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AIBU to think Merlin Ride Access passes are unfairly judged?

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Festivalfanatic · 09/04/2026 11:14

We went to one of the Merlin parks Easter weekend and over the years I’ve seen many people get angry at Ride access lines and nothing has changed it seems.
this particular day it seemed everyone was on their high horse about it. Including one man exclaiming to his wife “ they let too many specials in “
then social media the last few days now the parks are open have loads of videos about RAP “ queue Jumpers “.

My DD has a RAP card and we wait just as long as everyone else sometimes longer than others to get on rides. It’s not instant access.

the pass times out for the length of time that the main line states and then you can’t use it again until it times back in. Then when it does time back in you have to go and scan in the ride you want and then there is also a line ( ok not as long as the main line ) but we will have to wait that amount of time anyway. Plus the waiting time in the RAP line. They do not let all the RAP line in its usually 1-2 at a time per ride. The rest is from the main line and then we get timed out for the length of time the queue indicates on top of the time we have already waited.
how would removing it or it not existing help the main line ? It would just actually make it longer so you would still be waiting averagely longer to ride anyway !
why do people judge it so much ?

what is the alternative ?

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Festivalfanatic · 15/04/2026 08:13

nomas · 15/04/2026 07:38

are the general public happy to wait slightly longer so disabled people can access the same experience at all.

Absolutely happy with this, but not so happy with those who abuse system, which means you’re not waiting slightly longer, you’re waiting an hour longer.

I can’t understand why you think you would be waiting an hour longer based on this ?

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nomas · 15/04/2026 07:38

SleeplessInWherever · 11/04/2026 20:56

You’re right - we wouldn’t be in the main queue, my son wouldn’t be able to manage it.

So I guess the top of bottom of it is; are the general public happy to wait slightly longer so disabled people can access the same
experience at all.

It’s a shame in some cases the answer is no.

are the general public happy to wait slightly longer so disabled people can access the same experience at all.

Absolutely happy with this, but not so happy with those who abuse system, which means you’re not waiting slightly longer, you’re waiting an hour longer.

nomas · 15/04/2026 07:22

snowymarbles · 12/04/2026 10:07

@Festivalfanaticmy ex has adult diagnosed adhd and anxiety / he has a RAP. I am not convinced he really needs it.

he will take the kids and his sister - none of them would bother going if it wasn’t for RAP.

This is the point, the system is being abused, and you can sometimes see and hear the smug kids and adults in the faster queue crow about being able to take the ride so many times, especially when it’s a popular ride.

Unequalworld · 15/04/2026 07:19

Festivalfanatic · 09/04/2026 11:29

a disabled child should never get to go to a theme park ?

Apparently not, according to some, they should stay at home. I'm appalled at some of these comments.

I don't think people realise a virtual queue means you still wait for a ride, just not stood in the queue

Piglet89 · 15/04/2026 07:15

@metellaestinatrioyour post is spot on and I particularly identify with your second paragraph (as you can see if you read my previous posts). Merlin are incompetent and greedy and that’s about the height of it. I was thinking about parks in Europe and betting they were better managed than those here.

Life in the UK in many ways just seems increasingly shit TBH.

metellaestinatrio · 15/04/2026 06:58

One of the issues here is the number of people who can accompany the person with the pass - I understand that it is set so as to allow a “typical” family of four to go on rides together, but really only the person with the RAP plus one other (to care for them) should get the priority as otherwise the system is open to abuse. Wasn’t there a news story relatively recently about a man who was offering (for a fee) to take strangers into Disneyland Paris as his “family members” so they could benefit from his enhanced disability access? Abuse aside (and hopefully those cases are rare) if every person with an RAP brings three others with them the RAP queue gets longer and longer, meaning those who are supposed to benefit - the disabled holder of the pass - are still forced to wait.

The other is that the parks are fundamentally badly managed. I have just returned from a trip to another European country where I took my kids to a brilliant theme park. In seven hours there I saw only one person being given priority access to a ride and he was clearly quite severely disabled and with a carer. There was no need for anyone else to jump the queue because the queues all around the park were pretty short, despite it being the school holidays in that country. Why can’t Merlin manage things better so priority access is less beneficial and therefore desirable? Because they just want to cram more people in and make money from selling fast passes. It’s shit.

Nmss · 12/04/2026 14:26

I remember the day that Wickerman opened at AT a few years ago, the RAP queues were reported (by many people) on fbk RAP groups to be over three hours at some stages during the day. I remember thinking that all the leople using RAP for that ride at three hours clearly can queue.

