yes yes yes
I am in a one loo house and am desperate for a second loo but nowhere we can add one. Can’t afford to move. It cause so many issues on a morning with getting showered and having to wait for someone on the loo!!
so, seriously if you can add one I would.

Dellaandthedealer · 14/04/2026 19:41

Absolutely get the downstairs loo! These days we wouldn’t consider buying a house without one or at least space for one.

Preferably a downstairs shower too!

Single50something · 14/04/2026 19:25

2 loos def. We moved last year ans finally have a downstairs loo. Love it :) if someone was less able having a loo downstairs so much easier as well.

talktalkme69 · 14/04/2026 19:18

I have a downstairs loo and it is a must couldn’t do without it !! Definitely go for a downstairs loo👍

Buffs · 14/04/2026 19:16

Absolutely yes

Partypants83 · 14/04/2026 19:12

Absolutely yes to downstairs loo.
We are older people and it was a strong contributor to us deciding on this house. Even though it's tiny.

BooneyBeautiful · 14/04/2026 19:10

Pearlstillsinging · 13/04/2026 12:03

After having to.put a commode at the bottom of the stairs when I was recovering from a badly broken leg, I would definitely prioritise a downstairs loo. In fact I'm trying to identify a space for one here.

Last year I had a downstairs loo installed in the cupboard under the stairs. I wanted it signed off by Building Control (saves a lot of hassle when it comes to selling) and because it was being installed in an existing building, it didn't have to comply to current building regs when it came to the size of the doorway and the measurements of the floor area. It did have to have an extractor fan (mid-terrace so no access to a window) and also had to have a basin for hand washing. Due to it being too difficult to access main drainage, I had to have a macerator toilet installed (Saniflo), but that hasn't been a problem at all. I love it and so do all my visitors!

VikingLady · 14/04/2026 19:09

I don’t want to follow DH into a toilet where he's just had a poo. I doubt he wants to deal with my aftermath either. And what about illnesses?

greenteaandlimes · 14/04/2026 19:03

Definitely downstairs loo, every time

TheTruthWillSetYouFreeMaybe · 14/04/2026 19:00

We’ve just moved from house with no downstairs loo. Renovated new house - a downstairs loo was top of the list. (I have a medical condition and having to panic in case I couldn’t make it upstairs in time was too much)

bobdylannumber1 · 14/04/2026 18:33

You definitely need a downstairs loo.

Helpwithabuildingissue · 14/04/2026 18:31

If you have the room and are already renovating so it’s an add on in terms of cost & time/efforts I would say it’s a no brainer- you will get almost all of that money back when you come to sell in actual sale price or in terms of the wider catchment of buyers who absolutely wouldn’t consider a 3 bedroom property without a downstairs toilet.

envbeckyc · 14/04/2026 18:29

Definitely get a downstairs loo!

Perfect for young children, and elderly relatives, even if you don’t plan to use it much yourself.

Once you have one, you will never know how you coped without one!

cookielucylou · 14/04/2026 18:22

Might not be your target audience as we just rent but we went from a house with only 1 loo(downstairs bathroom) to a house with 1 loo actually in the house(upstairs) AND an outside loo, the outside loo gets used so much more even with the inconvenience of having to go outside.
Definetly loo downstairs needed.

Lovemeapickledgherkin · 14/04/2026 18:16

Definitely team loo. I’ve just bought a house with just the one bathroom/loo after living in a house with 3 and I’m already looking into an extension that includes downstairs loo…

ColdWaterDipper · 14/04/2026 18:15

Absolutely yes to a downstairs loo, even in a small house. A young family will want a downstairs loo as they will at some point have potty training toddlers, and an older couple downsizing will also want a downstairs loo to save having to trek up and down stairs every time. Plus it’s great for guests not to have to go upstairs. We had an upstairs bathroom with loo and a separate downstairs loo at our last place (2 bed cottage), and we have an upstairs full bathroom with loo, downstairs shower room with loo, and still put in another separate downstairs loo when we did our renovation. It’s purely for guests and saves them going into our downstairs shower room.

strawberrylemonade11 · 14/04/2026 18:08

I’ve lived in houses with and without downstairs loo and I would absolutely have a downstairs loo (currently live in a house with 3 toilets total) It makes life easier especially if you have guests or children

ChinaGranOfTwo · 14/04/2026 18:05

It's a no brainer - if you have the space, why wouldn't you install a downstairs loo?

ThisMellowCat · 14/04/2026 18:05

I’ve not had one and had one. So much better to have one for….. people over who don’t need to tramp upstairs from the garden. Workmen… workmen and people running in the house who need to go desperately

MMUmum · 14/04/2026 17:58

TheBeaTgoeson1 · 13/04/2026 11:58

Please help settle an argument…

Starting on a small renovation. One person thinks that a downstairs loo is important as part of the work, there is space for it.

The other doesn’t see that it adds attraction to a property, and there’s a nice bathroom with loo at the top of the stairs…

Those who have or haven’t got one, who is reasonable?

(It would bring the total of loos in the house to two.)

Oh I wish I'd had a downstaies loo when my Dd was toilet training l, and now I suffer with hip.and leg pain I'm wishing again, absolutely go for it

Pelsall116 · 14/04/2026 17:57

Team downstairs loo

Loulou4022 · 14/04/2026 16:42

2nd loo is always a bonus! There’s only the 2 of us in the house and the number of times we’ve both needed the loo at the same time! Also saves visitors traipsing upstairs.