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To think garden wind chimes should be banned?!!

131 replies

Youshouldbestrongerthanme · 11/04/2026 00:10

Clearly our neighbours don't seem to think so. We've our bedroom window on the latch because it's a little warm (perimeno) and they are so annoyingly noisy!!

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SweetnsourNZ · 12/04/2026 07:30

user1497787065 · 12/04/2026 06:38

I’m interested in what times you think are appropriate for mowing. There was a complaint on our village FB page about our Lawn mowing. We are in a rural village, mainly OAPs, no young children, large gardens and we mowed between 6 and 8pm on a Saturday. We work and had also been out that day and the forecast wasn’t good for Sunday. Apparently we completely ruined their G and T time!

It's usually in your council by laws but some neighbours are more tolerant than others.

SweetnsourNZ · 12/04/2026 07:28

YayRain · 12/04/2026 05:35

Not sure about a solution. My wind chimes aren't a tit for tat or attempt to annoy the neighbours (bonus if they do). It's merely that I feel like I am able to do something I've always wanted to do, due to their behaviour. It's like they gave me the freedom to do something I didn't do out of consideration before. If that makes sense. I got my wind chimes for me. I wanted them for a long time. I love wind chimes. The consideration factor was just wiped out. I am living my life more freely so, in a sense, they gave me a gift.

Wasn't talking about you personally, just thinking of some of the past threads from people who have some appalling people next to them.

user1497787065 · 12/04/2026 06:38

Whatwouldnanado · 11/04/2026 00:33

Yes. And can we have restrictions on times for lawn mowing? Drives me nuts.

I’m interested in what times you think are appropriate for mowing. There was a complaint on our village FB page about our Lawn mowing. We are in a rural village, mainly OAPs, no young children, large gardens and we mowed between 6 and 8pm on a Saturday. We work and had also been out that day and the forecast wasn’t good for Sunday. Apparently we completely ruined their G and T time!

YayRain · 12/04/2026 05:35

SweetnsourNZ · 12/04/2026 05:13

Think you may have just given some of the posters with those obnoxious noisy neighbours a solution. Provided they can cope with the noise themselves.

Not sure about a solution. My wind chimes aren't a tit for tat or attempt to annoy the neighbours (bonus if they do). It's merely that I feel like I am able to do something I've always wanted to do, due to their behaviour. It's like they gave me the freedom to do something I didn't do out of consideration before. If that makes sense. I got my wind chimes for me. I wanted them for a long time. I love wind chimes. The consideration factor was just wiped out. I am living my life more freely so, in a sense, they gave me a gift.

SweetnsourNZ · 12/04/2026 05:13

YayRain · 11/04/2026 00:33

But do you also say, "Anyone who wants me to be quieter in my own back garden can go fuck themselves" ? Because my neighbours are like that and are finding out that what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

Think you may have just given some of the posters with those obnoxious noisy neighbours a solution. Provided they can cope with the noise themselves.

confusedcrane · 12/04/2026 04:45

HoppityBun · 11/04/2026 19:18

All intrusive noise is very wearing and debilitating, when it goes on and on. This doesn’t need to be a competition of suffering. If you’re experiencing one sort of persistent noise, then that should give some understanding and sympathy withothers who are suffering differently.

The sound of a persistently dripping tap can drive people to distraction.

I can extend the sympathy and understanding when people express less vitriol. Others have mentioned it chronic illness, sensory issues etc. Completely understandable. However when you live in a detached home, it's in someone else's garden presumably with some space, and it's...annoying? Then it's noise pollution, should be banned and curse out people who have them? Bit much for me.

If it doesn't meet a threshold for a formal complaint to a 3rd party then I think you have to accept you can't control it or change it, and expend your energy elsewhere.

If you'd like to compete I have a few plastic medals in the drawer, but I'd recommend against seeing sharing thoughts and personal experiences as a competitive sport on an "AIBU" forum thread.

YayRain · 12/04/2026 01:33

Watcher1984 · 12/04/2026 01:05

Lol wind chimes annoying not even attached but another block up and clang clang every time there's a bit of wind I have to shut my bedroom window....however that's not the bane of my morning someone moved in next door and omg being woken to bounce,bounce of a football long before the lad leaves for school has started driving me nuts as it wakes the little ones and that's with the window shut and he can bounce that darn ball hundreds of times early each morning lol

We get it after school too. And three times on Saturday. This is why I finally felt okay about getting wind chimes. If they can do that, I can do wind chimes.

YayRain · 12/04/2026 01:31

Doubledenim305 · 12/04/2026 00:53

So you just have to be reliant on weather to get peace. Pretty unfair if it's a noise that winds you up.

My neighbours have a noise that is unpredictable and happens every day. That's the only reason I bought wind chimes after years of not doing so to be considerate. They aren't owed the consideration. If the wind chimes wind them up, bonus. That's not why I got them though. I got them because I wanted them, had for years, and they gave me no reason to not get them anymore.

Villanousvillans · 12/04/2026 01:07

AffableApple · 11/04/2026 00:30

It is relentless, selfish, infuriating, utterly pointless noise pollution. Anyone who has them up can go fuck themselves.

Why don’t you say what you really mean? 😉

Watcher1984 · 12/04/2026 01:05

Lol wind chimes annoying not even attached but another block up and clang clang every time there's a bit of wind I have to shut my bedroom window....however that's not the bane of my morning someone moved in next door and omg being woken to bounce,bounce of a football long before the lad leaves for school has started driving me nuts as it wakes the little ones and that's with the window shut and he can bounce that darn ball hundreds of times early each morning lol

Doubledenim305 · 12/04/2026 00:53

YayRain · 12/04/2026 00:49

Wind chimes are not constant. It's not windy all the time. Sometimes they are silent for days.