We took DS to Blackpool pleasure beach that day, we planned it knowing it was likely to be quieter.

snowymarbles · 12/04/2026 10:07

@Festivalfanaticmy ex has adult diagnosed adhd and anxiety / he has a RAP. I am not convinced he really needs it.

he will take the kids and his sister - none of them would bother going if it wasn’t for RAP.

MaturingCheeseball · 12/04/2026 09:59

I had a bit of a Google, and came across loads of “advice” on how to get RAP passes, what to say etc.

I suppose it’s nigh-on impossible to really weed out scammers, or even people who believe they deserve one (but who really don’t).

I think I would for a start ban over18s anxiety passes in the absence of other disabilities. Eg some people can travel to the airport, negotiate airport, fly 9 hours to Florida, suffer long immigration queue (once it was 4 hours for us), travel to accommodation BUT suddenly not be able to queue for a ride because of anxiety.

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2026 20:59

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 11/04/2026 11:43

@Anewuser According to Merlin’s website, the number of RAPs allowed to enter per day is restricted. Once they are full, no more people with RAPs can enter the park; although as they have to be prebooked, there may be cancellations freeing up more spaces.

Those who cannot prebook a RAP that day, have the option of joining the main queues.

Anyway, the person with the RAP can only take three companions with them, presumably to accommodate the typical family with two children.

@Bushmillsbabe - you haven’t answered my question. Why is there thread after thread, complaining about concessions for the disabled at theme parks; but not about the better off people who buy fast track passes?

I'm not complaining about the concession, I use the concession and benefit greatly from it. I never said anywhere that it shouldn't be available to those who would be unable to visit without it.

Yes, I am aware that numbers are limited, I spend 8+ hours refreshing the RAP page on the release dates to try to secure some, and with these limits,there should be no lengthy queues at RAP entrances.

However, some do abuse the system - at legoland I saw families operating the app and a paper pass in parallel - having gone to guest services and said their app wasn't working when it was. Of course I am going to have a negative opinion on this, as its causing those with disabilities to have to wait longer.

The parks don't make much profit, if they didn't sell fast passes, they would have to put up ticket prices. And some of those on fast passes are people with disabilities, using their DLA/PIP to fund them, as they couldn't get a RAP pass due to limits on them. We were talking to a family from abroad who had a son with terminal cancer, massive lego fan, so they bought the passes to make the best experience for him. I don't judge anyone using a fast pass, as I don't know their circumstances or reasons for using. I wouldn't judge anyone using a RAP for same reason.

SleeplessInWherever · 11/04/2026 20:56

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2026 20:43

No they wouldn't be in the main line, if they need a RAP they wouldn't be able to queue in an hour plus line.

Even with letting on that many the RAP queue was well over 30 mins, so they had a difficult decision over whether to let it get even longer, or let lots on each time, making the main queue longer.

You’re right - we wouldn’t be in the main queue, my son wouldn’t be able to manage it.

So I guess the top of bottom of it is; are the general public happy to wait slightly longer so disabled people can access the same
experience at all.

It’s a shame in some cases the answer is no.

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2026 20:43

Festivalfanatic · 11/04/2026 17:49

Well no because everyone would be in the main line it wouldn’t the line would just be longer in which the time would still be as long.
nowhere have I seen them let on so many rap per main line.
also a couple from rap and most from thr main line and also a lot of fast tracks.

No they wouldn't be in the main line, if they need a RAP they wouldn't be able to queue in an hour plus line.

Even with letting on that many the RAP queue was well over 30 mins, so they had a difficult decision over whether to let it get even longer, or let lots on each time, making the main queue longer.

MandemChickenShop · 11/04/2026 18:06

Just ignore any comments OP and forget about SM. Theres always a dickhead with an opinion. Don't let the pricks get you down.

Festivalfanatic · 11/04/2026 17:49

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2026 09:59

I have a RAP, so there isn't an issue for me (apart from so many people having RAP that the queues were still too long to be manageable in many cases).

On skylion for example, they were taking 30 from the RAP queue and 40 from the main queue. If no RAP queue they would take 70 from main queue so it would move nearly twice as quickly, so that would benefit the main line significantly.

But my main point was that people aren't annoyed with specific disabled people, they are annoyed that they are having to wait longer themselves.

