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Is it me or is smoking cigarettes becoming cool again?

143 replies

Sonato · 12/04/2026 14:46

Just that really.

Seems like its coming back as an aesthetic, bit worrying for the younguns but also has me itching to light up having packed in 20 odd years ago

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pippapipps · 12/04/2026 19:10

I really hope not there’s nothing on trend as getting smoking related diseases..as an ex smoker who smoked for 11 years I do worry about the damage I did I started at about 12 and stopped at 23.
Two years ago I was an inpatient in hospital and the lady next to me had emphysema she was told she had to go on oxygen which completely stressed her out she told the doctor she’d stop smoking and he told her it was too late …cancer and respiratory diseases should be enough to put anyone off smoking or vaping

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 19:05

God knows society needs the tax take from it though

NeedAnyHelpWithThatPaperBag · 12/04/2026 19:00

Films and dramas still can't seem to let go of using smoking as an easy trope to indicate "cool and rebel". At least have them vaping instead, lol.

RampantIvy · 12/04/2026 18:58

I can't say that I have noticed an increase in smoking TBH.

I tend to socialise where you can't smoke anyway, and none of my friends smoke. I think only one of DD's friends smokes.

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 18:54

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 18:38

Everyone I know who has succumbed to it was a non-smoker. The only people in my family who escaped it were smokers who died in their 70s. Live to 80 with my family's genes and dementia will get you, so your reasonably healthy body is no use to you anymore. No thank you.

Theres between a 30-50% increase in the risk of developing dementia for smokers

Not great odds

Your post is akin to 'my grandad smoked a pipe until he was 110 and never got ill'

Im not sure the argument that dying younger is the best recipe for avoiding dementia is a good one. Lifestyle factors are hugely significant for dementia. Unfortunately for me.

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 18:38

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 18:33

Smoking hugely increases your risk of dementia, surely you know this!!!

Everyone I know who has succumbed to it was a non-smoker. The only people in my family who escaped it were smokers who died in their 70s. Live to 80 with my family's genes and dementia will get you, so your reasonably healthy body is no use to you anymore. No thank you.

Nervousmummy2 · 12/04/2026 18:37

I’d hope not it smells and is atrocious. I haven’t ever smoked or vaped though.

DugnuttEyeBoogies · 12/04/2026 18:36

WonderingWanda · 12/04/2026 14:48

I expect it's because being skinny is back in. I skinny when I smoked. Unfortunately, when I quite I discovered sugar.

I think this is it. Appetite suppression for the young ones who can’t access Fat Jabs.

It’s awful. I really hoped it was on its way out for good. DC is a gym bunny and hates the very idea of it but I did notice more girls standing around smoking in small groups around his Uni area when I last visited.

Hopefully they will give up soon with the prices!

likelysuspect · 12/04/2026 18:33

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 18:14

The leading cause of death in the UK is dementia and Alzheimers, which is not a smoking-related illness. I would rather die of any illness than that, smoking-related or not.

Smoking hugely increases your risk of dementia, surely you know this!!!

TheHateIsNotGood · 12/04/2026 18:29

Maybe it's part of a 'generational' thing whereby the youngsters of any generation do their best to piss off the generation before them (ie: their parents).

Bertiebiscuit · 12/04/2026 18:23

I was sitting outside in Canary wharf recently and yes, i was really shocked at how many people, young and older, male and female, were smoking.
I'm sure it wasn't like this a few years ago, especially given it's a very smart place.

Mumtobabyhavoc · 12/04/2026 18:23

Definitely not cool.
But, I've noticed smoking seems to be everywhere again.

RS1987 · 12/04/2026 18:17

I’ve noticed this too!!

MundaneTuesdane · 12/04/2026 18:14

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 12/04/2026 18:07

You'd think SMOKING KILLS would put them off, wouldn't you?!

You can't fix stupid but at least they're contributing tax to the economy I suppose.

The leading cause of death in the UK is dementia and Alzheimers, which is not a smoking-related illness. I would rather die of any illness than that, smoking-related or not.

MsPepper · 12/04/2026 18:13

My son has unfortunately picked up the habit. I’m gutted really. My parents were heavy smokers, and our house absolutely stank. I feel like my son had the benefit of a smoke free home, so really has no idea how revolting it is to live with smokers. I’m hoping it’s a phase.

PersonalJaysus · 12/04/2026 18:12

It’s become a signifier of being well off…. Either you’re on constant holidays or can afford it 🙄

vaping is see as being a bit tacky where I am. “Adults with dummies” etc: I actually think it smell worse

ideally none of it would exist!!

Bristolandlazy · 12/04/2026 18:07

I bloody hope not

WhatATimeToBeAlive · 12/04/2026 18:07

EmpressaurusKitty · 12/04/2026 15:58

Maybe if packets & anti-smoking campaigns used phrases like SMOKERS STINK or SMOKING IS STUPID as well as the health warnings they’d feel less cool. Or maybe that would increase the attraction, I don’t know.

You'd think SMOKING KILLS would put them off, wouldn't you?!

You can't fix stupid but at least they're contributing tax to the economy I suppose.

TheNeverEndingOver · 12/04/2026 18:06

Yes, quite a lot of famous younger people smoke cos it’s ‘cool’ again. Timothee Chalamet, Lilly Allen, Kylie and the other one, Dua Lipa, Charlie xcx. They ‘smoke to look cool’ with Lilly Allen and Charlie xcx both doing promotional work smoking as part of the aesthetic. I’m the same age as Lily Allen, and while I do like her, I think it’s idiotic.

FrostyPalms · 12/04/2026 18:05

zantez · 12/04/2026 17:56

I think they do, but it's "medical" marijuana spliffs. Many States have legalised cannabis which is still illegal here. And there's the fentanyl/opiates issue in the US also.

Nowhere is saintly when it comes to addictive substances!

Oh, absolutely. But the OP was talking specifically about cigarettes, I believe. I certainly smell weed whenever I'm in a city.

Crushed23 · 12/04/2026 18:04

DP is a casual smoker, and I’m afraid I do think he looks cool/sexy when he lights up. I have no idea why because it’s been drilled into me since I was a child how disgusting a habit it is.

I think it might have something to do with it being a 90s aesthetic, and me being positively obsessed with the 90s.

bunnyvsmonkey · 12/04/2026 18:02

I work at a university and noticed a definite increase in the numbers of students smoking around the doorways to our buildings.

PrudenceDictates · 12/04/2026 18:00

It's strange that exercise, running, gym-going, attention to diet etc. are all very much more prevalent than in the past; but smoking is coming back into fashion? Seems a bit contradictory.

But then again my dad was always a gym-goer (or the multi-gym, they were called in the 70s!) and a heavy smoker for his entire adult life.
Died aged 70 from lung cancer.

smallglassbottle · 12/04/2026 18:00

I'm really miserable since I stopped smoking. I'm audhd and the loss of dopamine led to depression and craving sugar, so weight gain. It's been 17 years since I quit, I'm still miserable and fat, which will kill me prematurely anyway. Why live to be old if you're destined to get there in a state of misery? And most people die of some horrible illness anyway. You don't get a nice death because you're not a smoker. I suppose you might live more years in ill health before you die, but my damn weight is already causing problems and I'm not even old.

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