So you just have to be reliant on weather to get peace. Pretty unfair if it's a noise that winds you up.

Doubledenim305 · 12/04/2026 00:53

Youshouldbestrongerthanme · 11/04/2026 00:19

@StopUsingChatGPT Definitely metal! Incredibly clangy!! Perhaps it's just my age... 😆

No they are FAR too loud and a total noise pest. Absolutely shouldn't be allowed. Thier pleasure is your discomfort. Very inconsiderate

YayRain · 12/04/2026 00:49

cadburyegg · 12/04/2026 00:43

YANBU they are awful.

Moved into my current house nearly 9 years ago, the first weekend I cut down the wind chimes in the garden because the noise drove me insane., our neighbour who we’d obviously only just met made a point of thanking me for getting rid of them!!

I now have two quite loud children and my neighbour now has 4 dogs but at least any noise they make is not CONSTANT.

Wind chimes are not constant. It's not windy all the time. Sometimes they are silent for days.

cadburyegg · 12/04/2026 00:43

YANBU they are awful.

Moved into my current house nearly 9 years ago, the first weekend I cut down the wind chimes in the garden because the noise drove me insane., our neighbour who we’d obviously only just met made a point of thanking me for getting rid of them!!

I now have two quite loud children and my neighbour now has 4 dogs but at least any noise they make is not CONSTANT.

StrikeForever · 12/04/2026 00:00

YayRain · 11/04/2026 23:30

Depends on the neighbour. I would for one side. The other side, I'd buy another one to go with it.

That’s why I said if a neighbour approached me like the PP approached hers 😜

YayRain · 11/04/2026 23:42

UnplugTheJukebox · 11/04/2026 22:29

But that poster is correct. Anyone with an ounce of consideration for others wouldn't have windchimes. They actually cause me awful anxiety.

I love wind chimes and didn't buy them because I am a considerate person and knew the neighbours might not like them. Then the neighbours showed they weren't considerate so I decided, oh well, I don't have to be either. So I got my always wanted wind chimes because they made me not care. If I knew they annoyed them, I'd shrug and not care one bit. They brought it on themselves.

YayRain · 11/04/2026 23:30

StrikeForever · 11/04/2026 17:02

That must be so difficult for you. If a neighbour came to me like you did with your neighbour, I’d take mine down.

Depends on the neighbour. I would for one side. The other side, I'd buy another one to go with it.

StrikeForever · 11/04/2026 22:45

UnplugTheJukebox · 11/04/2026 22:29

But that poster is correct. Anyone with an ounce of consideration for others wouldn't have windchimes. They actually cause me awful anxiety.

They cause you awful anxiety. They don’t cause everyone anxiety. My neighbours like mine. If they disliked them, I’d remove them. Do I have windchimes and I am neither selfish, or a moron.

ultracynic · 11/04/2026 22:38

UnplugTheJukebox · 11/04/2026 22:24

And your neighbours probably think "I don't care if the dogs yap and annoy the neighbours - they're inconsiderate bastards anyway with their windchimes".

Personally I would ban them.

The dogs have been yapping for a lot longer than my lovely chimes, I feel no guilt.

UnplugTheJukebox · 11/04/2026 22:29

StrikeForever · 11/04/2026 22:18

I think you may be projecting there. That ridiculous, sweeping statement makes you sound like a moron.

But that poster is correct. Anyone with an ounce of consideration for others wouldn't have windchimes. They actually cause me awful anxiety.

UnplugTheJukebox · 11/04/2026 22:24

ultracynic · 11/04/2026 01:03

I have big wind chimes hanging from a tree, they’re about a metre tall and have a very low chiming sound, not at all tinkly. I love them, and don’t care what my neighbours think as they let their dogs yap all the time.

And your neighbours probably think "I don't care if the dogs yap and annoy the neighbours - they're inconsiderate bastards anyway with their windchimes".

Personally I would ban them.

StrikeForever · 11/04/2026 22:18

CarolinaLiar · 11/04/2026 18:56

The thing is. The type of people that hang them do not give a shit about others. They are morons. So I doubt a polite request to take them down would even register in their slurry brains.

I think you may be projecting there. That ridiculous, sweeping statement makes you sound like a moron.

Familylimbo · 11/04/2026 21:45

I feel this way about people cutting their fucking grass as soon as it’s a little bright, every fucking day! As soon as one starts they’re all at it, then gets back round to the first one who done to do it again and it’s a whole summer thing!! Should be a specific grass cutting day where everyone does it!! Infuriating

winnieanddaisy · 11/04/2026 21:32

When my DD was about 20 we lived around the corner from my brother in law and his wife . There was a house on the corner (other half of my semi) between the two of us . They had a wind chime in the back garden which drove my DD mad when she was trying to get to sleep . Anyway she decided to dare her slightly younger cousin to get rid of it . A couple of days later when he was on his way back from the pub DNephew chucked it in the bin 😂. Peace was restored and the boy person annoyed by it was BIL . Neighbour wasn’t bothered so it was probably getting on his nerves too .

DarkRose7 · 11/04/2026 21:29

Having experienced this myself in a mid terrace house, I find it utterly infuriating. Our neighbours had the clangy metal kind and had them no more than 2 metres from our daughter’s bedroom window. The amount to times she woke through the night on a windy night was terrible. Completely inconsiderate. Luckily they’ve moved now and peace has been restored to the neighbourhood.

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