Well no because everyone would be in the main line it wouldn’t the line would just be longer in which the time would still be as long.
nowhere have I seen them let on so many rap per main line.
also a couple from rap and most from thr main line and also a lot of fast tracks.

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Festivalfanatic · 11/04/2026 17:47

modgepodge · 11/04/2026 12:25

I think all these things already happen - numbers of RAP are restricted (have to be prebooked), fast pass sales are restricted. I have no idea how many of each are allowed each day. But I think either/both need to be restricted more, or they need to restrict how many come in to the park so the queues in general are smaller. But all that would cost Merlin money, so it won’t happen.

restricting further is not fair on those disabled though and it will still have no impact on the length of the main line.
the main line is not long because of RAP.

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modgepodge · 11/04/2026 12:25

Anewuser · 11/04/2026 11:06

I wonder how they’ll sort the problem out?

We used to go regularly twenty years ago. We used to use the exit pass (wasn’t called RAP then), and got on the ride after no more than a five minute wait. Is it because too many people are disabled now?

You’re not going to cure a disability so places with have to come up with another method of restricting passes - they’re clearly not going to restrict numbers of paying customers.

When we try to park in disabled parking, if there isn’t a space because we’re too late and they’ve already gone, we have a choice. Park further back in the main car park or not go in. Maybe, the RAP will have to become first come, first served, when they’ve given out the allotted amount of RAP then no more can be allocated. Although, surely they would need to do the same with the paid for Fast Passes?

Alternatively, you pre-book your RAP so you know you’ll be guaranteed a pass, or you’re aware there are no more available for your day visit?

I think all these things already happen - numbers of RAP are restricted (have to be prebooked), fast pass sales are restricted. I have no idea how many of each are allowed each day. But I think either/both need to be restricted more, or they need to restrict how many come in to the park so the queues in general are smaller. But all that would cost Merlin money, so it won’t happen.

BlueandWhitePorcelain · 11/04/2026 11:43

@Anewuser According to Merlin’s website, the number of RAPs allowed to enter per day is restricted. Once they are full, no more people with RAPs can enter the park; although as they have to be prebooked, there may be cancellations freeing up more spaces.

Those who cannot prebook a RAP that day, have the option of joining the main queues.

Anyway, the person with the RAP can only take three companions with them, presumably to accommodate the typical family with two children.

@Bushmillsbabe - you haven’t answered my question. Why is there thread after thread, complaining about concessions for the disabled at theme parks; but not about the better off people who buy fast track passes?

Anewuser · 11/04/2026 11:06

I wonder how they’ll sort the problem out?

We used to go regularly twenty years ago. We used to use the exit pass (wasn’t called RAP then), and got on the ride after no more than a five minute wait. Is it because too many people are disabled now?

You’re not going to cure a disability so places with have to come up with another method of restricting passes - they’re clearly not going to restrict numbers of paying customers.

When we try to park in disabled parking, if there isn’t a space because we’re too late and they’ve already gone, we have a choice. Park further back in the main car park or not go in. Maybe, the RAP will have to become first come, first served, when they’ve given out the allotted amount of RAP then no more can be allocated. Although, surely they would need to do the same with the paid for Fast Passes?

Alternatively, you pre-book your RAP so you know you’ll be guaranteed a pass, or you’re aware there are no more available for your day visit?

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2026 09:59

Festivalfanatic · 10/04/2026 21:58

I’m still not really understanding the impact on the abled.

from this thread it seems to be mainly about disabled people maybe being able to ride 1 maybe 2 extra rides and being able to eat lunch.

now if this was removed how would that benefit the main line ?

it still wouldn’t benefit you at all

the rap pass disappearing won’t make that toddler get on the ride any quicker.

I have a RAP, so there isn't an issue for me (apart from so many people having RAP that the queues were still too long to be manageable in many cases).

On skylion for example, they were taking 30 from the RAP queue and 40 from the main queue. If no RAP queue they would take 70 from main queue so it would move nearly twice as quickly, so that would benefit the main line significantly.

But my main point was that people aren't annoyed with specific disabled people, they are annoyed that they are having to wait longer themselves.

Festivalfanatic · 10/04/2026 21:58

Bushmillsbabe · 10/04/2026 17:58

I don't think it actually is judgement in many cases.

