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Is it me or is smoking cigarettes becoming cool again?

143 replies

Sonato · 12/04/2026 14:46

Just that really.

Seems like its coming back as an aesthetic, bit worrying for the younguns but also has me itching to light up having packed in 20 odd years ago

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NC543210 · 12/04/2026 17:59

I noticed it in the states last year. Three different states (NYC was more weed than cigarettes tbh)

And I commented to my dsis a couple of weeks ago a lot of young people looking outside a bar

I'm a smoker. However 20 lasts me about 3 weeks but at one point was 10 a day.
I do vape now and hate that just as much.

zantez · 12/04/2026 17:56

FrostyPalms · 12/04/2026 17:51

I live in the US, and thankfully this is not something I've noticed here. I rarely see anyone of any age smoking.

I think they do, but it's "medical" marijuana spliffs. Many States have legalised cannabis which is still illegal here. And there's the fentanyl/opiates issue in the US also.

Nowhere is saintly when it comes to addictive substances!

swapsicles · 12/04/2026 17:54

I liked smoking, opening a new packet, hearing the crackle as you inhale and seeing the end burning away.
However it just absolutely stinks and I gave up many years ago. Vapes really don't have the appeal and tbh I think they could even turn out to be worse healthwise.
I am too rewatching This Life and remember that smoking was absolutely everywhere, including my college which had smoking and non smoking common rooms and the top deck of the bus!

Tafelberg · 12/04/2026 17:51

It’s definitely coming back into fashion - there’s an account on Instagram called “@cigfluencers” which posts pictures of celebrities smoking and apparently looking cool doing it. 99k followers. It’s awful.

FrostyPalms · 12/04/2026 17:51

I live in the US, and thankfully this is not something I've noticed here. I rarely see anyone of any age smoking.

Devilsmommy · 12/04/2026 17:47

EmpressaurusKitty · 12/04/2026 15:58

Maybe if packets & anti-smoking campaigns used phrases like SMOKERS STINK or SMOKING IS STUPID as well as the health warnings they’d feel less cool. Or maybe that would increase the attraction, I don’t know.

Im 39 and smoked years before any of the health warnings on packaging. I'll tell you now, if you're already a smoker, those 'smoking kills' packs are ignored. I know smoking kills but I like my cigs so I'll do what I want. I pay enough tax to do it 😅 that's why they'll never completely ban smoking, they take in way too much tax to look lose

freedomformeismotherhood · 12/04/2026 17:41

Its having a come back

No idea why :-S

B1anche · 12/04/2026 17:41

Rainbowdottie · 12/04/2026 17:02

The same with my adult kids. In fact the teenage version of them were horrified by smoking , and now my youngest son particularly,openly admits he loves it and will smoke forevermore!

He doesn't love it. He's addicted to it.

B1anche · 12/04/2026 17:40

I recently spent every day for 3 weeks visiting a dying relative in our local respiratory ward and every single person in my relative's section was an ex-smoker. They were all facing the end of their lives in a painful and degrading way. Perhaps all these people who think it is so cool should spend a few days visiting one of these wards.

Fjff · 12/04/2026 17:05

Yeah go get lung cancer. That'll be so cool

petermaddog · 12/04/2026 17:04

vaping https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/wellness-and-prevention/5-truths-you-need-to-know-about-vaping
i sort of smoke i dont inhale and use a second filter every 4 cigs i use new one
only vice i have at almost 70 dont care ebay is my friend

Rainbowdottie · 12/04/2026 17:02

BunnyLake · 12/04/2026 16:16

My 20 something son smokes and honestly I’m really quite shocked. For a long time it was (thankfully) considered dirty and disgusting. There has never been smoking in our home or anywhere in his life so it was unexpected.

The same with my adult kids. In fact the teenage version of them were horrified by smoking , and now my youngest son particularly,openly admits he loves it and will smoke forevermore!