They care that they are having to wait longer, that their toddler is struggling to queue because they are little, that they have spent a fortune on a day out to try to have fun with their family, and are not getting on many rides. People are generally most focused on their family, and if they feel that something is making their families day less enjoyable, then they are going to be frustrated, thats not aimed at a specific person, but the situation. They might have a 'face on' because they are tired and have a 3 year old whinging that they need the toilet and are debating whether they will make the ride before their child wets themself, or if they should leave the queue after 80 mins queuing. Just as people with disabilities want to have a fun day out with their families, people without disabilities also want to.

I’m still not really understanding the impact on the abled.

from this thread it seems to be mainly about disabled people maybe being able to ride 1 maybe 2 extra rides and being able to eat lunch.

now if this was removed how would that benefit the main line ?

it still wouldn’t benefit you at all

the rap pass disappearing won’t make that toddler get on the ride any quicker.

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FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 10/04/2026 20:12

AmazeAmaze · 10/04/2026 19:02

It’s not actually a virtual queuing system they have currently for the RAP. They just time the RAP out for the length of the queue that they are jumping. So if they want to go on Nemesis and the normal queue is 2 hours, they instead use the RAP which is the shorter queue, but they can’t join another RAP shorter queue for 2 hours. Then if they want to go on Smiler after those 2 hours are up and Smiler has an hour queue, they get into the RAP queue but then can’t use it again for one hour. So it’s not really a virtual queue. They don’t get given a specific time slot to come back. They just can’t use the pass until a certain length of time has passed.

Oooooh. Sorry there; I misunderstood. I mean, honestly, I find this all insane. A disabled child is not a fucking queue jumper; there have to be accommodations in place for them to experience the park if they wouldn’t be able to without those accommodations. I think a wide-scale virtual queuing system might still be the answer; then everyone queues virtually so everyone is happy and no one complains about their 3 year old being awful in queues, and then do away with all this RAP card stuff for disabled people and they just give you a pass and you DO go to the front of the line (I do understand there will be piss takers, so you’ll need some kind of limits in place, like only those who qualify for DLA or PIP).

I mean, we’ve reached an incredible level of person-based enshittification in this world if people are complaining about a disabled child “jumping the queue.” It just seems like a better solution for everyone could have been implemented.

SummerFrog2026 · 10/04/2026 20:04

hopspot · 10/04/2026 16:49

I think it’s you that misunderstands. At no point am I spiteful or blaming anyone. You’re projecting rather.

I stand by my point. The majority of children don’t have unlimited access to things. That’s life. Should all children have equity? Absolutely.

For crying out loud. The post I originally quoted wasn't even yours. Why are you making this about you?

AmazeAmaze · 10/04/2026 19:02

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 10/04/2026 18:59

This is 100% the problem. When a queue gets over maybe 15 minutes, they should start a virtual queue, and if you’re not back within X minutes when you’re called, you lose your spot to the next person. If they already HAVE a virtual queuing system, why not extend it to everyone?

It’s not actually a virtual queuing system they have currently for the RAP. They just time the RAP out for the length of the queue that they are jumping. So if they want to go on Nemesis and the normal queue is 2 hours, they instead use the RAP which is the shorter queue, but they can’t join another RAP shorter queue for 2 hours. Then if they want to go on Smiler after those 2 hours are up and Smiler has an hour queue, they get into the RAP queue but then can’t use it again for one hour. So it’s not really a virtual queue. They don’t get given a specific time slot to come back. They just can’t use the pass until a certain length of time has passed.

FFSToEverythingSince2020 · 10/04/2026 18:59

Mumsntfan1 · 09/04/2026 11:27

Surely it would be better is everybody could be in a virtual queue?

This is 100% the problem. When a queue gets over maybe 15 minutes, they should start a virtual queue, and if you’re not back within X minutes when you’re called, you lose your spot to the next person. If they already HAVE a virtual queuing system, why not extend it to everyone?

Piglet89 · 10/04/2026 18:55

Bushmillsbabe · 10/04/2026 17:58

I don't think it actually is judgement in many cases.

They care that they are having to wait longer, that their toddler is struggling to queue because they are little, that they have spent a fortune on a day out to try to have fun with their family, and are not getting on many rides. People are generally most focused on their family, and if they feel that something is making their families day less enjoyable, then they are going to be frustrated, thats not aimed at a specific person, but the situation. They might have a 'face on' because they are tired and have a 3 year old whinging that they need the toilet and are debating whether they will make the ride before their child wets themself, or if they should leave the queue after 80 mins queuing. Just as people with disabilities want to have a fun day out with their families, people without disabilities also want to.

Plenty of chance to take a toddler when they’re older and more able to queue.

But many people’s disabled children will always be disabled.