Whyarepeople · 12/04/2026 17:01

DH and I watch a lot of TV. There was a lot of smoking on TV in the 90s, then it died down a lot in the 2000s but in the last tenish years there's been a very very noticeable uptick in characters smoking on screen. I always point it out. DH is very patient (!). Usually there's no reason for the character to smoke - there's no plot point, no back story, they just smoke. I wonder if something changed in the background, some sort of barrier, legislation, something that encouraged more smoking on screen. Once you pay attention you'll notice it everywhere. It has a subtle but significant effect on people when they see 'cool' people smoking, or people using cigarettes to relax, calm down etc.

Vaguelyclassical · 12/04/2026 16:52

The cool is the Old Movies vibe (and I'm not talking 90's, I'm talking Bette Davis, Bogart and Bacall) where everybody looks elegant and one can smell nothing.
Of course the Russians still smoke like crazy and thus the gorgeous young man (the actor is in fact a Texan) on Heated Rivalry.
Actually, come to think of it, it is all Ilya's fault.

Gettingbysomehow · 12/04/2026 16:46

Stinking like a filthy ashtray isnt my idea of cool neither are brown teeth and yellow fingers. Yuck.

Thingcanonlygetbetter · 12/04/2026 16:43

When my daughter went to Uni she was shocked how many people smoked in her halls. (They are Mumsnet naice halls at a Russell Group uni). She hates it as it breaks up the party when everyone leaves to go out for a smoke. Her bedroom is right by the smoking area too. I don’t know how the afford it tbh.

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 16:37

@likelysuspect Just to add, re. the traffic lights, I don't take any notice of those either. I watch my calories to maintain my weight, so I just look at the calorie value and decide whether it's something I can fit in and whether it's worth it if I'd have to cut something else out. I don't need someone telling me it's red, green or amber.

Error404FucksNotFound · 12/04/2026 16:27

If it is, it's yet more evidence people are getting more stupid.

x2boys · 12/04/2026 16:25

mamaduckbone · 12/04/2026 15:47

I’ve been rewatching This Life and they all smoke constantly. Is it the obsession with all things 90s that’s leading this I wonder.

I have just rewatched this life too ,smoking was everywhwere in the 90,s pubs,clubs restsuraunts
I qualified as a mental health nurse in 1996 and the main lounge for patients was for smokers, staff had a designated smoking room hard to believe now.

Notalotanota2026 · 12/04/2026 16:22

Firesidechatter · 12/04/2026 15:20

I was at a show a few weeks ago and lots of twenty somethings there and a load smoking outside. It just looked a bit grubby and desperate as it always did. Just the folks doing it, having that last draw before going in don’t realise it.

also these weren’t young people with a lot of money, and obvs all hooked, I felt a bit surprised and sad for them. As I used to smoke and it’s a bastard to stop.

I'm an ex Smoker (15 years). I was well aware I looked 'grubby' smoking but I did not give one single shit, as I was addicted to the nicotine not the smelly shit they put in it 🙄

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 16:21

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 16:13

Is it about cult appeal? Or is it just that you want the product, a picture on the front isnt going to change that

I ate a whole easter egg yesterday. The 'traffic light' system on the front did not deter me

I also dont need to see a picture of a big fat lump on the front to deter me either as I see that most days in the mirror!!! lol.

I doubt anyone buys them because of the picture, more that, as you say, it doesn't deter, and some of them are quite interesting, I'm always pleased when I get the blackened lungs.

Notalotanota2026 · 12/04/2026 16:18

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 16:13

Is it about cult appeal? Or is it just that you want the product, a picture on the front isnt going to change that

I ate a whole easter egg yesterday. The 'traffic light' system on the front did not deter me

I also dont need to see a picture of a big fat lump on the front to deter me either as I see that most days in the mirror!!! lol.

I laughed at that last bit 😅😆😅

Notalotanota2026 · 12/04/2026 16:17

BunnyLake · 12/04/2026 16:16

My 20 something son smokes and honestly I’m really quite shocked. For a long time it was (thankfully) considered dirty and disgusting. There has never been smoking in our home or anywhere in his life so it was unexpected.

Nope, not unexpected if his peers etc. are doing the same..

Notalotanota2026 · 12/04/2026 16:16

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BunnyLake · 12/04/2026 16:16

My 20 something son smokes and honestly I’m really quite shocked. For a long time it was (thankfully) considered dirty and disgusting. There has never been smoking in our home or anywhere in his life so it was unexpected.

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